<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863</id><updated>2012-01-05T07:15:59.982-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Samurai-Leader</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>74</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-8319811851230572894</id><published>2012-01-05T07:14:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-05T07:16:00.109-08:00</updated><title type='text'>COMMUNICATION - How to Be a Great Communicator</title><content type='html'>"Nothing can add more power &lt;br /&gt; to your life than concentrating all your energies on a limited set of targets."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;—Nido Qubein: is a businessman and motivational speaker &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The ability to communicate is a rare and valuable skill.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most people think "talking" and "communicating" are the same thing. Yet they are very different. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; For those who learn to truly communicate, the rewards are great, both financially and personally. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Those rewards are real and well within YOUR grasp right now, regardless of your age, education, background, or job.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Friend,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No matter how strong you are in other areas, if you are a weak communicator, you just can't expect to be successful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you can't get your thoughts and ideas across clearly, succinctly, and convincingly to others, how can you expect to advance... in your job, or in your personal life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Poor communication skills are the reason why so many people never reach the financial and career goals they set for themselves, and why so many people never achieve their full potential.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But for those who can truly communicate, the rewards are tremendous:&lt;br /&gt;Good communicators are able to exercise influence over others. They're able to get more people to like them and respond favorably to their requests.&lt;br /&gt;Good communicators can help others to understand ideas and beliefs important to them.&lt;br /&gt;Good communicators can lift the spirits of others, give them hope, and bring comfort and inspiration.&lt;br /&gt;Good communicators become natural leaders.&lt;br /&gt;It's time for YOU to master &lt;br /&gt;the art and skill of great communication!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We offer a unique audio program by the remarkable and incomparable Nido Qubein titled How to Be a Great Communicator, that will teach you to become a master of this enormously powerful and highly advantageous skill. You'll discover:&lt;br /&gt;How to get people to want to pay attention to you. (There are three surprisingly easy techniques.)&lt;br /&gt;How to listen. (Most of us are so busy planning what we're going to say next, we don't listen.)&lt;br /&gt;How to build charisma. (You may think you have the charisma of a clam, but the seven strategies you'll learn will turn you around 180 degrees.)&lt;br /&gt;How to make an effective speech. (This one session alone could be invaluable because most people don't know how to speak effectively.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All of this is organized into an impactful program that makes this critical skill easy to learn. As a matter of fact, you will astounded by how quickly you absorb so much immediately-applicable information. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's because Nido Qubein has mastered the highest level of teaching. He is an extremely successful entrepreneur, business leader, investor, and currently the Dean of High Point University. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;How to Be a Great Communicator &lt;/span&gt;gives you an extraordinary opportunity to learn a skill few people have. Learning that skill will give you a huge advantage in life and bring you rich rewards, both financial and emotional.&lt;br /&gt; Get a head start on being a better communicator tomorrow, by ordering this transformational program today!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sincerely,&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-8319811851230572894?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/8319811851230572894/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2012/01/communication-how-to-be-great.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/8319811851230572894'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/8319811851230572894'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2012/01/communication-how-to-be-great.html' title='COMMUNICATION - How to Be a Great Communicator'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-6825895228821689032</id><published>2012-01-05T06:31:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-05T06:32:46.308-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Tragedy at Toyota: How Not to Lead in Crisis</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Tragedy at Toyota: How Not to Lead in Crisis&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Posted by Bill George | 0 Comments | Filed in: 7 Lessons, Business, Crisis, Leadership &lt;br /&gt;      &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Originally Posted in Harvard Business School Working Knowledge on February 22, 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Toyota's ever-widening problems are a tragic case study in how not to lead in crisis.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Under the media spotlight, Toyota CEO Akio Toyoda, grandson of the founder, went into hiding and sent American CEO Jim Lentz to make apologies. (Editor's note: Toyoda has agreed to appear before a Congressional inquiry this week.) Meanwhile, he let serious product quality issues spiral out of control by understating safety risks and product problems. This left the media, politicians, and consumers to dictate the conversation, while Toyota fumbled the responses.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Disingenuous quasi-apologies and disjointed plans for resolution have been Toyota's substitute for crisis response. As accounts pour in about declining quality, the company parades out relatively unknown mid-level managers to quell the firestorm.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It won't work. "You live by the sword; you die by the sword." Toyota's weapon of choice has always been quality, a competitive advantage that prompted many Americans to stop buying GM and Ford brands. Toyota can only regain its footing by transforming itself from top to bottom to deliver the highest quality automobiles.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When terrorists laced Tylenol capsules with cyanide in the mid-1980s, Johnson &amp; Johnson CEO Jim Burke understood his company credo challenged him to put the needs of customers first. Although J&amp;J was not responsible for these problems, Burke nevertheless recalled every Tylenol product from the market.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is not a crisis of faulty brakes and accelerators, but a leadership crisis. During Chrysler's 1980s crisis, CEO Lee Iacocca took charge, restoring consumer trust and prosperity. When General Motors emerged from bankruptcy last summer, Chairman Ed Whitacre became the trustworthy, determined face of the company's comeback.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Toyota needs a credible leader with a strong, cohesive plan. Mr. Toyoda is anything but. His uninspired words of optimism from Davos only unnerved customers and U.S. regulators. Meanwhile, Ford and GM are working hard to regain the market share they lost at Toyota's expense.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How can Akio Toyoda get Toyota back on track? I offer recommendations based on my recent book, 7 Lessons for Leading in Crisis.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1: Face reality, starting with yourself. Faced with multiple reports of accidents from sticking accelerators, Toyota blamed the problems on stuck floor mats and panicky drivers. Instead, Toyota should acknowledge that its vaunted quality system failed. CEO Toyoda should take personal responsibility by saying that he pushed too hard for growth and neglected quality. By admitting his errors, he gives every Toyota employee permission to acknowledge mistakes and to get on with correcting them, instead of denying reality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2: Don't be Atlas; get the world off your shoulders. Toyoda cannot expect to solve problems of this magnitude himself. Instead, he needs a crisis team reporting directly to him, working 24/7 to get problems fixed—permanently. He also needs outside counsel, as he appears to be listening only to insiders who are defensive about criticism. He should add the world's top quality experts to his fix-it team and listen carefully to their advice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3: Dig deep for the root cause. When Toyota's problems first surfaced, the company blamed a symptom—loose floor mats—and exonerated the accelerators. Instead, management should have required its best engineers to get to the root cause of this problem and every other quality problem being reported. This is basic engineering and quality discipline.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4: Get ready for the long haul. These problems won't just fade away. In fact, they are likely to get worse before getting better. Just as the seeds were sown over the past ten years by placing growth ahead of customer concerns and quality, digging deep into problems will likely uncover more quality concerns that will take years to resolve. Toyota must invest heavily in corrective actions while its sales shrink and profits implode, requiring major cash resources until its reputation can be restored.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5: Never waste a good crisis. For all the pain Toyota is experiencing, this crisis provides a unique opportunity to make fundamental changes required to restore Toyota quality. The crisis is melting away the denial and resistance that existed in recent years. Employees are ready for new direction, and they are willing to make radical changes to renew the company. With Toyoda's leadership, Toyota automobiles can be restored to the world's highest quality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6: You're in the spotlight: follow True North. In a crisis, people insist on hearing from the leader. Akio Toyoda can't send out public relations specialists or his American executives to explain what happened. Having lost sight of his company's True North—its values and principles—Toyoda must come out of hiding, take personal responsibility, and subject himself to intense questioning by regulators and the media. Then he should make a personal commitment to every Toyota customer to repair the damage, including buying back defective cars.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7: Go on offense; focus on winning now. Coming out of this crisis, the market will never look the same. GM and Ford are rapidly regaining market share, while the confidence of Toyota's loyal customers is badly shaken. Toyota cannot wait until all its quality problems are resolved. It must play defense and offense simultaneously. To win, Toyota has to offer advanced features and superior quality, better value for consumers, greater safety, and improved fuel efficiency.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a challenging menu, and this crisis is the true test of Akio Toyoda's leadership. Is Toyota up to these challenges? I believe this is a great company that will resurrect its reputation and restore its leadership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.billgeorge.org/blog/category/7%20Lessons&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-6825895228821689032?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/6825895228821689032/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2012/01/tragedy-at-toyota-how-not-to-lead-in.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/6825895228821689032'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/6825895228821689032'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2012/01/tragedy-at-toyota-how-not-to-lead-in.html' title='Tragedy at Toyota: How Not to Lead in Crisis'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-8224720306376356674</id><published>2012-01-05T06:27:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-05T06:29:50.042-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Five Resolutions for Aspiring Leaders</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Five Resolutions for Aspiring Leaders&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Posted Dec 31, 2011 by Bill George &amp; John Coleman | 0 Comments | Filed in: Leadership &lt;br /&gt;      &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Originially Posted on 0 Comments&lt;br /&gt;December 30, 2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As the New Year approaches, people will be making resolutions to eat better, exercise more, get that promotion at work, or spend more time with their families. While these are worthwhile goals, we have a more important challenge for young people: Think seriously about your development as a leader.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These are tough times. Many leaders of the baby boomer generation have failed in their responsibilities by placing their self-interest ahead of their organizations. In so doing, they have failed to serve society's best interests. As a result, more young leaders from Gen X and the Millennials are being asked to take on major leadership responsibilities. To be prepared for the challenges you will face, we propose the following resolutions this New Year's:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Find a trustworthy mentor: Mentorship is a critical component of your development as a leader. A 2004 study showed that young leaders with mentors were more likely succeed professionally and experience career satisfaction. The essence of effective mentoring is developing a trusting relationship between the mentor and mentee. Identify someone with whom you have a genuine chemistry and who is committed to your development. Although many mentees do not realize it, a sound relationship is a two-way street that benefits both parties — not just the mentee. We suggest looking for mentors whom you admire for their values and character more than their success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Form a leadership development group: Most of us have little time to reflect on the values and characteristics we want to define us as leaders, the difficulties we're facing, or the long-term impact we hope to have. Forming a leadership development group can give you the space you need to think deeply about these subjects. Leadership development groups are groups of six to eight people who meet to share their personal challenges and discuss the most important questions in their lives. Find people you can trust, and make a commitment to be one another's confidential counselors. Meet regularly, and share openly your life stories, crucibles, passions and fears, while offering each other honest feedback.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Volunteer in a civic or service organization: Have you served your community this year? In the Facebook era it's easy to lose touch with our real-world neighbors. Long hours often cause us to avoid volunteer opportunities. Participating in local organizations — from religious organizations to civic groups — can give you early leadership experiences, provide real connection to your neighbors, and offer opportunities to serve others. It adds a dimension to your life that work can't, and helps you develop and solidify your character while giving back to the community. You will find your time serving a community organization is highly rewarding while broadening your outlook on people and life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Work in or travel to one new country: "The world is flat," as Tom Friedman puts it, so it has never been more important to get global experience. In the future cultural sensitivity will be a more important characteristic for leaders than pure intellectual ability. John's survey of more than 500 top MBAs found that on average they had worked in four countries prior to entering graduate school and expect to work in five more in the next ten years. Having a global mindset and the ability to collaborate effectively across cultures are essential qualities for aspiring leaders of global organizations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally, ask more questions than you answer: With the high velocity of change in the world, it is impossible to have answers to all the important questions. Much more important is a deep curiosity about the world and the ability to frame the right questions in profound ways. The world's toughest problems cannot be solved by you or any one organization. Your role will be to bring the right people together to address the challenging issues you raise. Our research demonstrates that the biggest mistakes result from decisions made by people without deep consideration of thoughtful questions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Young leaders will soon be asked to take on major leadership responsibilities in their organizations and their communities. We believe it is essential that they take steps like these in order to be prepared for the difficult leadership challenges they will face. There's no better time to get started than the coming year.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.billgeorge.org/page/five-resolutions-for-aspiring-leaders&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-8224720306376356674?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/8224720306376356674/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2012/01/five-resolutions-for-aspiring-leaders.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/8224720306376356674'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/8224720306376356674'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2012/01/five-resolutions-for-aspiring-leaders.html' title='Five Resolutions for Aspiring Leaders'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-5228965385596976785</id><published>2012-01-02T06:22:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-02T06:23:27.117-08:00</updated><title type='text'>The Seven Learnable Traits Of The Fantastically Wealthy</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Written by Jonny August 12th, 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The wealthy all have some defining characteristics that have been responsible for their wealth. These are learnable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why Read (1000 Words)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The wealthy all have some defining characteristics that have been responsible for their wealth. These are learnable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Money Non Secret&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don’t think it is a secret that most people would like to own a lot of money. Most people would like to be rich, have lots of mulah, coinage or dough. However, there is a difference between being rich and being wealthy. The wealthy are indeed rich, but the rich are not always wealthy. Cryptic I know, but stick with me a few more sentences.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can win the lottery, become famous or earn a huge paycheck and become rich, but not necessarily wealthy. Millions can easily disappear within a few years which is why most lottery winners return to their previous level of wealth within 5 years of winning and American football stars are, on average, bankrupt within 4 years of giving up the game . Britney Spears career anyone?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having money is not the same as being wealthy, being wealthy is about being able to create money and look after money for many generations. You can be lucky and get rich, but it is unlikely, far better to learn how to become wealthy and ensure you become rich and that those riches will last. Here’s some traits of the wealthy to get you started.&lt;br /&gt;Who You Need To Be&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Wealthy Are All The Same, The Poor Are All The Same&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is a mold for wealthy and successful people, a predisposition some would say. Wealthy and successful people are different from poor people. They think differently and they act differently. Many of  us do not share the mold of the wealthy but it is one you will have to squeeze yourself into as money does not hang around the out of shape. The 7 essential attributes that all wealthy individuals, generally agreed by most that have studied the lives of the wealthy extensively, share are listed below.&lt;br /&gt;The 7 Traits&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Low Emotion: When it comes to money and wealth, emotions are going to get you into trouble. The wealthy understand this and learn to control their emotions and think logically when it comes to financial decisions. High emotions tend to lower your financial intelligence and it is your financial intelligence that ultimately makes you wealthy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Immense Boldness – We all have self doubt from time to time. The difference between the wealthy and the poor is that the wealthy face it head on and conquer their fears, the poor run and hide from them. Boldness is not about having no fear, it is about what you do with that fear. Do you let it cloud your judgement and shy away from profitable decisions or do you use it to help clarify and take decisive action when a deal presents itself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great Salesmen – Sales and salesmen have negative connotations to most people but this is the very reason many talented and intelligent people do not see the recognition or success they deserve. Most people are just one skill away from wealth – sales. Wealthy people are great salespeople. No one becomes wealthy on their own, and so it is critical to  sell your ideas well, whether this is for a company, a product or an investment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great Leaders – Great leaders are great inspirers and managers of people. Without exception, almost all wealthy individuals are great leaders of people – of their staff, of the people they work with, of the teams they create. If leading people fills you with fear then you need to find a way to control that fear. No-one creates great wealth alone and no one is going to follow you in your path to riches if you cannot lead them well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Excellent Communicators – It is communications skills such as writing, speaking and negotiating that are crucial to a life of success. You can have the greatest ideas and the best laid plans but unless you can communicate them well to others and create and inspire teams to help you achieve your goals then you might as well be pushing against a brick wall. The wealthy are great people persons, that is one of the secrets to their success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Failure Connoisseurs – No one likes to fail, not the poor and definitely not the wealthy. There are two ways you can react to failure, it can defeat you or it can help you to grow. Failure falls on both the wealthy and the poor but the fundamental difference is that it helps the wealthy to grow whereas it defeats the poor. If you wish to become wealthy then failure is part and parcel of the game. There is no wealthy person in history who has not failed and not lost money, it is part of the process. Failing is not the issue, not learning from failure is a problem.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Responsibility Takers – With great wealth comes great responsibility. The life of the wealthy is not all fun and games, they are responsible for many organisations, investments and most importantly people. The wealthy know that when the chips are down then it falls on their heads, they are there for everything, not just the successes. The wealthy don’t make excuses, try to shirk the blame or overlook their failings. They take responsibility for their actions and decisions, whether they turned out well or not. Taking responsibility and being a person of integrity is vital in becoming the person you need to be in order to be a good steward of money.&lt;br /&gt;To Sum Up&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you currently can’t see yourself as one of these people that share these characteristics then some serious personal work needs to be done. These are the skills one needs to develop in order to become wealthy. It takes time, but the payoff is worth it.&lt;br /&gt;Key Notes&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The 7 Key Characteristics of the wealthy are that they Have Low Emotion, Have Immense Boldness, Are Great Salesmen, Are Great Leaders, Have Excellent Communicators, Are Failure Connoisseurs and Take Responsibility&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here’s to your foundation of wealth.&lt;br /&gt;Choose: Master Of Money Or Slave To It&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you want to start on the road t&lt;br /&gt;o being fantastically wealthy then look out for my new ebook. It launches shortly so here is a sneak preview on the goodiness you can expect. Click on the image for a larger view.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Help Me Out&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I give all this advice out for free and so if you like what I write and it help you, please help me out by letting others know. On this site, it has been scientifically proven that by doing so you will become instantly twice as attractive to the opposite sex. Can’t argue with science.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://thelifething.com/how-to-be-rich/the-seven-learnable-traits-of-the-fantastically-wealthy/&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-5228965385596976785?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/5228965385596976785/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2012/01/seven-learnable-traits-of-fantastically.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/5228965385596976785'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/5228965385596976785'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2012/01/seven-learnable-traits-of-fantastically.html' title='The Seven Learnable Traits Of The Fantastically Wealthy'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-4917978232968907011</id><published>2012-01-02T06:05:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-02T06:05:59.995-08:00</updated><title type='text'>The Bamboo Oracle —-Chao-Hsiu Chen</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;The Bamboo Oracle —-Chao-Hsiu Chen&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;leave a comment »&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sebutlah sifat bambu yang tidak memiliki bunga dan buah.&lt;br /&gt; Tidak sama dengan pohon lainnya yang senantiasa sombong dengan bunga dan buahnya,&lt;br /&gt; bambu tetap berdiri tegak tanpa sumber kesombongan terakhir.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Disamping berakar kuat ke dalam, bambu juga senantiasa hidup dalam keheningan dan kerendahhatian.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lihatlah ketika angin bertiup, ia hanya bergesek-gesek kecil dengan sahabatnya dan kemudian menimbulkan suara desis yang hening.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ketika angin lembut datang, ia berdesis hening,&lt;br /&gt; ketika angin ribut datang ia juga berdesis hening.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mirip dengan bambu yang kuat dan kokoh karena berakar ke dalam,&lt;br /&gt; demikian juga kehidupan banyak orang yang berakar ke dalam.&lt;br /&gt; Tidak ada satupun kekuatan dari luar yang bisa merobohkannya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Berbeda dengan orang yang berakar keluar,&lt;br /&gt; orang-orang yang didikte kesombongan dan kecongkakan,&lt;br /&gt; amat dan sangat tergantung pada komentar,pendapat, pujian dan makian orang lain.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ketika dipuji bersinar cerah , tatkala dikritisi gelap gulita mood – nya …&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://rezapuradiredja.wordpress.com/2009/12/24/the-bamboo-oracle-chao-hsiu-chen/&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-4917978232968907011?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/4917978232968907011/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2012/01/bamboo-oracle-chao-hsiu-chen.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/4917978232968907011'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/4917978232968907011'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2012/01/bamboo-oracle-chao-hsiu-chen.html' title='The Bamboo Oracle —-Chao-Hsiu Chen'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-8204078573895068291</id><published>2011-08-16T05:51:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-16T05:52:25.918-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Innovative Companies Demand Innovative Leaders by Jeff Dyer, Hal Gregersen, and Clayton Christensen</title><content type='html'>Innovative Companies Demand Innovative Leaders&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; 2:49 PM Tuesday August 9, 2011 &lt;br /&gt;by Jeff Dyer, Hal Gregersen, and Clayton Christensen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Forbes recently published our list of the world's most innovative companies in which we ranked companies based upon their innovation premium. But why do some companies have a high innovation premium while others do not? During our study we learned that a leader's everyday actions are one of the most powerful signals to their team and organization that innovation truly matters.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dozens of senior executives at large organizations revealed to us in interviews that in most cases they did not feel personally responsible for coming up with innovations. They felt only a responsibility to "facilitate the process," to make sure someone else in the company was doing it. But in the world's most innovative companies, senior executives like Jeff Bezos (Amazon), Marc Benioff (salesforce.com), and A.G. Lafley (Procter &amp; Gamble) did not just delegate innovation; they kept their own hands deep in the innovation process. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Leaders at companies with high innovation premiums, in fact, landed at about the 88th percentile on our Innovator's DNA assessment, which measures the five skills of disruptive innovators: questioning, observing, networking, experimenting, and associational thinking. CEOs of average companies, in comparison, scored at about the 68th percentile. Because disruptive leaders excelled at the Innovator's DNA skills, they valued the same skills in other people. So much so that others within the organization felt that reaching top executive positions required personal innovation capability. This expectation helped foster an innovation focus throughout the company.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Apple's performance under Steve Jobs powerfully illustrates that point. During Jobs' first tenure at Apple from 1980–1985, he was personally involved in innovation and helped the company reach an innovation premium of 37%. Jobs, in fact, got key ideas for the Macintosh computer (mouse and GUI) during his visit to Xerox PARC. He recalled "being shown a rudimentary graphical user interface. It was incomplete, some of it wasn't even right, but the germ of the idea was there. Within ten minutes, it was so obvious that every computer would work this way someday." Jobs was so impressed that he took his entire programming team on a tour of PARC and returned to Apple hell-bent on developing a personal computer that both incorporated and improved upon the technologies he and his team saw. Jobs assembled a team of brilliant engineers, gave them the needed resources, and infused the Macintosh team with a vision of what was possible. That's what an innovative leader does. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In stark contrast, the executive team at Xerox lacked the discovery skills necessary to exploit technologies developed in their own company. As PARC scientist Larry Tesler observed, "After an hour looking at demos [Jobs and Apple's programmers] understood our technology and what it meant more than any Xerox executive understood after years of showing it to them." Jobs agreed with Tesler. "Basically they were copier heads that just had no clue about a computer or what it could do. And so they just grabbed defeat from the greatest victory in the computer industry. Xerox could have owned the entire computer industry today." No wonder Tesler left PARC and joined Apple. Innovators want to work with other innovators. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not surprisingly, during Jobs' hiatus from 1985–1998, Apple's innovation premium plummeted to an average of about 30%. Apple quit innovating and investors lost confidence in its ability to innovate and grow. When Jobs returned and restructured his senior management team with more discovery-driven capacity, Apple's innovation engine ignited again. It took a few years to get things back on track, but from 2005–2009 Apple's innovation premium jumped to 52%.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Similarly, Procter &amp; Gamble performed well as an innovative company — 23% average innovation premium from 1985–2000 — before A.G. Lafley became CEO. But Lafley's focus boosted P&amp;G's innovation capability, and during his tenure from 2001–2009 he delivered on average a 35% innovation premium. Lafley's successor, Bob McDonald, carries on this innovation tradition, posting in 2011 a 33% premium and landing at the number 24 spot on our ranking of the most innovative companies. Lafley, McDonald, and other innovative leaders we studied, consciously set the example by modeling innovation behaviors to help make them matter to others. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As the data suggests, top executives who value innovation need to point their fingers not at others but themselves. They must lead the innovation charge by understanding how innovation works, improving their own discovery skills, and sharpening their ability to foster the innovation of others. Moreover, they must actively populate their organizations with enough discovery-driven innovators to make innovation a team game that translates into tangible and sustainable innovation premiums.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-8204078573895068291?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/8204078573895068291/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/innovative-companies-demand-innovative.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/8204078573895068291'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/8204078573895068291'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/innovative-companies-demand-innovative.html' title='Innovative Companies Demand Innovative Leaders by Jeff Dyer, Hal Gregersen, and Clayton Christensen'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-7213711115636010834</id><published>2011-08-16T04:56:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-16T04:57:41.649-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Learn to Speak the Three Languages of Leadership</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Learn to Speak the Three Languages of Leadership&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; 2:24 PM Tuesday August 9, 2011 &lt;br /&gt;by Tony Golsby-Smith&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know a senior executive at a large corporation who has a big problem. John is smart and knows the business backwards, but people don't believe in him. They don't say anything directly to him. Instead, they complain to each other. Some say he is controlling; others say he is not a "people person." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;John holds positional power, but he lacks the personal authority of a real leader. If you took away his title and his multimillion-dollar salary, nobody would follow him. He will probably end his career as a very wealthy man, but nobody will remember him as a leader who helped them grow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's be kind and assume that John wants to inspire people, but he doesn't know how to do it. How can he get people to believe in him? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In ancient Greece and Rome, they knew what we seem to have forgotten: your job as a leader is to persuade people to do great things in uncertain contexts, using only one tool: your words. Compelling leaders, as Aristotle might say, have three qualities that they express through three "languages": &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Agility (or "Logos"). This language is about reading situations and getting things done. John is fluent in this language, but he needs to demonstrate that he is a learner. Words like this will work: "When we made this acquisition it seemed a good idea, but as I reflect on what has happened, three things are changing on us..." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Authenticity (or "Ethos"). Followers need to know that you have deep values and dreams, and they need to hear you speak about hope. They also want to know that you are animated by some big beliefs. Authentic language comes from the heart. An authentic statement would be something like: "When I was a kid, a bully beat me up. I believe that bullies don't belong in our organization. Treating employees like 'resources' rather than people is a kind of bullying. Instead of laying people off, can't we find a way to unlock their creativity right now?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Empathy (or "Pathos"). Caring for people is a quality John seems to lack. Do you chat with people in the hallways and reveal your own weaknesses to them? Do you invite people lower in the org chart to have a cup of coffee with you? Do you listen carefully? Are you helpful? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's also important to tell stories  about your own lessons in empathy. For example, a leader of a large professional services firm told this story: "We employed a male receptionist for ten years. Every day he left work at 4:45 p.m. on the dot. When he retired, I asked him why he left so precisely every day. He explained that he was the conductor of our national opera orchestra, and he had to leave to go to practice. For ten years we never asked this guy what he did, and we had a genius under our noses. That was wrong. How many other people with great hidden gifts are there in our company?" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the end, John can become the kind of leader people will follow. But to do that, he'll have to work on sharpening his language skills.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2011/08/learn_to_speak_the_three_langu.html?cm_sp=most_widget-_-blog_posts-_-Learn%20to%20Speak%20the%20Three%20Languages%20of%20Leadership&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-7213711115636010834?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/7213711115636010834/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/learn-to-speak-three-languages-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/7213711115636010834'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/7213711115636010834'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/learn-to-speak-three-languages-of.html' title='Learn to Speak the Three Languages of Leadership'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-3903095648782715251</id><published>2011-08-16T04:52:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-16T04:55:10.818-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Keeping Great People with Three Kinds of Mentors</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Keeping Great People with Three Kinds of Mentors&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10:45 AM Friday August 12, 2011 &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anthony Tjan&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anthony Tjan is CEO, Managing Partner and Founder of the venture capital firm Cue Ball. An entrepreneur, investor, and senior advisor, Tjan has become a recognized business builder.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To attract and retain great people, several things need to coalesce. From the extrinsic reward of a salary to the more nuanced (and more important) intrinsic reward of people feeling that they have a meaningful role, it requires thought and a proactive approach to keep talent once you've got it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; One of the most critical elements in retaining great people is effective mentoring. But what does that really mean? The word "mentoring" is too general to capture the specifics of what people need through the different stages of a career. It is akin to saying that people need to be educated — and then implementing a teaching curriculum that is the same every year for everyone. Like education, mentorship requires different things at different stages, including different types of skills and advice, and different types of teachers and learning styles.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Few firms think as carefully about mentorship as they should. So for most companies, a wake-up call on the basics of mentorship is in order. The first step, of course, is just having mentorship as part of your people development strategy. This does not need to be a complex, bureaucratic HR-department process. It should be something people know is embraced as part of the ethos of a firm. It can start simply by having existing employees volunteer to be mentors to newer staff members. And while it can and probably should be communicated out to staff and emphasized top down from leaders, people will believe it more when it is a "show, don't tell" process.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Mentorship, delivered in an authentic manner, shows that you care about employees' professional progression. This basic "I care about you" culture is the foundation for effective mentorship. It requires knowing a mentee's ambitions and capabilities, their successes and challenges towards, and the ways you can help push their ball forward. I've already written about how the best mentors are able to get a mentee snap-shot in five questions. But to put in place a more systematic and thoughtful mentorship program across any size company, it is helpful to differentiate among three types of mentoring:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Buddy / Peer Mentoring&lt;br /&gt; 2. Career Mentoring&lt;br /&gt; 3. Life Mentoring&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Buddy / Peer Mentors This is the starting point for mentoring, where it is less about mentorship and more about an apprenticeship. During the entry-level, early stages of a career, or when "on-boarding" to a new job, what really benefits someone is a "buddy" or peer-based mentor who can help one get up the learning curve faster. This type of peer mentor is focused on helping with specific skills and basic organizational practices of "this is how it is done here." This can happen to some extent informally, through social and professional networks online and offline. But assigning a buddy day one on someone's new job is a great "I care" practice. This is a high frequency mentor who interacts as needed in those first couple of years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Career Mentors After the initial period at a workplace, employees need to have someone who is senior to them to serve as a career advisor and internal advocate. A career mentor should help reinforce how the mentee's job contributions fit into the bigger picture and purpose of the firm. People don't contextualize the purpose of one's career enough. When people feel that they understand their current role, its impact and where it can take them next in a company, it leads to higher levels of satisfaction and motivation. Note that a career mentor is not necessarily the manager who may be doing the mentee's performance evaluation reviews. In fact, it may be better if it is not. Think of your most respected managers and rising stars — your real people people — who enjoy and are willing to spend the extra time to provide counsel as go to career mentors. In a career mentor, an employee should feel that they have an "I've got your back" advocate and advisor inside the company. Career mentors should look to meet with their mentee semi-annually or quarterly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Life Mentors These may be the most important mentors to have. They can be people inside the mentee's company, but also outside. As people reach mid- and senior stages of their careers, they need to have someone in whom they can confide without feeling that there is any bias. This is someone who can be a periodic sounding board when one is faced with a difficult career challenge, or when is considering changing jobs. A company's alumni network is often a good place for life mentors, but employees should be encouraged to find these mentors outside of a firm's affiliation as well. The senior folks at a company should make it a part of their objectives to be a life mentor to rising stars, and to put younger associates in situations where they can meet some of the firm's institutional relationship network. Most of the better strategic consulting firms do a decent job of this as they make regular efforts to expose current employees to their firm's alumni and other relations. Retention would likely go up in many companies if employers demonstrated that they openly and fearlessly tried to do what is best for the employee — that they saw their employees as being as important as their customers. Companies should want to do what is best for their employees even if that means helping look for a job elsewhere. Life mentors do not supplant career mentors or peer mentors (and in some cases may be one and the same), but they are there to impart career wisdom. And whatever your employer does, you should look for at least one life mentor (if not a small council of them), and ideally set an annual dinner meeting with her, him, or them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beyond this mentoring taxonomy, there are many other aspects of mentoring, people development, and retention that could fill a book. In future blog posts, I'll touch on other key people themes and strategies. But start by making mentoring a priority in your company culture, and consider this simple three-part structure to help match the right mentorship to the right stage of professional development.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://blogs.hbr.org/tjan/2011/08/keeping-great-people-with-thre.html?cm_sp=most_widget-_-blog_posts-_-Keeping%20Great%20People%20with%20Three%20Kinds%20of%20Mentors&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-3903095648782715251?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/3903095648782715251/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/keeping-great-people-with-three-kinds.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/3903095648782715251'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/3903095648782715251'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/keeping-great-people-with-three-kinds.html' title='Keeping Great People with Three Kinds of Mentors'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-4438848075467538808</id><published>2011-08-16T04:39:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-16T04:42:37.713-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Nine Things Successful People Do Differently   by Heidi Grant Halvorson |</title><content type='html'>Nine Things Successful People Do Differently&lt;br /&gt;by Heidi Grant Halvorson | &lt;br /&gt;8:58 AM Friday February 25, 2011 &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why have you been so successful in reaching some of your goals, but not others? If you aren't sure, you are far from alone in your confusion. It turns out that even brilliant, highly accomplished people are pretty lousy when it comes to understanding why they succeed or fail. The intuitive answer — that you are born predisposed to certain talents and lacking in others — is really just one small piece of the puzzle. In fact, decades of research on achievement suggests that successful people reach their goals not simply because of who they are, but more often because of what they do. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Get specific. When you set yourself a goal, try to be as specific as possible. "Lose 5 pounds" is a better goal than "lose some weight," because it gives you a clear idea of what success looks like. Knowing exactly what you want to achieve keeps you motivated until you get there. Also, think about the specific actions that need to be taken to reach your goal. Just promising you'll "eat less" or "sleep more" is too vague — be clear and precise. "I'll be in bed by 10pm on weeknights" leaves no room for doubt about what you need to do, and whether or not you've actually done it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; 2. Seize the moment to act on your goals. Given how busy most of us are, and how many goals we are juggling at once, it's not surprising that we routinely miss opportunities to act on a goal because we simply fail to notice them. Did you really have no time to work out today? No chance at any point to return that phone call? Achieving your goal means grabbing hold of these opportunities before they slip through your fingers. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To seize the moment, decide when and where you will take each action you want to take, in advance. Again, be as specific as possible (e.g., "If it's Monday, Wednesday, or Friday, I'll work out for 30 minutes before work.") Studies show that this kind of planning will help your brain to detect and seize the opportunity when it arises, increasing your chances of success by roughly 300%.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Know exactly how far you have left to go. Achieving any goal also requires honest and regular monitoring of your progress — if not by others, then by you yourself. If you don't know how well you are doing, you can't adjust your behavior or your strategies accordingly. Check your progress frequently — weekly, or even daily, depending on the goal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; 4. Be a realistic optimist. When you are setting a goal, by all means engage in lots of positive thinking about how likely you are to achieve it. Believing in your ability to succeed is enormously helpful for creating and sustaining your motivation. But whatever you do, don't underestimate how difficult it will be to reach your goal. Most goals worth achieving require time, planning, effort, and persistence. Studies show that thinking things will come to you easily and effortlessly leaves you ill-prepared for the journey ahead, and significantly increases the odds of failure. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; 5. Focus on getting better, rather than being good. Believing you have the ability to reach your goals is important, but so is believing you can get the ability. Many of us believe that our intelligence, our personality, and our physical aptitudes are fixed — that no matter what we do, we won't improve. As a result, we focus on goals that are all about proving ourselves, rather than developing and acquiring new skills.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fortunately, decades of research suggest that the belief in fixed ability is completely wrong — abilities of all kinds are profoundly malleable. Embracing the fact that you can change will allow you to make better choices, and reach your fullest potential. People whose goals are about getting better, rather than being good, take difficulty in stride, and appreciate the journey as much as the destination.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; 6. Have grit. Grit is a willingness to commit to long-term goals, and to persist in the face of difficulty. Studies show that gritty people obtain more education in their lifetime, and earn higher college GPAs. Grit predicts which cadets will stick out their first grueling year at West Point. In fact, grit even predicts which round contestants will make it to at the Scripps National Spelling Bee.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The good news is, if you aren't particularly gritty now, there is something you can do about it. People who lack grit more often than not believe that they just don't have the innate abilities successful people have. If that describes your own thinking .... well, there's no way to put this nicely: you are wrong. As I mentioned earlier, effort, planning, persistence, and good strategies are what it really takes to succeed. Embracing this knowledge will not only help you see yourself and your goals more accurately, but also do wonders for your grit.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Build your willpower muscle. Your self-control "muscle" is just like the other muscles in your body — when it doesn't get much exercise, it becomes weaker over time. But when you give it regular workouts by putting it to good use, it will grow stronger and stronger, and better able to help you successfully reach your goals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To build willpower, take on a challenge that requires you to do something you'd honestly rather not do. Give up high-fat snacks, do 100 sit-ups a day, stand up straight when you catch yourself slouching, try to learn a new skill. When you find yourself wanting to give in, give up, or just not bother — don't. Start with just one activity, and make a plan for how you will deal with troubles when they occur ("If I have a craving for a snack, I will eat one piece of fresh or three pieces of dried fruit.") It will be hard in the beginning, but it will get easier, and that's the whole point. As your strength grows, you can take on more challenges and step-up your self-control workout.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. Don't tempt fate. No matter how strong your willpower muscle becomes, it's important to always respect the fact that it is limited, and if you overtax it you will temporarily run out of steam. Don't try to take on two challenging tasks at once, if you can help it (like quitting smoking and dieting at the same time). And don't put yourself in harm's way — many people are overly-confident in their ability to resist temptation, and as a result they put themselves in situations where temptations abound. Successful people know not to make reaching a goal harder than it already is.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9. Focus on what you will do, not what you won't do. Do you want to successfully lose weight, quit smoking, or put a lid on your bad temper? Then plan how you will replace bad habits with good ones, rather than focusing only on the bad habits themselves. Research on thought suppression (e.g., "Don't think about white bears!") has shown that trying to avoid a thought makes it even more active in your mind. The same holds true when it comes to behavior — by trying not to engage in a bad habit, our habits get strengthened rather than broken. &lt;br /&gt; If you want change your ways, ask yourself, What will I do instead? For example, if you are trying to gain control of your temper and stop flying off the handle, you might make a plan like "If I am starting to feel angry, then I will take three deep breaths to calm down." By using deep breathing as a replacement for giving in to your anger, your bad habit will get worn away over time until it disappears completely.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is my hope that, after reading about the nine things successful people do differently, you have gained some insight into all the things you have been doing right all along. Even more important, I hope are able to identify the mistakes that have derailed you, and use that knowledge to your advantage from now on. Remember, you don't need to become a different person to become a more successful one. It's never what you are, but what you do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. is a motivational psychologist, and author of the new book Succeed: How We Can Reach Our Goals (Hudson Street Press, 2011). She is also an expert blogger on motivation and leadership for Fast Company and Psychology Today. Her personal blog, The Science of Success, can be found at www.heidigranthalvorson.com. Follow her on Twitter @hghalvorson&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;===================================================================&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Showing 239 comments &lt;br /&gt; Sort by    Subscribe by email   Subscribe by RSS &lt;br /&gt;	Mitch McCrimmon 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Good points but I would suggest a 10th: Review and celebrate successes, even small ones. This is a discipline of regularly, say weekly, listing all the small steps you took that worked well or that you are pleased about. One problem with highly motivated people, in my experience, is that nothing they do is ever good enough, so they are always beating themselves for what they haven't managed to get done yet, while they are actually getting a lot more done than most people. To avoid getting discouraged, I think it helps to rigorously list all the positive steps you have taken. We need a sense of making progress, not just a feeling that there is so much more to do. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Delphia Simmons and 471 more liked this  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Deep-thought 4 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Success, however you define this term, is measured at a snapshot in time! That is normally 'now' yesterday is history and tomorrow is a mystery. Successfull people are without exception problem solvers. Really sucessful people are planners, problem solvers and have a talent to look beyond the horizon. They know they have something good and nobody else can see it yet.. but they can.. it might only be in their minds eye but they are going to make it tangible. Remember you can either catch the wind or blow your idea along using your own. If your ship hits the rocks, swim ashore, look for another treasure map and start digging again. Out of the numerous success stories I have studied Carnegie, Edison, George and Robert Stephenson, Parsons, Armstrong, Charles Goodyear and many many more the abiding quality they all had was indomitable self belief and vision. They could look into the future and see demand for their products and inventions because what they had was the future and a logical step, even if to start with they were the only ones to see it! Bill Gates created an operating program for a computer before the creation of a computer that it could run on. The most important ingredient they all needed was a 'turn on a dime' piece of good luck and without exception they all had one! Don't let your friends pull you back. Most people are selfish and are reluctant to congratulate others on their success. Don't look upon set backs as failures they provide valuable experience and insight that will help you in the future, as long as you learn from them. think of the first person to try and ride a bicycle. Why didn't they give up? What sort of determination must they have had? balance on you wheels somehow and do your best to keep the momentum going. As long as you start your enterprise and can take the knocks and tack your 'yacht' in your wind then you are on the journey of a lifetime. You might just amaze yourself as to where you can go and the experiences you can have. Look for the opportunity in the difficulty and not the other way around! Anyone brave enough to start such a journey is brave in my eyes. don't sell your soul for peace of mind. Be the person your heart tells you you can be! deep-thought@hotmail.co.uk &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;yh b and 179 more liked this  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Robert Lewis 4 months ago in reply to Deep-thought &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; A brilliant addition to the original blog. Your most catching phrase for me was,. "don't sell your soul for peace of mind." I think that is really deep, really relevant in today's world and worthy of more debate. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;B.R.Kuhlman and 31 more liked this  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Mark 2 months ago in reply to Robert Lewis &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; What is this "Soul' Crap? Not into moral superiority to feel good bro &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Computer Consultant. 2 months ago in reply to Deep-thought &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Nice thoughts...but never let the truth ruin a good story...Bill Gates didn't invent or create an operating system...He purchased it and then convinced IBM to license it.  His real vision was "A computer on every desktop". &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;yh b and 11 more liked this  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Oldtimer 2 months ago in reply to Computer Consultant. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Deep-Thought said "operating program" not "operating system". I believe he was referring to Gates' MIPS Basic which was written when the machine was essentially just a prototype. Microsoft was a successful company well before the PC-DOS phenomenon. I'm not a big MS fan, but there's no denying that Bill Gates is something special. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ShainS and 6 more liked this  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Deep-thought 2 months ago in reply to Computer Consultant. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Oldtimer is correct. It is important to have attention to detail and to read what is actually said. I said program not system.... I deal in recorded facts. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Sharmabinay4 2 months ago in reply to Computer Consultant. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I think person didn't think about vision first, they think about mission. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Base Board 2 months ago in reply to Deep-thought &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Chemistry.  Everyone on the planet is a slave to chemistry and how it affects the human condition.  Aside from all the external issues of pollution and processed food, we have an engine, the body, and it is still a mystery.  People react to situations, good or bad, fight or flight and a million other words of description.  The point is that words dont capture the reality of the chemistry of the human body.  Why does one feel good, or bad, chemistry, or the effect  of the release of endorphins, and other chemicals in our body can enhance or tear down a good idea, or a good day.  Some consume little bottles of chemicals, a 5 hour jolt, or soda with sugar or fast food with even more sugar.  I think that many good ideas and thoughts find their way to the human garbage disposal wrapped in these chemicals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People do drugs of all kinds in search of a HIGH.  The most powerful drug is the one that we create internally and it is natural.  We seek for that high by adding chemicals to the mix that have a down side far worse than anyone wants to discuss.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wished I understood this subject better, and could offer more but I am sure that the people in this discussion can add more to the concept and thoughts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You are what you eat, breathe and consume.  Business, ideas, projects are done better when humans are clear, have the ability to focus and have the power to nurture that internal chemical that can push us to a good natural high and achieve more than we might even imagine we could.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Better living thought chemistry, I heard that someone in the past.  So far, it has not worked out.  A few hundred years ago the Oxygen environment that our ancestors lived in was amazingly rich, many times greater than we have today.  Imagine with our technology that we have, what we could do if we just had real oxygen to breathe, I wonder what marvels would be on our doorstep for tomorrow.  Humans need air, water, food and shelter.  We have pretty much messed up the first three and the banking system is trying hard to mess up the fourth one.  I am not a tree hugger per se, but maybe a few more trees and a walk in the park could do more good than a bag of fries.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;comments&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Daniel Brennan and 7 more liked this  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Tmal 1 month ago in reply to Base Board &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; The better our nutrition is the better our  thoughts are. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	isnextmktg 3 weeks ago in reply to Base Board &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I can agree with this to an extent as I'm a firm believer of "premium fuel in, premium results out" when it comes to physical performance however; if you look at some of the most successful and driven people in the world, they are constantly pumping their bodies full of garbage.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The mental aspect of one's game - as far as I'm concerned - is influenced by chemistry but not driven by it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Lloyd2410 3 months ago in reply to Deep-thought &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I really enjoyed reading your piece which contains some warm and wise insights about success and is very encouraging for anyone who has ideas of who they can be and what they can achieve in their lives. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From my experience of having a small consulting business, persistence and determination are incredibly important when you feel like giving up because it's just too hard and you need to pay the rent this week!! If we remember that one piece of luck such as meeting the right person could be just around the corner and only one minute away....keep up your deep thoughts and excellent writing, cheers from Brisbane, Australia. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;11 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Syeda Arooj 3 months ago in reply to Lloyd2410 &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Yeah precisely, SELF-ESTEEM is very significant. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	capasa 6 days ago in reply to Lloyd2410 &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; indeed, luck could be around the corner, but ... success is when luck is meeting preparation. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	R Branch 3 months ago in reply to Deep-thought &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Excellent addition to the article. I love your mention of self-belief and vision. The key is to not get discouraged. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Vanessa Perumal and 7 more liked this  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Rohit Khandelwal 4 months ago in reply to Deep-thought &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Brilliantly articulated, shows your clarity of thought on the subject. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Dianna Howell 1 week ago in reply to Deep-thought &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I believe in the process but always keeping the big picture goal in focus.  Then each step of the way when you are making decisions they are focused not just on the immediate results but on your long term goal. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Sharmabinay4 2 months ago in reply to Deep-thought &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; really nice thought &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Deep-thought 3 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; "ONE &gt; TWO!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are you sick of looking forward whilst always just behind?&lt;br /&gt;Never having quite enough no matter how hard you try?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Still chasing that extra second that's so impossible to find?&lt;br /&gt;Why look outside for answers it's there inside your mind!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It will be your time to shine if you grab it from within&lt;br /&gt;Have belief in yourself and confidence will help you win!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One thinks I will but two never seems to know&lt;br /&gt;One is always focussed but two just lets it go&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You must find another second to make another second&lt;br /&gt;Find that second from within and exchange it for a win&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So go chase the wind through your hair&lt;br /&gt;Show the whole world, feel the glare, earn their stares&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s not beyond any of us to make it&lt;br /&gt;If we can just reach deep inside and take it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes you can it’s not about them&lt;br /&gt;it’s about you believe in yourself!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;deep-thought@hotmail.co.uk &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;yh b and 29 more liked this  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Mila Araujo 5 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I agree, except I think this is something one can do on a daily basis. Every day take a moment to reflect upon what worked &amp; what didn't. Knowing daily where you are at.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think this is a great practice. Even the smallest success builds into the big picture. Daily reflection allows for the opportunity to see your success every day and to plan what you can do tomorrow.. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;20 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	prabhusathya 5 months ago in reply to Mila Araujo &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I fully agree. However , adding an additional layer of a weekly review of all the actions and results will have better results. Behavioural patterns can be best understood by dynamic review of events of a longer time period than just a day. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Cyrus Golkar 2 months ago in reply to Mila Araujo &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Awesome suggestion. Thanks. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Jonathan Main 2 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Hi Mitch, &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a great point and one that I can say wholeheartedly I agree with. Having worked for a number of years with Deloitte in Australia, their current CEO encouraged this behavior; and as such the Australian firm has 7 signal (maxims), the last being "Have fun and celebrate". This signal was described as follows:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We acknowledge the great results achieved each day by the people &lt;br /&gt;around us; we build the Deloitte community and contribute to the &lt;br /&gt;community outside the firm.&lt;br /&gt;To do this we:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- always take the opportunity to celebrate accomplishments- bring a positive attitude to everything we do- catch others doing something right and reward achievement- seek opportunities to contribute to the community.&lt;br /&gt;http://www.deloitte.com/view/e...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think that Deloitte is a perfect example to highlight what you have said and would be a exceptional case study.At Deloitte they had many opportunities to celebrate success such employee of the month, financial recognition for passing CA/CPA exams, public recognition of staff who had been with the company 5, 10, 15, 20, 25 years etc. These achievements both small and great was always recognized through an end of month meeting of the whole firm (otherwise known as "End of Month Drinks") where these staff were publicly recognized in front of their peers. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Have fun and celebrate" along with the other signals were also recognized at the end of the year where all the staff voted on their colleagues as to who typified  and lived each of the signals - and they were presented with a small trophy as reward! It may seem kitschy, but these intrinsic motivators were a significant driver of the company's successes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another point to note is that programs like the one at Deloitte will work best when driven from the top. It worked because the CEO had/has all nine; no all ten of these attributes. And so he would end all of his firm wide voice messages by saying "Have a bit of fun today"!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Heidi Grant Halvorson 5 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Thank you for that insight Mitch - I think that is a great way to keep yourself feeling realistically optimistic, confident that you can make success happen because you do in fact have a track record of success. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10 people liked this.  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And since then, their 'don't generalize' theory has stuck with me and helped me in umpteen situations. Your article just refreshed my entire experience with that concept! I recommend that every manager here should read that book, a real management-myth-buster! Cheers &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Patricio Vittori 2 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I started to apply this "celebrate success" sessions on my PMs scrums meetings every morning and the results were excellent! You really start any new day with the right foot. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Samaila 3 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Yeah, Mitch. Apart from that, most management texts advocate management by exception: meaning that managers should concentrate on the reasons for not meeting targets and expectations. Which is really not wholly good. As you canvass, we need to know and celebrate what "went well since we last met (even) before moving on to (other) equally important issues. Thanks. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Manaek Simamora 1 month ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great point, Mitch! Thank you for reminding. I also have read your article entitled "How to Engage Employees" which is very practical and useful. I will simply starte practicing them at work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please keep sharing your insights! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Ken Rea 4 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Nice article, Heidi, sparking off a great discussion. I’m coming at this from the point of view of someone who trains actors in a top British drama school (Guildhall). Over the decades I’ve trained about 1,000 actors there, but only a handful have gone on to become A-list internationally famous names. What fascinates me is: what were they doing that the others were not? You cover some of the answers in your article, Heidi, and Mitch, your ‘celebrate successes’ is of course very important. &lt;br /&gt;What I’ve also found effective, elaborating on your first point, Heidi, is to visualise your goal as vividly as possible. That gives it an emotional as well as an intellectual connection. For example, if you wanted to play Hamlet at the National Theatre, you might mock up a poster with your name on it. I’m sure you all have lots of anecdotal evidence to prove the effectiveness of this approach. I’ll share one with you. One of my acting students had just been awarded Guildhall’s Gold Medal by the Lord Mayor of London. After the ceremony she told me, “From the first day I came in the building I looked up at the honours board and said to myself, ‘One day, my name’s going to be there.’ And here I am.“&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Garcia Janie S 5 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Your suggestion to the 10th step was a big Aha! moment for me. Celebrating sucess, however small it may be will enable us to continue the challenge of getting better every day. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Rachael Olajide 1 month ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Quite Right. I have been reading the new book from The Business Leaders Book Club titled Lessons learned from the recession. In it 60 business leaders from all around the world talk about their recession experience and the strategies that helped them survive and thrive.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the things they mentioned was how imprtant it was to SMILE, LAUGH and rember LIFE GOES ON and that sometimes its BEYOND YOUR CONTROL.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here is a link to it http://bit.ly/mUDyhY &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Pang Hongtu 5 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Hello,I am a Chinese student and I am not good at Engish.I am not sure whether it is right or not that I think your comments are similar to the 3th.I can't tell the differences between" regular monitoring of your progress"and" Review and celebrate successes, even small ones" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4 people liked this.  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This is distorted thinking that leads us to discount our strengths and over emphasize our weaknesses. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Pang Hongtu 5 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Thanks for your explanation.Can I understand that for"Each of the progress is the foundation of success,but what we should do is to focus on those meaningful successes and ignore negative emotions so that we can have an optimistic attitude and be better to succeed"? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Mitch McCrimmon 5 months ago in reply to Pang Hongtu &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Pang, I am not saying we should ignore what went wrong. We need to learn from our mistakes, not to mention take corrective action. I'm just saying that we should avoid focusing ONLY on mistakes, thereby ignoring successes. It's a matter of striving for a better balance between the two. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Pang Hongtu 5 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I see,thank you. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Smarika Chhetry 4 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; i absolutely agree with Mitch... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	MARIO NOWOGRODZKI, CPA/CITP 4 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great point here, Mitch. Especially the problem with highly motivated people, that nothing they do is ever good enough, so they beat themselves for what they haven't done. And this happens no matter how much others point out that they are actually getting a lot more done than most people. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Elias DRIOUCH 5 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Thank you for this addtional and important key success. Celebrate a success, even small one, helps us to maintain the dynamic. Also it a proof that our project progresses. It is a very important point in building a self-confidence, the key of any success. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Linda LaBrie 5 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Thank you Heidi and others. I've embraced many of these habits in my own long career (still climbing that greased pole) and in my work as a coach (of lawyers). #1, IMHO, is most critical but I would add - write it down and share it with others - this is how you move from talk to action! Behavior change - small/significant; private/public; personal/professional - is damn hard and a slippery slope. How many individuals do you know who have tried to quit smoking? And, how many times? So, as Mitch and others advise, rejoice and celebrate every inch you move away from comfort to your new "can" zone. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	John_oleson 5 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Where do you suggest the celebration ... Morton's or someplace like that? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Forced to be serious, great comment ... johno from tropical Michigan. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Pittsburghguy 5 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Impressive Mitch! Big heads up. As long as people stay focused on the main task at hand, the reward system works wonders. Insentive goes a long way in moderation. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Npugl 5 months ago in reply to Pittsburghguy &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Incentive &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Writ2joy 2 days ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; celebration bonds people and they help to remove any form of animosity &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Bhavna Sapra 3 weeks ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Mitch I agree....its important to pat your back saying well done even in small successes. It gives immense energy and will power to accomplish even tougher goals... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	isnextmktg 3 weeks ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Excellent point and I agree wholeheartedly.  I am curious though, would you consider the reverse true?  In other words, do you find it equally important to conduct a similar exercise after each failure? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Umar Zia 1 month ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Well very said, I also believe that successful people never loose sight of their goal and consistency with patience is vital for any undertaking! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Krishan Kumar 2 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Mitch added very nice point, when you take retrospective and see what went well it brings smile on face and and gives a moral support... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Keshabrajjoshi 2 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I agree with Mitch. It's a good habit to reward yourself. This make himself/herself feel that s/he has done a significant work. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Adalumos 4 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; You really hit the point and should be given kudos for this. I know of a man in my organization, though is a performer, but is never satisfied with that. He keeps scaling up in all he does. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Michael Corleone 5 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Mitch:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The list of nine things..... did not seem too insightful to me. Then I read your 10th idea and it's makes great sense. Simple logic that is so easily forgotten or never realized because how some of us are wired. Thanks. Enjoy the sun. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Mitch McCrimmon 5 months ago in reply to Michael Corleone &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Michael, thanks. Your comment prompted me to re-read the list of 9 things and it occurred to me that the title of this post might better have been "9 steps to goal achievement" rather than talking about success, which is much broader. For example, if success for you is becoming a well known politician, one thing you should do is develop relationships with key influencers. Or if you want to be a great pianist or golfer, you need to practice incessantly. So, the 9 things listed in this post are really about how to stick to your guns to achieve goals rather about achieving success in a broader sense. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	VIBRANTINFOSYSTEMS 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I found this conversation inspiring. I recently attended a sponsored breakfast with a motivational speaker and he spoke about goal setting. He suggested each day you put together (in writing) your "To Do" task (no more than 5 - allowing an hour for each - the rest of the day allows for interruptions and quick responses). Then he suggested you number the items by priority. He then suggested you put a $ (dollar sign) next to the items that helped to generate income (for he suggested these are the items one should focus on first in succeeding (be sure to re-check and match the $ sign(s) up with hopefully the first 3 or 4 tasks you prioritized). (NOTE: This breakfast consisted of self-employed/entrepreneurs who's goal was to make X amount of dollars each year). He then suggested as you complete a task you take the time to line through the task (for that would provide a sense of accomplishment and assist in measuring progress) and finally when you completed the task/tasks that helped you to generate income as part of your goal setting you reward yourself in a small way - celebrate when the goal is obtained. At the very end the speaker provided everyone with a 72 inch paper ruler. He asked us to tear off how old you are (some attendee's hesitated - funny!). Then he asked you to decide at what age you to plan to retire and tear off the inches to that age. Those inches remaining represented how many years you had left to accomplish your goals! Real eye opener! I hope you found this worth sharing for I found this conversation energizing, thought provoking and inspiring. Thank you. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;24 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Liju Thomas 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Excellent piece of article. Nicely articulated and clear&lt;br /&gt;line of thoughts. I also wanted to add an attribute called&lt;br /&gt;"Stick-to-itness". I have learned the hard way. If you keep getting&lt;br /&gt;exited for each new idea that pop in ur mind and try to get that materialized,&lt;br /&gt;then it’s not going to work. If you have started something know that it’s a gr8&lt;br /&gt;idea then stick to it. Fruits from the labour will come. Be patient. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Linda Stubbs 3 weeks ago in reply to Liju Thomas &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Liju, thanks for your input. I have many ideas running through my head, but never materialize into anything.  Articulation of words and thoughts is a struggle for me working at the master level in school.  Thank you for reminding me of the "stick-to-itness idea.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Cathleencgraham 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Excellent piece. Optimism and measured ability to focus on things one can do have long driven sucess. Someone told me this past week there is no such thing as CAN'T, but several levels of CAN. Focus on what you CAN do, and then push harder to increase your range of CAN. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;23 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Heidi Grant Halvorson 5 months ago in reply to Cathleencgraham &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I love "push harder to increase your range of CAN." Thanks for sharing that. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	melanie 5 days ago in reply to Heidi Grant Halvorson &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Rather than "push harder", i like "do your best", and always come from the heart, and we really dont know how long we are here for,.....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Samir Mishra 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Planning the course of Action does help. Before I take a major Task. I prepare a list of things TO DO. Be it travelling overseas, taking a big/small project. This helps me to keep my mind focussed on things that are important (to be done) and not worry about what Not To Do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I would like to add one to the list:&lt;br /&gt;Keep a Journal. Record even smaller notes in it. That way we can offload our worries to the journal and get on with doing something that matters for our life. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;18 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Mick 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Thanks Heidi. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Number 9 really makes sense to me as I believe the mind tends to work most efficiently on images and, as such, finds it difficult or impossible to store a picture of a non-entity or non-action. For example, in telling yourself to visualize not over eating, your brain will strip out the 'not' part and end up storing an image of over eating, thereby enforcing your bad habit rather than reducing it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My resolution now: stop reading such intelligent, yet addictive, articles that take me away from my work. I'm visualizing that I will get up from my computer and get back to my work :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Clayton Robertson and 17 more liked this  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Heidi Grant Halvorson 5 months ago in reply to Mick &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Thanks Mick - I think you are right that it's much easier to focus on action than non-action, and far more effective. I hope your resolution worked :) &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Kevincollins_1 5 months ago in reply to Mick &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Thanks for that Mick. I read the list and loved it and even forwarded it to a friend.&lt;br /&gt;Then I scanned some of the responses down here until I saw yours and was reminded to stop and get back to three other tasks that are waiting for me.(I just had to take an extra few seconds to write this thank you Mick!) &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Lloyd Fassett 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I think this is misleading and potentially harmful because it doesn't talk about how to set goals, what resources you have access to now or over  time, or external factors.  Are you going to blame the people who have lost their homes for committing to mortgages that they shouldn't have and for falling short of financial goals because of that?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. There is no context for if your goal is worthwhile. Not being successful in a bad goal is a good thing.  &lt;br /&gt;2. The post misses what resources you have access to including preferred connections, resources or a lifestyle that isn't of the grinding poverty type.  3. Most importantly, it lacks external forces that can effect your lack of success, such as a new entrant into your market or team members that sabotage your project, or if you are part of a minority where people who control resource allocation don't like your affiliations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Frequently, but not always, it's external factors that cause us to fail that we were unrealistic about, were not predictable, or were predictable but the reward was worth the risk.  Your 9 points are all fine, after more important decisions are made though. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Sharon 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Thank you for this information which I Stumbled upon. At 56 years old I have finally realized what I want to do with my life and am in the very beginning stages of taking the steps towards that goal. When I look at the big picture I get doubts that I can complete the schooling and also posess the ability to be succesful when done and this post reminds me to break it down into bite-sized pieces. The postings from other people are helpful too. I like the idea of rewarding sucess and journaling every step of the way. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;13 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Cedric B Johnson, Ph.D 3 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; As a psychologist I recognize and affirm your observations about the path to success. But the further I go on this journey called life I continually ask myself 'what is success anyway?' To a large degree we define it as productivity of one sort or another. But is it not also fruitfulness, that manifest quality that flows from our true and inner being (soul)? Heidi, the 'nine things' surely will help us reach that goal but the focus has to change from only productivity to fruitfulness. I explore this topic in my blog at cedricj.wordpress.com &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Belinda Epperson 3 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I found this conversation inspiring. I recently attended a sponsored breakfast with a motivational speaker and he spoke about goal setting. He suggested each day you put together (in writing) your "To Do" task (no more than 5 - allowing an hour for each - the rest of the day allows for interruptions and quick responses). Then he suggested you number the items by priority. He then suggested you put a $ (dollar sign) next to the items that helped to generate income (for he suggested these are the items one should focus on first in succeeding (be sure to re-check and match the $ sign(s) up with hopefully the first 3 or 4 tasks you prioritized). (NOTE: This breakfast consisted of self-employed/entrepreneurs who's goal was to make X amount of dollars each year). He then suggested as you complete a task you take the time to line through the task (for that would provide a sense of accomplishment and assist in measuring progress) and finally when you completed the task/tasks that helped you to generate income as part of your goal setting you reward yourself in a small way - celebrate when the goal is obtained. At the very end the speaker provided everyone with a 72 inch paper ruler. He asked us to tear off how old you are (some attendee's hesitated - funny!). Then he asked you to decide at what age you to plan to retire and tear off the inches to that age. Those inches remaining represented how many years you had left to accomplish your goals! Real eye opener! I hope you found this worth sharing for I found this conversation energizing, thought provoking and inspiring. Thank you. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 people liked this.  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The article lacked any precise or even correct information (IMO), and was an&lt;br /&gt;establishment piece as written by a Harvard mind lacking real world experience.&lt;br /&gt;Success is not measured 5 lbs at a time, and there is no way to define a structure.&lt;br /&gt;Success is in a vision, a belief, and hard work. Either you have it or you don’t.&lt;br /&gt;Success is not something that can be taught or learned. Success is the belief, and&lt;br /&gt;blind faith is the only driving force.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Ayan Ray 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Helpful and motivational ;) &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	bradm 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; An excellent read! Having that ultimate specific goal provides great focus, but I think I'd add have an adaptable plan to the list. Setting milestones and celebrating successes along the way are extremely important. But there's the risk of getting discouraged, or losing sight of where you're going, because you didn't do each and every little step along the way. It's not necessarily those specifics that matter; it's the will to stay focused, plus the strength to tweak your path and adapt your approach. Or as Eisenhower said: "Plans are useless, but planning is indispensable" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Puneet Pandey 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; It will surely help. I have always believed that we can be lot more than what we are today, that's precisely what this article talks about. We know who we are but know not what we may be.&lt;br /&gt;Striving to become better makes the journey of life so interesting. Learnt so much from this article, will try to use these learning in daily life. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  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Most worthy goals require effort from us when we don't particularly "feel like it." Grit gets the job done. &lt;br /&gt;Thanks for the great article!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lisa Sperow&lt;br /&gt;www.StartYourOwnSmallBiz.com&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Neo 2 months ago in reply to Lisasperow &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Excellent and thanks for sharing.....:) &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Trennie 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; This is a wonderful article. Be sure to share more. Right in the middle of the nine is #5: "Focus on getting better, rather than being good." How important this must be, especially since people worst enemy is self. Instead of trying to maintain a goodness and feeling the anxiety of doing so or when matters are less than best, know that all have fallen short at times. Getting better may help some people accept flaws and failures as a sense of learning and becoming wiser. Enjoy the day! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Gerhard 3 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; wow! great stuff . after this i was feeling like standing on the shoulders of a giant! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Sumit Jha 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; As always, quite motivating piece. thanks Heidi. A common problem though is intermittent arrival of negative thoughts and i read somewhere to constantly ignore it-the moment negative thoughts come into your mind, consciously and constantly try to think its opposite i.e. the positive thought. Initially, it is very tough but soon one gets adjusted-I tried successfully to some extent. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4 people liked this.  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Sadly in life it is easy to become complacent and for the mind to go out of focus rather than tune it in. Don't start to drift, you set the agenda and the goals. deep-thought@hotmail.co.uk &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Naomi 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; #5 has my name on it! thanks Heidi for this simple and profound list! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	liferox23 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; i really enjoyed reading this. recently ive been thinking about small businesses and maybe in the future starting one... but its just a budding idea so far. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this.  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Don’t become a daytime ‘sleeper’ on the job.As long as you don't stop trying nobody has the right to judge you if you are being true to yourself and acting in an honourable manner.&lt;br /&gt;Evolution teaches us that inertia is our enemy and that there is no future in standing still. Keep up your planning and doing and never stop searching. Curiosity ultimately overcomes fear.Don't end up as driftwood floating aimlessly about upon someone elses tide. Work out how to make it beneficial for others to further your plans. In helping others to help themselves you will be helping yourself. Their financial gain becomes your greater financial gain. Its called a business!You win by enabling others to win. Helping them ultimately benefits you and can lead to powerful friendships and peace of mind! deep-thought@hotmail.co.uk &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Vesper 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Very nicely articulated post. I read through these articles, but loose track somewhere in the middle. Now, i know where my problem is: "Get Specific". That is my main issue.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for the document. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Ashleyscwalls 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Creating a life plan is also extremely important to success. Although some people try to avoid planning, it is a good practice! Life plans help to ensure that your actions align instead of contradict. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Terri S. Turner 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great list to live by - personally and professionally.  Sounds like successful people build and update their own personal strategic plan.  After all, successful strategic plans don't sit and collect dust on a credenza.  They are organic plans that include realistic goals, specific benchmarks that mark progress and outline the path ahead as well as accountability and timeline measurements to stay on track.  Guess it's time to move my plan from thought to paper (or screen!)  Watch out successful people - here I come.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Terri S. Turner, Business Growth Specialist, Writer, Trainer&lt;br /&gt;TST Business Strategies, LLC&lt;br /&gt;terristurner.com &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Josephryeon 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Good idea where is coming ~ good read. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	mischastik 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great post! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Ghaith 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Really while reading this valuable article , I start feeling the differences beteen the sleeping brain &amp; the fully busy brain . It encouraged me &lt;br /&gt;To refresh . And get use of each and every minutes am living . &lt;br /&gt; 100% if you decide to success u will, &amp; u can ....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	U_Pushpahas 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; A nice nine fold strategy to success . In practical life , I have actually seen these qualities differentiating between people and making a sucessful part stand out. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Usman Adil 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great article indeed. Very helpful but needs a bit of discipline and determination to implement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Prasanna Kumar FCCA(UK)7 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; HI Heidi&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A thought provoking piece of information. Wonderful tips for people to become leaders. Thanks a lot for giving such highly valuable tips. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Rokchet 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; very motivating write-up. Many thanks - Jonah Kangogo, Kenya &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Dmunene 5 months ago in reply to Rokchet &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Kumbe wewe pia ni member? Danson &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  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Thanks again from the heart.&lt;br /&gt;-Salil &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	rosemarykb 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Thanks. I got a lot out of this piece. Many of the points resonated: e.g improving rather than proving! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Susanotrl 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Similar to Mitch's idea, I have written "Done" lists to record accomplishments (whether for the year or month). This is particularly useful when I feel like the "To Do" lists are too numerous or when my self-esteem needs a boost. I've also developed strategies to work on long projects like my dissertation, including having a dissertation pen-pal to share bi-weekly goals and progress, identifying a motivating theme song, scheduling writing time, and coming up with rewards for small inches of progress (e.g., if I write 3 pages by this weekend, I can see a movie). &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	nupurmaskara 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; All set now to do, not rue! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Ambashankar 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Hi Heidi,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A great insight, truly a thought provoking article, I wish you could have included ' intellectual honesty' while appraising oneself. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Deepak Malhan 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Good Article by any standards ,keep it up !! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Edie Patterson 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; So helpful-and in my case, timely. Thank you, and the others whose posts are also excellent. As someone who works semi-solo, this is a great boost. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	parthi 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Good Read ! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Julie-Ann 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Fantastic and thought providing piece! You really point out the traits that make successful people stand out. In the service world, thinking as a “we” can also set one apart. As this article (http://www.upyourservice.com/l... suggests, it’s all in the attitude. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Diva 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I'm adding Mitch's #10 to this excellent list. Heidi's article reframes the way to approach challenges both big and small, both personal and work related. Thanks you to both of you. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Steinar Knutsen 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; This is a great list. #1 and #3 are really powerful and often overlooked. Personally, I've found that documenting my goals and tracking progress not only helps me achieve my goals, but often leads to quicker turnaround and better results than expected. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this.  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In my experience finding the gaps in a process is only effective when the "Gap" is filled by proactive, productive action.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank for the rest of the list to... Great article!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;David Mount&lt;br /&gt;http://coretrainingsolutions.n... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Simple Chief 3 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; My favorite part was the statement "detect and seize the opportunity when it arises, increasing your chances of success by roughly 300%." Chance favors the prepared mind. The insight is that if you don't prepare, you won't detect your chance. Brilliant. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Giuseppe 3 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I'm very pleased I came across this post as I recently wrote a shorter blog post on my site on the differences between an opportunity seeker and an entrepreneur. My view is simple in that one wants to make money off other people's efforts and one will have long term success from their own efforts. You can visit my post at http://www.giuseppe-saieva.com...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	saif 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; nice work. anyone who want to succeed must adopt these nine things n i assure that he wouldn't fail in his whole life..... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Matt 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Yes. Nice read. Is it bad form to mention that I wrote something similar 3 years ago? http://blog.tsheets.com/2008/b... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Loraine Antrim 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Success comes easier if we not only set specific goals, but realistic ones as well. Sometimes in our zeal, we set an aspirational goal that is so aspirational, it dooms us to failure. Don't set out to change the world as your goal or you'll be doomed to failure, but it could be a nice aftereffect! Loraine Antrim &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Archgone 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Hi:&lt;br /&gt;I'm pleased to see another forum that discusses something, rather than another classified-ad string that says 'Hi, I work from XXX to XXX and I'd be glad to make money doing whatever I do, at your expense", but you could add some body to the discussion especially in view of your 'Harvard' reference in the heading. I'd be interested in the responses from capable colleagues. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Sutej 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; very enriching!&lt;br /&gt;wondering if someone here can help me on focusing and concentrating while studying.&lt;br /&gt;I am currently doing my undergrads,unable to overcome this hurdle, maybe looking back, some of you could offer worthwhile solutions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Ed 2 months ago in reply to Sutej &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Sutej - #1 worthwhile solution - don't say "unable to overcome this hurdle" - as long as you think this, it will be true for you, and no other advice you receive will have as much impact as your "redefining" that.  Once that is gone your paths will start to open up......not to oversimplify, but getting started is that simple - deciding that you are able to overcome this immediately.  # 2 - have a big enough why - if your purpose is unclear, it's much tougher to focus and concentrate.  You have to clearly relate your actions to a purpose that really moves you - then it will start to make sense and come together.  Let me know how things work out.... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Ajoy Vakil 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; What a wonderful statement Heidi - "Be a Realistic Optimist" Excellent article - wit!h so many practical / implementable tips!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ajoy Vakil &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	zoltan 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great post. I think goal setting is important in order to get things done. You have to set realistic, but challenging goals though. And, you have to set your priorities and do first thing first. In our society we have so many distractions so we have to really focus on what we are doing to get back on track.&lt;br /&gt;http://www.selfesteem2go.com &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  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Number 3 is a good roadmap to track one's progress even better if you have an accountability partner. A thunder of applause to the 10th suggestion of Mitch to Review and celebrate successes. After the delayed gratification comes pampering:)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	genehammett 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great article. I especially like the examples.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gene Hammett&lt;br /&gt;http://www.linkedin.com/in/gen...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Reeram 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great artcile &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Rvashisht 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; This is a great list but there is something more that successful people like Steve Jobs do - challenge the status quo and follow up with their actions. Here are my thoughts on it&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://techceo.wordpress.com/2... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	fajas colombianas 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Its all about will power, the more will you have, the more you will exceed in life. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	KBihr 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Good insight into how to set goals and achieve them. I would like to see more on how to translate that same philosophy into the business/work setting, with specific examples as well. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Sanjay Gurnani 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; A good practical list. Thanks &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Rajan Murti 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Thank you Heidi for your insights. An extreme pleasure in refining our knowledge. I believe that success is all about choices one makes in life. Humans, however have an everlasting urge to seek happiness thus the need for us to reward ourselves in each step as mentioned earlier by Mitch. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cheers &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	DS 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; A very timely piece. Internet has an ugly side. And that is to make you loose focus. Such advises are required, more on regular basis now....Atleast this is how it goes with me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Deepak Sharma&lt;br /&gt;Sapperworks Consulting&lt;br /&gt;India&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Coachpeg 17 hours ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; The 10th "thing" is to confidently speak to your achievements. Know where you have made an impact in your career and your life and say so. To some it may seem like bragging. To others, those that count in your life, it will expressing your passion! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Stephen 21 hours ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Good article! It is true that successful people even if they know it or not will do things differently than the average person,it may be that they take advantage of opportunities when they present themselves or that they make goals and stop at nothing to achieve them! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Jonyaq 1 day ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Overly, I also perceive over several below points are of crucial and succeeding motors:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. realize one's strength both mentally and physically, values and self existence that all can be done if wished and wanted for so strongly.Almost in every single effort, human is lagging behind the pillar and stone;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. think and plan of what all can do based on potentiality, emotional strength, measure all posibilities and options to select best choices. The more difficult one is the most competitive option and having great benefits later on. This should open one head and eyes to see all options-visionary profile;&lt;br /&gt;3. find ways and approaches to achieve that as well as key resources, both softwares and hardwares. This will bear a very tight schedules and work plans ahead;&lt;br /&gt;4. against those tight schedules, time divide is very crucial one because one will share times amongst so many listed activities/plans/actions;&lt;br /&gt;5. take every timely and quick actions and initiative to implement and work all out;&lt;br /&gt;6. check and monitor all works and plans, programs, activities closely and tightly;&lt;br /&gt;7. get time to take rest, leisure activities to refresh energy, minds, cure some problems;&lt;br /&gt;8. creat large networks, groups discussions;&lt;br /&gt;9. re-do all and repeat all cycles with certain new changes and development. Tnx. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	integritive 6 days ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Number one jumped right out at me - Get Specific. This is probably one of the easiest, and yet, often overlooked ways to achieve your goals. We use goal cards to set down in writing our personal and professional goals, and then we have something tangible to remind us of what we're working towards. It's also a great reward mechanism for once you reach a goal, you have that card as proof of what you've accomplished! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Terry Schmidt 1 week ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; There is much to be said about letting go of dusty, obsolete, and inappropriate goals.  When I left the Harvard Business School my career goal was to become Secretary of Defense or a senator from Washington state.  And I started that quest in Washington DC.   But funny thing --- after a few years, the appeal of this goal declined as I discovered new arenas for adventure.   So it was clear that was not the goal to put my passion into.   However a nagging voice told me that somehow I blew it, failed, copped out.   So what had one been a motivating goal now became an obstacle to moving forward.    All of which is a reminder to scrub your lists on occasion. Forty years later, my goals are more modest, and have to do with supporting others and giving back to the system which has been so good to me. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Subbarao Ganaparthi 1 week ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; yeh i agree with what writter addressed on how to be successfull with nine insightfull things.and moreover i like one quote that success should be celebrated even whether it is small .apart from that i dont know precisely the information which has been printed on bill gates giant ms.eventually what i learnt from the above is keep knowing is not enough but keep doing to achieve we want is enough thing.meanwhile we must be aware of what to do and not to do.however i heartly congratulate you sir. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Mr M.R. 1 week ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Given that the Roman Empire lasted what around 500 years and the British Empire say nearly 300 years why is it that the American empire is on its last legs in less than 70 years? Could it be because of all these self-deluding Harvard Business School platitudes. For an empire to postulate so dynamically and freely yet bring itself to its knees through its own failures so quickly surely takes a rare kind of  mindset. Might it be that all this Business School think is blinding Americans from the reality of how the real world works. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Davidb 1 week ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Nice blog. However, the most important thing that I have learned from successful people in business is this: Don't try, Do. It is alright to fail as long as you learn from your failure, but to try, is just an excuse to fail. &lt;br /&gt;How many times have you given a difficult task to an employee and heard from that employee, "I don't know, but I will try." &lt;br /&gt;Those are the employees that will remain employees, while the employees with a can do attitude will succeed. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Jeremy L. Hamilton 2 weeks ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Excellent article.... If you dont go you will never know &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Y S Ganesh 2 weeks ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Very good article nice investigation. Good guidelines to inculcate. To keep grit what motivates the successful people.In pursuits where end results are not predictable (say an new venture/ occupation/ new study/ new project ) where more ifs are seen how to develop grit ? &lt;br /&gt;needs little substantiation.To take risk what kind of grit is needed?&lt;br /&gt;Old adage  " Have patience to be courageous". Have courage to be patience. This is enough or    anything more when it comes to grit?  &lt;br /&gt;Good wishes,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Y.S.Ganesh&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Dsprenkle 4 weeks ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I have noticed in my sales experience that probably the hardest but greatest skill for me to really encompass the meaning of: Active Listening.  Whether it be out in the field with current clients, potential new business or with my sales team.  To activly listen has changed how I respond to every conversations. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	DragonLeaders 4 weeks ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great article: sound advice with grounded principles. Particularly like: "hinking things will come to you easily and &lt;br /&gt;effortlessly leaves you ill-prepared for the journey ahead, and &lt;br /&gt;significantly increases the odds of failure." This should make those self-made "gurus" in self-help think more carefully.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Shyam Panchavati 1 month ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Switch off and indulge&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pursuing goals is a stressful experience, and carrying it forward to the next day often adversely affects your capacity to deliver.Night sleep doesn't exactly make you fresh, it is not a break mentally or psychologically.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To rejuvenate your energies, you need to switch off and indulge.Earmark a time (an hour) early in the day to do things that in no way compliment you goals.Just be indulgent to yourself.celebrate being yourself.do things that you enjoy doing,do things that make you happy.let not rules inhibit you, break them.Emote in a way that best suits you do it everyday preferably at the same tiem and see the difference.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You will find your energies elevated to the levels unimaginable.And the results will speak for themselves. You will find more details in my article.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;IF ETERNAL IS YOUR DESTINATION, THE PATH LIES WITHIN....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://capacitybuildingdevelop...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shyam &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	wwespot 1 month ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great to read this article, thanks for sharing this. This is true that "Winners Don't do different things, but they do things Differently - by Shiv Khera"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Search_census 1 month ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; 9 things to success, 10 things to leadership, 50 ways to independence, 22 steps to integrity, all those crap, i wonder if this is self actualization for authors who write these. or they just want attention. -.- &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Stanley 1 month ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; One major thing I have read about success or reaching a goal is this; winners are willing to endure pain and suffering to reach their goals. I have read Gordon Ramsay's and Marco White's autobiographies and these great chefs when they were starting out would show up early for work and leave late, show up for work on their days off to become better chefs, and stand out in the cold and do a job when no one else would. This would demonstrate their absolute seriousness, a thing I have termed " signaling ". This would attract the attention of their head chef, and they would be given advice and opportunities that other workers wouldn't. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Socialalertz 1 month ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; This a great read, I am making changes based on this article immediately. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Craig Hohnberger 1 month ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great article Heidi and great additional comments.  Grit is huge!  I know so many people with so much talent that give up and move to the next great idea before fulfilling the promise of the thing they are working in now and they end up spinning their wheels for another cycle.  And yes, Mitch, celebrating successes is extremely important.  I do a "gratitude journal" in the evenings as I plan my next day and have to have at least 7 things I am grateful for that happened that day.  Forces me to look for the good throughout the day, no matter how challenging the day is.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Craig Hohnberger &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Rachael Olajide 1 month ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I  like this article. It all makes perfect sense. Often what we need to adapt from successful people is the way they think and the way the methods they adopt. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Nani1052005 1 month ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; really nice one........please post goood articles if anybody have.....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Billionaire 1 month ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Heidi is quite right as are most of the posters when it comes to getting the keys to unlock success. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	MyCollegesandCareers 1 month ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great list, I especially agree with #9. Focusing on what we can do to improve will help us look forward optimistically rather than dwelling negatively on our shortcomings. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Halil Özgür 1 month ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Extremely useful list. I especially like speech if it provides something both new and practical, combined with nice wording (e.g. Build your willpower muscle). We are neither powerless nor absolutely powerful. Everything is normally gradual.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As usual with such lists however, its utility only grows as you follow more and more points from it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS: I'm not a native English speaker and I don't want to be a smart-a** but, shouldn't there be a "how" or something in the last sentence of the point #8? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Binnybhogal 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; worth reading,,,this article motivated me when i really wnt it &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Frehiwot tamru 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Frehiwot from Ethiopia,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you so much it is very helpful. All the nine points contribute for our success and  failure one way or the other. we may not necessarily fulfill all the nine points to be successful, they are nice checklist to ease our progress towards to success.... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Katrina 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I agree with the points discussed in this article--especially the first one (get specific). Many people fail to realize that they are not being very specific about their goals in life. I personally found most of my goals very vague until this was brought to my attention.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Katrina Bea&lt;br /&gt;Internet Marketing Personnel&lt;br /&gt;New Media Services Pty. Ltd.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Web and Mobile Support Services Provider&lt;br /&gt;http://www.newmediaservices.co... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Gil Pizano 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; A really refreshing article!  I personally never tire of reading such posts. What can be tiring is when people attempt to "short-cut the short-cut" and not do some of the basics that can be done in order to achieve success in whatever they are attempting to do. Those very basic items are what this article talks about. Thanks for sharing this post with us Heidi! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	uvtlv 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; good!!! like it&lt;br /&gt;you sould read this blog about "the list" a tool for good life&lt;br /&gt;http://the-list.co.il/en/?page...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and here...&lt;br /&gt;http://the-list.co.il/en/?phot... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Munish 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Hi,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sorry for being contrarian! But, I do not entirely agree with too much emphasis being on success that too by "being focussed", especially through 9 points like stratgies (or 5 points, 6 points, 7 points....). We all know, "being focussed" and "getting things done" come at the cost of  "sustainability" and "leaving someone behind through illegitimate/unethical ways( others may or may not be aware of them). I request the authors  not to propound "one sided reality" as it is creating more harm than good, when we start looking at things at macro level: both in space and time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sorry for being contrary words but felt like expressing! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Eric Bonnici 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; This is an awesome article!  I feel bringing the last point into your conscious awareness is critical. That's because it's easy (and often done without thinking) to focus on what you won't or don't want to do. I also like the idea of keeping things realistic. This article is definitely going into my bookmarks of favorites. Have a great day and thanks. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Charles Oh 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Good Job &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Mmelihh 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Very nice &amp; effective suggestions, thank you &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Vivek_nair25 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I am pretty impressed and motivated the way the writer had jotted things &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Richard Hawkins 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Good article and comments.  In addition to what was said I find that successful people focus on their strengths.  They accept the fact that they can't be good at everything and surround themselves with people who have complimentary skills.  Great technicians don't try to sell.  Great sales people don't try to write code, and so on. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Sujata Aghor 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Wonderful Article!!!&lt;br /&gt;I myself follow many things from this, but i get inspired to improve more with these guidelines. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Mzmazad 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Recommended to read....it's a nice one. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Tharindu 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Good post. Also i would agree on "Mitch McCrimmon" 10th suggestion : Review and celebrate successes.  Its really help you to achieve more big goals ahead in the future. When you appreciate,  celebrates your inner mind always be willing to drive you to that goal. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Roger 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Nice Post!! Enjoyed reading it!!! Will try to put it to practice. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Saket Vohra 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Its good piece of thoughts put together..i must share being specific in your conversations does help in yr persnl n professional front as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good Post! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Gosh89 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; The problem of today's society is that we are having too many goals. Most of them bigger than achievable or even realistic. We know it in back of our mind and we think it might happened if we only wish for it. The reality is that we are living in a real world and if we take two steps forward we will only go two steps forward while our feet is on the ground. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Rizwan Qureshi 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; very nice, well researched article.... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Dave Smith 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I'm not an advocate for goal-setting.  It doesn't work for most of the people, most of the time..it's fine for competitive people, but what of those folks who feel no need to compete?  What of those folks who have ambition in life that cannot be measured?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For example, if your 'goal' is to become a better father, how can you quantify that?  What if your 'goal' if to live a peaceful life?  How can you measure that?  This competitive/win/overcome/beat attitude only exists in about 15% of the population.  For them, goal-setting is fine, for the rest, it's just an unwelcome distraction from living a cool and fulfilling life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"There is only one true success.  To be able to live your own life, in your own way.&lt;br /&gt;-Christopher Morely &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Bholland 2 months ago in reply to Dave Smith &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Goals which might help you be a better father (from my personal observation that the biggest issue most men have with children is that they do not pay attention to their children when the children ask for attention, but when they themselves are 'ready' to attend to their children):&lt;br /&gt;- As soon as I get in from work I will kiss my children- At dinner, at least once a week, I will ask my kids 'what was the best thing which happened to you today?' and I will listen to the answer and contribute at least two more comments / questions&lt;br /&gt;- I will do one activity a week / month with my children which I will let them choose.  (even if I have to set limits on costs etc...)For living a more peaceful life, it may depend on whether you are causing the loss of peace or whether you are letting other people disrupt your peace.  But possible options include:- as per original article, 'I will not shout, I will breathe deeply three times'&lt;br /&gt;- I will not discuss politics (religion, child-rearing philosophies, whatever...) with Person X&lt;br /&gt;- I will limit my meetings with Person Y to no more than 45 minutes (since whever we spend longer than that together we annoy each other)&lt;br /&gt;- If Person Z shouts at me, I will not shout back, I will say 'I do not want a fight so I am going now' and I will go.&lt;br /&gt;...goals do not have to be competitive with someone else, or about an achievement, they can be about changing your own behaviour.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this.  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The cool thing is it's your life so whatever goals you choose to have, and in whatever format you define them, that's fantastic.    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Craig Hohnberger &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Raju Muralidhar 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Amazing stuff..Was helpful specially the muscle part was great. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Irfan Suleman Chohdry 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; very well written, helped me to clear a lot things &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Shravan Kumar 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Very Nice Suggestion,  I like this thank u very much for suggestion &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Neeraj Rohilla 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; very nice comments. I liked the most which says one should not think that his abilities fixed and he can not do that he has never done. So always get rid of this feeling and try to improve your skill and abilities. : ...... Neeraj Rohilla &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Anthony H. 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Very helpful, Thanks! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Iamaditigaldesigner 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; 11. Don't waste time reading articles or books about being successful&lt;br /&gt;12. Be born male - far less hurdles, however it's probably better to be your own boss as a women as the chances of being promoted there in someone else's business are far slimmer &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	gatot siswanto 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I think it is a new paradigm of what factors enable us for succesful. the most important thing is a patient and commitment to succes itself &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Shekar AR 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; 9 steps are +ve motivation, one who act they will achieve &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Henri Behari 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; looks like running a startup &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Guest 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Thank you Krishan...my thoughts exactly! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	K Mohan 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Good It is self assessment of self to improve.It is an on ongong possess to improve oneself &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Krishan @OCW 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I love most of your blog posts but somehow it feel like the things are getting repetitive and  novelty is lost somewhere. Hope we can change the track and bit to more specific business problems and real life ideas of goodness. If you may wish :-) &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Mary Elise Chavez 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Fantastic, great post. I'll be sharing this with my team @BFMWeb. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Mike DePaoli 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great post. Sounds like Kaizen for self-improvement and goal achievement &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	internet fax 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I think that having realistic goals and expectations is the main thing. Too many business owners have pie-in-the-sky goals without the means to achieve them. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Prateek 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great Thought........ With Deep understanding...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Should Definitely Implement in our life.........&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Prateek &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Jay 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Persistence! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Naeemsolangi 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Nice &amp; very Constructive. thankssss HBR &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Sebastian Font 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Lots of comments, with many adding their 2 cents. &lt;br /&gt;For me, the essence is what is important, and that is a framework of items that help get us out of the box and improve our progress. You don't need an all inclusive list to improve your results, and its possible that you need to tweak some of the 9 steps to make them work for you. But again, at the end of the day, its about using some sort of reasonable framework of 6, or 8 or 10 steps to help pull you out of mediocrity. &lt;br /&gt;http://criticalperformancellc.... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Olivia Lane 2 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; The list is great.  I learned the lesson some time ago, that celebrating the little things that we accomplish really is critical to any success.  The recognition of the small things that each of us must overcome is the only we can see the before and after in the present moment.   Even animals get treats for obeying their masters ... don't we all like treats, too! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Success 3 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Great thread! thanks to all who contributed! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Rammohan 3 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Can we add 'Building a team of like minded people'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks&lt;br /&gt;Rammohan &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	MendelsonConsulting 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; One additional thought on Heidi's article is that perhaps she purposely listed only nine in an effort to encourage all of us to fill in and provide the tenth! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Rahim 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Nice Article .... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Nick Tarazona 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v... The Power of Failure. JK Rowling is keynote speaker for Harvard University Commencement June 5, 2008. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Abdulla Al Babul 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Really, I feel better after reading this. However, We should think positive then we can overcome the problem easily. &lt;br /&gt;Thank you, Heidi Grant Halvorson. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Mehul 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Very practical points... Thanks for sharing and Thanks those people in discussion as well. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Trivakenny 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Am at a peak of my dreams,thinks get though when you almoslt there.but one thing i just leart now is you have to keep pushing to the limit till we hot the goal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;thanks alot for the article. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Marketers to Experts 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Any peer-reviewed evidence to support these claims? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Marketers to Experts 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Oh please, is there any research or data to support these platitudes? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Heidi Grant Halvorson 4 months ago in reply to Marketers to Experts &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Marketers to Experts,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In short, there are boatloads of peer-reviewed research to back up "these claims." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For work on specificity, see anything by Locke and Latham (e.g., Locke, E. A. and Latham, G. P., (2002), “Building a Practically Useful Theory of Goal Setting and Task Motivation”, American Psychologist, Vol. 57, No. 9, pp. 705–717.) I believe at last count there are over 1000 studies demonstrating the importance of specificity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For work on the importance of seizing opportunities through if-then planning, try Gollwitzer, P. M., &amp; Sheeran, P. (2006). Implementation intentions and goal achievement: A meta-analysis of effects and processes. Advances in Experimental Social Psychology, 38, 69-119. Or, perhaps one of mine: Duckworth, A. L., Grant, H., Loew, B., Oettingen, G., &amp; Gollwitzer, P. M. (2011). Self-regulation strategies improve self-discipline in adolescents: Benefits of mental contrasting and implementation intentions. Educational Psychology,31, 17-26.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the interest of space-saving, for the remainder of the points I made, I refer you to following highly-regarded academic handbooks of scientific psychology: The Psychology of Goals (Guilford, 2009, which I co-edited), The Psychology of Action (Guilford, 1995), and the Handbook of Self-Regulation (Guilford, 2004).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or, you could just buy a copy of my new book, Succeed: How We Can Reach Our Goals. It is practically bursting with citations, if I do say so myself. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7 people liked this.  Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	psychology student 4 months ago in reply to Marketers to Experts &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Why so skeptical? Try it and see for yourself! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Steel_cutlass 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I doubt anybody cured their anger problem through "deep-breath replacement-behavior" activity. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Guest 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Love it! I always reward myself after a show with a nice Margarita and a pat on the back...as long as I sell something! Ha ~Denise &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Vishal Modi 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Excellent post Heidi. many thanks. Point # 3 is something that I was challenged with as to how do I measure the progress towards my goals. One thing that I put in to practice is at end of the day, I ask my self the question what do I know today that I did not yesterday and I keep a track of those. And many times the answer were not fancy at all.I am surprised how much help this has been and how through these daily learning I made minute changes to my plans/strategies so as to achieve the end goals.Now when I now look back at my daily logs, I feel I have progressed and it just motivates me to keep going on. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	P K Singh 4 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; nice tips...but seldom it is obseved that very typical business situation - when one go for big change thru applied knowedge/latest technology deployement..."why there is huge resistance to change" when every one know that it is good for the economy. How to overcome with this type of buiness situation? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Zachi 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; This is a really enlightening article. There some similarities that successful people share. Quite thoughtful. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	DancewithChaos 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I've always been searching for feel good and motivating articles like yours Heidi. Lucky I found it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For me goals are there for us to have a purpose to live for and give meaning to our lives. We may not necessarily reach all the 101 goals written on our list but at least we get to learn something along the way and become better persons as well. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	David Kaiser 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Overall, I agree and this these are sound ideas. One question, though, how is "grit," as you define it, different from "willpower?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;David Kaiser, PhD&lt;br /&gt;Executive Coach and CEO&lt;br /&gt;www.DarkMatterConsulting.com &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Nutflipped 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I imagine that this what Kaddafi was doing for the last 40 years but must have lost focus recently. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Dipendra Thakur 5 months ago &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Excellent piece........ &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Like  &lt;br /&gt;Reply &lt;br /&gt;	Mailbandaru 2 months ago in reply to Dipendra Thakur &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Good article and great people discussing it. As mentioned in the article, take one step at a time with the key as " though small, something sustainable".&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-4438848075467538808?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/4438848075467538808/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/nine-things-successful-people-do.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/4438848075467538808'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/4438848075467538808'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/nine-things-successful-people-do.html' title='Nine Things Successful People Do Differently   by Heidi Grant Halvorson |'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-5201715204455404416</id><published>2011-08-10T15:17:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-10T15:18:24.651-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Ten characteristics of natural leaders</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Ten characteristics of natural leaders&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Leadership exists on a continuum from managing self to managing others to managing the organization. Natural leadership does not mean that you either have it or you don't. It does mean that you are willing to assess your style and behavior, and that you are willing to learn and grow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. The only person you can change is yourself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Self-management comes before managing others or managing an organization. Understanding the impact of your behavior is crucial to leadership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. You must feel comfortable being in a leadership role.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Leadership calls for authenticity. If you are not comfortable with the role, others will sense it and withhold the full measure of whatever it is they have to contribute.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Being a natural leader involves being able to adjust your style to the skill level and commitment of others in any given situation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Reading the people/task mix requires skill, flexibility and intuition.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Natural leaders develop other leaders&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Leaders of today must share skills, insight and power to bring along others who have the potential to lead. This includes giving others the opportunity to lead. Someone once said that leadership is like manure. Left in a pile it starts to smell really bad and does no good. Spread around evenly it promotes growth and doesn't smell bad at all.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. As a leader, you must make sure information flows freely in all directions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The culture must be such that withholding information to strengthen one's own power or for any reason is absolutely not tolerated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Leaders have to be accessible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You have to create a culture in which people feel they can tell you the bad news as well as the good news. You cannot isolate yourself or let others isolate you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Leadership in modern organizations means sometimes fading into the background . . . when it is natural to do so.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You do not have to plan every tactic or lead every charge. Hire good people who can articulate your vision as well as you can (maybe even better) and then let them do it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. Leaders need to provide support.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Become a sponsor for someone else's idea or project. Make sure you provide the resources and structure others need to succeed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9. Leaders must create a culture that encourages risk and tolerates mistakes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In these times, playing it safe in business is the riskiest strategy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10. Leadership skills can be developed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Natural does not mean born with. Leadership skills can be learned and this learning circles back to self-management.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   Food For Thought&lt;br /&gt;The biggest obstacle standing between you and anything you want, is your lack of belief that you can have it. Once you truly believe it is possible, once you can see yourself doing it or being it or having it, the rest is just details. With belief, plus the commitment to follow through and do whatever it takes, anything can be yours. &lt;br /&gt; Everything you need to get there is available to you, when you believe and when you commit to getting there. Know that you can do it. Nothing can hold you back once you have belief and commitment. You will find a way. You can. Do it.&lt;br /&gt;Pleasure is a matter of conditioning. A teenager smoking her first cigarette doesn't enjoy it at all. She's almost certainly doing it to "fit in" and it probably even makes her a little sick. After a while, though, she likes it so much she finds it hard to quit.&lt;br /&gt; Strategy for achieving your success: Choose the pleasures that move you toward your goals. &lt;br /&gt; For example, there is just as much potential for pleasure in jogging 2 miles as there is in eating a bag of potato chips. The person who is trying to get in top physical shape would be well advised to find his pleasure in the jogging rather than the chips. Just like everything else in your world, your pleasures are under your control. Use them to your advantage.&lt;br /&gt; What is it that you truly want to do? You can do it. Realize that you are as capable as any person. See yourself doing it. Touch it. Hear it. Taste it. Walk inside of it. Drive around in it. Believe in it and believe that it is yours.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.belgotec.com/sb-tips/tips76.htm&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-5201715204455404416?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/5201715204455404416/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/ten-characteristics-of-natural-leaders.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/5201715204455404416'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/5201715204455404416'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/ten-characteristics-of-natural-leaders.html' title='Ten characteristics of natural leaders'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-4043001490219765594</id><published>2011-08-10T15:12:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-10T15:14:35.835-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Leadership From the Inside Out</title><content type='html'>May 27, 2010, 7:59 PM ET&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Leadership From the Inside Out&lt;/span&gt; — Part I&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By Gary Hamel&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a pair of recent posts (Part I, Part II) I argued that many of us have lost our faith in large institutions. We increasingly feel ill-used by our employers and ill-served by our elected representatives. More troubling still, many of us have also lost faith in faith-based organizations. In this regard, the Church of England (CoE) stands as Exhibit A. Founded 476 years ago when King Henry VIII broke with papal authority, the Church of England has in recent years been fractured by a contentious dispute over the ordination of gay and lesbian clergy. As thorny as that issue may be, it is not the most vexing problem facing the “mother church” of the worldwide Anglican Communion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today, less than 3% of the British population attends a Church of England service in a typical month—this according to a recent CoE report. That’s down by nearly 50% from 1968. A survey by Tearfund, a Christian charity, found that a third of Britain’s population is now “de-churched.” These are former parishioners who no longer attend weekly services. The fact that more than 50% of UK residents still describe themselves as Christians makes the decline of Britain’s “established” church all the more perplexing. As one website put it, “If the Church of England was the national football team, we would have sacked the manager long ago.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The fact is, the Church of England has become irrelevant to most British citizens. At this point I should declare a personal interest. During the ten years I lived in the UK, I frequently attended an Anglican church just outside of London. I enjoyed the energetic singing and the thoughtful homilies. And yet, I found it easy to be a pew warmer, a consumer, a back row critic. After all, the only thing the vicar seemed to want from me was a kind heart and a generous hand. Like the other congregants, I was asked to donate time and money to the church’s programs—and that was it. None of the clergy seemed eager for me, or others, to actually take the initiative and start something. I was never challenged to lead—only to “serve.” If it sounds like I’m justifying my indolence, I am—but it’s hard to get excited when there’s little scope for initiative, or when the categories of contribution have already been defined by others. Though inclined to faith, I struggled to find my niche in a top-down, pulpit-led model of “church”—and still do. In this regard I’m not alone—well, not if the experience of Drew Williams is anything to go by.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I met Drew last autumn, 15 years after I’d moved back to the U.S. Drew, I learned, had recently made his own transatlantic move—to take up the role of senior pastor at a church in Greenwich, Conn. Ten years earlier, he had also changed careers. Trained as a corporate litigator, Drew practiced law for ten years before deciding to pursue a “higher calling.” After finishing his theological training in Bristol, he was appointed assistant vicar of an Anglican congregation 25 miles northwest of London, in Chorleywood, England.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Drew e-mailed me after hearing a talk I had given on “management innovation.” During my exposition I argued that organizations should be built around “communities of passion.” Apparently Drew agreed. In his note he told me, “I wanted to jump up and clap when you made that point, but since I’m English, I didn’t.” When we finally connected by phone, I learned that Drew had helped pioneer a radical new “management model” during his tenure at St. Andrews—one that was led from the pews rather than from the pulpit, one that fit programs to people, rather than the other way around. Wow, I thought, there’s something to learn here. Maybe there really is a way to reconnect individuals and institutions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When Drew arrived at St. Andrews in 2003 as assistant vicar, he joined a church that had 500 members, a full roster of programs and a top-notch worship service—a church that was, by UK standards, large and successful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Problem was, as Drew put it, St. Andrews had a back door that was bigger than its front door. Each year enrollment was shrinking by about 10%. Drew was bothered by what he saw as a “come to us” model of church—where the worship service and the physical building were the center points—both physically and spiritually—of the church’s mission.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“There was a lot of excellence in worship,” recalls Drew, “but we were pretty weak at making disciples. People would look at those leading from the front and say, ‘What could I possibly offer here? Everything is done so professionally.’ We had a congregation that saw themselves as an audience.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;St Andrews’ vicar, Mark Stibbe, was also troubled by this reality, and asked Drew to take charge of developing a new church strategy. Believing that the real mission of St. Andrews was to bring hope to those outside of the building and beyond the congregation, Drew started to think about how he might build a “go-to-them” church—one that would encourage the spiritual growth of its members while multiplying their impact in the community around them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As he struggled with this challenge, Drew was hit with another realization. While St. Andrews had small groups (typically 3-4 believers who’d meet during the week to chat and pray), and a really big group (the entire congregation), it had no mid-sized groups—nothing that was the equivalent of an extended family—more than three but less than fifty. This struck Drew as odd since the early Christian church had been built around communities of just this size.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So Drew went out searching for some in-between models of church—and found one in Sheffield, England. There, Mike Breen, the vicar of St Thomas Crookes, had been experimenting with programs built around “mid-sized” groups of 20-50 members. Intrigued, Drew drove up to Sheffield and spent several hours interviewing Mike about his novel approach. During that conversation, Mike planted the seeds for what would become a bold experiment at St. Andrews.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Drew saw several advantages to organizing around medium-sized groups—what he would later call “Mission-shaped Communities” or MSCs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First, they would be more open and inviting than the small groups. Over time the small groups tended to become cliquish. Often, when Drew tried to help a new member connect with a small group, he’d be told that the group was full, or be asked whether the newcomer was “needy.” A mid-sized group was big enough that a newcomer wouldn’t stand out, yet small enough so he or she wouldn’t get lost.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Second, there’d be a lot more room for members to exercise their leadership gifts in intermediate-sized groups. A group of three or four wasn’t really big enough to tackle significant projects—and thus wasn’t very good at exploiting the leadership talents of its members. On the other hand, few lay members were eager to volunteer for large-scale, church-wide projects.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And third, Drew hoped the MSCs would strengthen the social fabric of the church by creating new opportunities for members to interact with one another.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Despite these potential advantages, Drew had doubts—and faced some tough, practical questions . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How, exactly, could he transform passive followers into active leaders? Was this even possible? How could St. Andrews exploit the power of self-organizing communities without creating a bunch of cliques and factions? Where would the cohesion come from? What role would he and Mark need to play in supporting this new strategy? Could they actually “lead,” if they weren’t leading from the front—and if so, how?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With just a month to go before he had to stand in front of the congregation and outline his strategy, Drew knew he needed answers to these questions—and fast.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, dear reader, what advice would you give to Drew? What have you learned about turning followers into leaders—and then leading the leaders? And is it possible to dis-integrate an organization without fragmenting it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--------------------------------------------------------------------------&lt;br /&gt;June 17, 2010, 5:19 PM ET&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Leadership from the Inside Out — Part II&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In my previous post, I introduced you to Drew Williams. For seven years Drew served as assistant vicar at St. Andrews, an Anglican parish in Chorleywood, England. When he arrived in 2003, Drew found a church that was big but not growing, and a congregation that was loyal but not energized. Mark Stibbe, head vicar at St. Andrews, challenged Drew to develop a plan that would change this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On a blustery November night, just a few short months after taking up his post, Drew stood in front of a nearly-full church and presented his strategy. Those hoping for a grand vision were disappointed. Instead, Drew pointed back to the early church. In the first few centuries after Christ, the church had been organized around small, local communities. Drew noted that those early believers had typically met in the biggest house they could find, and when they ran out of room, would subdivide and form a new community.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Drew admitted he didn’t have a precise plan for how to put his idea into practice, but he asked everyone present to think about the kind of difference they thought they could make if they were part of a more intimate community. He challenged his parishioners: What’s your passion? What service-oriented program would you want to start or join if you had the chance?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the end of his talk, Drew announced that he’d hold a follow-up session a month hence, on December 6. He invited anyone who thought they might be willing to lead an “MSC” – or “mission-shaped community” — team to come along. In his heart, Drew was hoping 12 volunteer leaders would show up, and four weeks later, that’s exactly the number that did.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some of those who came had a passion for children, others were eager to help the disabled, or the elderly. Drew encouraged his newbie leaders to start talking to others in the congregation, to start recruiting other volunteers and laying out plans, but provided very little direction. When a lay leader would ask him, “How often should we meet?,” Drew would say, “I don’t know, why don’t you pray about that.” When someone would ask, “Where should we meet?,” or “What should our strategy be?,“ he’d give the same answer: “Just pray about it.” Again and again, Drew pushed the responsibility for making the new model work back onto the parishioners—and (Drew believed) onto God.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Drew was clear about one thing, though—every group had to have a purpose that went beyond merely meeting up. Each week Drew met with all of the nascent teams, praying for them and encouraging them to take risks and fail forward.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first MSC got up and running in January. It brought together a group of members who lived in Watford, a large town near Chorleywood. The group met in a home to hash out their mission, and soon realized that a gaggle of children were playing football in a park across the road. Parents were standing around the frozen pitch, cheering on their kids. Standing on the sidelines were a few dozen younger siblings, obviously cold and bored. Maybe, someone ventured, we could run a club for the all the kids who come out each week and don’t get the chance to play. That plan was rapidly turned into action. Word spread, and soon the freshly-hatched MSC was being asked to run an after-class club at a nearby school. At every stage the MSC members were upfront about their intentions. “We’re going to talk about Jesus, is that OK?” Virtually all of the parents said “yes.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another MSC formed up to help people coming out of night clubs at 4 in the morning, when many were a bit worse for wear. Team members would offer the bleary-eyed revelers a cup of coffee or a ride home.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One MSC bought a double-decker bus and turned it into a mobile coffee bar. They’d park the bus in a disadvantaged neighborhood and invite folks in to sip a warm latte in convivial surroundings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Video was key to making these early successes viral. Drew would film the MSCs at work, play the videos at church on Sunday, and encourage other parishioners to get involved.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In addition to their community work, MSC members were encouraged to gather at least once a week outside of church to worship and plan. In setting up their worship space, most groups arranged their chairs in church-like rows. When they did so, Drew would remind them, “You don’t have to do it this way. You can ‘do church’ however you like.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Drew’s mantra, borrowed from Mike Breen, was “low control, high accountability.” Every team was free to set its own mission, but members knew the whole church was expecting them to do something that would make a noticeable difference in the lives of others. One rule, though, was sacrosanct: once an MSC grew to fifty members it had to subdivide.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Initially, the MSC project had no budget. Drew says that’s part of the reason the program didn’t run into a wall of resistance—he wasn’t pulling resources out of other programs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For the most part, the MSCs raised their own money—though eventually they were able to draw on church funds for minor operational expenses like renting a hall. At one point, Drew was supporting 30 MSCs on an annual budget of £30,000 (about $45,000).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Despite those early successes, Mark and Drew believed even bigger things were possible. Even as the MSC program was taking off, they were praying that God would put some dynamite under their church—to shake off the last cobwebs of complacency.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The TNT came in the form a major refurbishment that would close the church for 9 months. Rather than find an alternate space, Mark and Drew told the congregation that if they wanted to continue worshipping together they’d have to hook up with an MSC, if they weren’t already part of one. Dissenters warned Drew that this move might slim the church rolls by as many as 200 members. But over the next 9 months, St. Andrews grew from 500 members to nearly 1,000—as fence-sitting parishioners and got infected by the MSC virus.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There were other doubters who worried that giving would go down. When meeting outside the church, MSC leaders weren’t keen to take up an offering. So instead, the church set up a program that allowed members to set up a standing order for a weekly direct debit—funds would be drawn from the member’s bank account and deposited in the church’s coffers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There was one fact, however, that no one could argue with. The new, community-based approach to church was getting folks off the sidelines and into the game. It was also unleashing a ton of latent leadership talent. Here’s how one MSC leader, a woman who was profoundly deaf, described her role:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I can honestly say that leading an MSC for the last eight months has been the hardest and most challenging thing I have ever done – parenthood aside. In running the MSC I have discovered a lot of things about myself. Some I knew already and others are fresh revelations. I am not a brilliant administrator, neither am I a preacher. I don’t think I am a worship leader or a kids ministry leader but I have had to do all these things and more at some stage or another and I discovered that I can passably lead prayers, make OK coffee, improvise a kids session, preach if necessary, [and] impart difficult decisions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once the church re-opened, Mark and Drew realized St. Andrews had now grown too big for its building. For their part, many of the MSC members had secretly hoped that the renovation work would never be completed, since they were enjoying the adventure actually doing something, rather than being “nailed to a pew.” By this point, most MSC teams were meeting twice a month for worship and at other times to carry out their mission work. When team leaders asked Drew, “Do we really have to come back to church?,” he told them, “Pray about it and do whatever you feel led to do.” Everyone, though, was encouraged to show up on the fourth Sunday of each month for a time of “celebration.” To accommodate the entire congregation, the service was repeated four times during the day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Turns out, there’s a month each quarter that contains five Sundays, and these, too, became occasions for church-wide meet-ups. Typically, the format was conference-like, with guest speakers and presentations focused on the practical challenges of doing good in the world. Church services are held at St. Andrews on other Sundays, but there’s no expectation that everyone will attend. Whatever the agenda, though, MSCs leaders are always welcome to stand up and pitch their project.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While the MSCs multiplied opportunities for leadership and service, there were those who feared the new model might undermine the unity of the church as a whole. There was a risk that as members became more tightly knit together within their teams, they might also become less connected to the larger congregation. Mark and Drew wanted communities, not splinters.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A weekly newsletter was one of way connecting members. Each week Drew sent out a note updating MSC leaders and asking for prayer requests. Periodically he also brought all the leaders together to set priorities and identify new opportunities. Over time, many of the MSCs set up their own websites and this became another mechanism for keeping people informed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Other common touch-points included a church-wide teaching guide used by all the MSCs in their weekly worship discussions, and a compulsory training courses for MSC leaders and members.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There were, of course, hiccups. Occasionally an MSC leader would fight tenaciously for a project that was only marginally effective. Another source of friction came from neighboring vicars. The CoE is divided into geographically-defined parishes and some vicars raised objections when they learned that a St. Andrews team was operating outside its local franchise. In hindsight, Mark and Drew admit that they might have done more to anticipate these objections and smooth feathers along the way. Nevertheless, after witnessing seven years of growth and impact, there are few at St. Andrews who would opt to undo the MSC experiment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As Drew says, “this is a radically different model of doing church. It’s one where not every program gets established and blessed at the center. It’s one where the authority doesn’t trickle down, and where the spokes of control don’t run out from the center.” It is, though, a model that has been amazingly effective. In once representative month, more than 106 outreach projects were conducted by the MSC teams.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the time Drew left St. Andrews, in 2009, the congregation had grown to more than 1,600 members. Drew contrasts this with the “before” snapshot: “In 2003, we did back-to-back carol services at Christmas, with a great orchestra and a gifted speaker. At both services we invited people forward for prayer, and everyone stayed seated—no one came forward. I thought, this is as good as church is ever going to be. It was an exemplary piece of ‘attractional’ worship. We had drained every church within 40 miles, but it was all transference, no new growth. Everyone who was sitting there was already a Christian. I thought, we would have been better to break the congregation up and send them out caroling. It was just clear that this model wasn’t working.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Drew goes on: “Before we started the MSCs, we had a whole Sunday devoted to children’s work, and the point was to get more volunteers. People wept at the end of the service. And yet we had zero response. It was so depressing. When we started doing the MSCs, people had to step forward. And suddenly, people realized that they had a gifts, unexploited talents. In the culture of excellence, people felt under-qualified. Once they were in an MSC, they had folks they could work with, other amateurs who said, ‘Come on, we can do this.’ These were friends rooting for you.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are many lessons that could be drawn from this experiment in management innovation, but for now, let me suggest just two. First, if you’re a formally appointed leader, and you want to turn sheep into shepherds, you have to step out of your leadership role and say to people, “I don’t have a plan, what’s yours?” This is humbling. But only by doing this will you release the latent talents within your organization.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Second, you have to let people find the work that best suits them—this is the key to building a community of passion. If you force people into pre-determined slots, you’ll get slot-shaped contributions; you won’t get bold and innovative contributions. It’s pretty simple, really. If you want the unexpected, you have to give people the freedom to do the unexpected.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, can you run an airline this way, or a semiconductor fab line? I don’t know, but I bet you can run parts of it like this. One thing I’m sure about: if you want to fully take advantage of the extraordinary talents that exist in your organization, you’ll need to ask yourself each day, “What can I do to make this place feel less like a hierarchy and more like a community?” And here’s the good news: you don’t have to be the Archbishop of Canterbury to get started.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, dear reader, a few questions. Do you think Drew’s ideas have any relevance for your organization? If so, what would you do to build some communities of passion where you work? How would you start? What levers would you pull?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://blogs.wsj.com/management/2010/06/17/leadership-from-the-inside-out-part-ii/&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-4043001490219765594?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/4043001490219765594/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/leadership-from-inside-out.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/4043001490219765594'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/4043001490219765594'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/leadership-from-inside-out.html' title='Leadership From the Inside Out'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-2047186039345988505</id><published>2011-08-10T15:10:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-10T15:11:37.202-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Purpose of Power</title><content type='html'>May 11, 2011, 3:54 PM ET&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;The Purpose of Power&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By Gary Hamel&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Courtesy of HarperBusiness &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Power has long been regarded as morally corrosive, and we often suspect the intentions of those who seek it. Indeed, the lust for dominion is so unseemly that few of us would openly admit to a craving for clout.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hence, it might surprise you to learn that one of the world’s most distinguished management thinkers has recently produced a detailed manual for the power-hungry.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It often seems that the mendacious and egotistical have a particular talent for accumulating (and abusing) power—and at some point, most of us have probably been out-maneuvered by a more adept political infighter. But in Power: Why Some People Have it and Others Don’t, Jeffrey Pfeffer, a professor at Stanford University’s Graduate School of Business, gives nice guys and gals the tools they need to even the odds, by summarizing more than 30 years of research and teaching on how to get ahead.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Recently I talked with Pfeffer about why he’s written a book on power at a time when most management gurus are talking about collaboration, community and “open leadership.” Pfeffer’s argument is disarmingly simple: It takes power to get things done. Without power, you’re impotent—irrespective of your talents or the righteousness of your cause.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pfeffer started our conversation by reminding me of a disagreeable fact: Power is largely independent of intelligence (emotional or otherwise) and job performance. All of us know individuals who are brilliant but who punch below their weight when it comes to office politics. Conversely, we all know dim bulbs who’ve somehow found their way to the top of the tree. Cunning power players can even slough off failure. Think, for example, of all those executive vice presidents and board members who dithered while the banking system burned and yet managed to hold on to their positions, or even grab better ones in the wake of the collapse. It’s not that IQ and value-added aren’t important; it’s just that they’re no substitute for power.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So what’s Pfeffer’s advice for those eager to take charge?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First, you have to recognize that power is mostly taken, not given. Jeff quotes Peter Ueberroth (who organized the 1984 Summer Olympics and went on to become Major League Baseball’s Commissioner and head of the U.S. Olympic Committee), as saying power is 80% taken and only 20% given. In other words, if you want power you have to grab it. So when you see opportunities to extend the scope of your influence, seize them, and when you spot a power vacuum, fill it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Second, you need to understand the importance of your personal network and work relentlessly to improve it. Pfeffer recounts a conversation he had with Chip Conley, CEO of Joie de Vivre hotels. Conley pointed out that most people think of networking as a task, like taking out the trash. But no one tries to get better at taking out the trash. You can, however, get better at networking, and it’s important for people who are trying to gain more power to do so. With this in mind, Pfeffer recommends you think of networking as a skill “like speaking French or playing the piano.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Third, if you want power, you have to work to stand out. Growing up, we are often taught to be timid: Ask permission; Wait your turn; Stay in line; Don’t attract attention. But to get power, you have take the risk that comes with raising your head about the parapet. “Risk,” says Pfeffer, “is just as important in human capital markets as it is in financial capital markets. No risk. No reward.” Early in your career, it can help to volunteer for a task that others have shunned, or jump into a newly created role. The logic? It’s easier to stand out when you have your own niche and easier to get ahead when you don’t have to expend a lot of energy fending off rivals for a coveted post.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fourth, the pursuit of power requires persistence. Too often, Pfeffer argues, we look at powerful leaders and assume they got there without stumbling. But every great leader, from Abraham Lincoln to Steve Jobs, has encountered failure. The difference between those who go on to become powerful leaders and those who don’t, rests in how they react to reversals. If they accept failure as a verdict of fate, they will sink into anonymity. If, on the other hand, they learn from the blow, if it strengthens their resolve and prompts them to search for lessons, they will rise higher. Pfeffer cites the example of Bernie Marcus and Arthur Blank, co-founders of The Home Depot: “That story begins with two words: ‘you’re fired.’” In 1978, Marcus and Blank were fired from Handy Dan Home Improvement Centers in a dispute with the largest shareholder—this despite the fact that as president and CFO, the pair had led the business to record earnings. The setback proved to be the impetus Marcus and Blank needed to chase their dream of building an entirely new sort of super-scale DIY chain.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you want to hang on to power, Pfeffer argues that it’s better to be aggressive and unapologetic than bashful and contrite—even when you’re wrong. In his long-running MBA course, The Paths to Power, Pfeffer shows his students two videos. In each, the CEO of a beleaguered company is getting grilled on Capitol Hill. The first features Lloyd Blankfein, Goldman Sachs’ Chairman and CEO. When challenged over his bank’s role in the financial meltdown, Blankfein is pugnacious, unrepentant and in no mood to cede points. In the second video, BP’s Tony Hayward, who was unlucky enough to be CEO at the time of the Deepwater Horzon oil spill, comes across as meek and penitent. When the videos conclude, Pfeffer notes dryly that while Blankfein still has his job, Hayward was forced to resign less than six weeks after his congressional testimony. The meek may one day inherit the earth, but Pfeffer doesn’t think it’s going to happen any time soon.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pfeffer concedes that the quest for power demands a certain degree of selfishness. When asked whether a would-be leader should put company ahead of career, Pfeffer is unequivocal: “I’m not sure you should worry over much about the effect you behavior has on the organization overall, because there’s lots of data that suggests the organization doesn’t care much about you.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But what about the (very real) risk that power becomes an end in itself—that principles and prudence get jettisoned as excess baggage in the clamor to the top? Pfeffer’s advice: Put together a “personal board of directors” comprised of capable and honorable mentors. These shouldn’t be close friends or competitors, since you’re looking for honest and objective counsel. They should be people, though, who care enough about you to hold you accountable, and conversely, you should care enough about them to take their advice seriously.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like all of us, Pfeffer wants leaders who aspire not only to power but to goodness. The virtuous don’t always win, but Pfeffer believes a meritorious cause can be a signficant force multiplier. As an example, he cites the case of Dr. Laura Esserman, a surgeon at the University of California San Francisco Medical Center. For years, Esserman waged a tireless campaign to make the diagnosis and treatment of breast cancer more humane and patient centric. Her ultimate success, Pfeffer argues, was due in part to the nobility of her cause. While the meek may never inherit the earth, it’s heartening to know that the selfless may have a slim advantage in accumulating power.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having updated Machiavelli for the 21st century, does Pfeffer believe that everyone will soon become an accomplished power hound? Nope. Most people, it turns out, just aren’t willing to put that much into achieving the power they think they want. “There’s a price for power,” Pfeffer says. “I know very few very successful people who don’t devote a lot of time and a lot of energy and a lot of effort to their careers. Successful football coaches, for example, spend a lot of time in the film room watching games. When you’re watching the films, you’re not with your wife or your kids or your friends or whatever. So there is definitely a price to be paid, and not everyone is willing to pay that price. In the end, people have to figure out how much work they’re going to put into this.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like most of us, Pfeffer wishes large-scale organizations were paragons of meritocracy where competence and influence are always perfectly correlated, but he knows that’s not the case—at least for now. Hence his advice to anyone who’s itching to turn their company into a post-bureaucratic nirvana: You’d better first equip yourself with the armaments you need to beat the partisans of power politics at their own game.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So dear readers, a question: Do you believe you can succeed in an organization without explicitly working to acquire power? And if you answer “yes,” please explain your thinking, or provide an example.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://blogs.wsj.com/management/2011/05/11/the-purpose-of-power/&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-2047186039345988505?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/2047186039345988505/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/purpose-of-power.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/2047186039345988505'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/2047186039345988505'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/purpose-of-power.html' title='The Purpose of Power'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-8947722009878780713</id><published>2011-08-10T15:08:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-10T15:09:44.616-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Nine Ways to Identify Natural Leaders</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Nine Ways to Identify Natural Leaders&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By Gary Hamel&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;May 14, 2009, 11:54 AM ET&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The need to empower natural leaders isn’t an HR pipedream, it’s a competitive imperative. But before you can empower them, you have to find them. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In most companies, the formal hierarchy is a matter of public record—it’s easy to discover who’s in charge of what. By contrast, natural leaders don’t appear on any organization chart. To hunt them down, you need to know . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whose advice is sought most often on any particular topic? Who responds most promptly to requests from peers? Whose responses are judged most helpful? Who is most likely to reach across organizational boundaries to aid a colleague? Whose opinions are most valued, internally and externally? Who gets the most kudos from customers? Who’s the most densely connected to other employees? Who’s generating the most buzz outside the company? Who consistently demonstrates real thought leadership? Who seems truly critical to key decisions?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A lot of the data you need to answer these questions is lurking in the weeds of your company’s email system, or can be found on the Web. Nevertheless, it will take some creative effort and software tweaks to ferret it out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A few suggestions . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Establish a directory of key words corresponding to critical skills and competencies within your company, and then see who generates or receives the most emails on any particular topic.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Add a small box at the end of every incoming email that lets the recipient grade the sender’s response: was it timely, was it helpful?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Analyze internal email flows to see which folks are most likely to respond positively to emails from colleagues in other divisions—who’s collaborating across unit boundaries?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Create a system for ranking the frequency and value of each employee’s contributions to internal wikis or communities of practice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Encourage employees to write internal blogs, and to rank posts and comments.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Using key words, analyze company emails to see who’s had the most to say about important corporate decisions, and to see how widely those views have been disseminated and discussed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Identify emails relating to key projects and then identify the individuals who were the most critical “nodes” in the project team—the folks who seemed to be in the middle of every email exchange.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. Review incoming emails from customers to determine who’s getting the most requests for help, who’s been most responsive and who’s receiving the most praise. Or, give customers the ability to immediately score the email responses they get from company personnel.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9. Use Google Alert and news tracking to find out which employees are getting quoted most often online, and who’s showing up most often in the press.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are other types of data that might also be useful—but you get the idea.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sure, there are some practical challenges in collecting and analyzing this sorts of data. But ultimately, it should be possible for a company to create a multivariate leadership score for every employee.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Obviously, the old top-down hierarchy isn’t going to disappear any time soon. What would happen, though, if every employee had the chance to compete for leadership “points,” whether or not they had a management job? What would happen if everyone’s leadership score showed up in their online profile—so everyone knew how their colleagues ranked on expertise, helpfulness, collaboration and thought leadership? What would happen if anyone could attach a public comment to a colleague’s leadership score? What about including highly rated “natural” leaders in every important decision meeting? And finally, what would happen if leadership points were considered in compensation and promotion decisions? I’m not sure, but I bet it would do more good than harm.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One thing’s certain, though: we can’t invent Management 2.0 without inventing some new ways for people to accumulate and exercise authority. In the tempestuous seas of today’s creative economy, top-down leadership structures are fast becoming a liability. We need is a new currency of power—one based not on titles, but on every individual’s capacity to lead, every day. We need fewer zero-sum battles for plum positions, in which Machiavellian maneuvering wins the day, and more positive-sum competition to increase one’s personal leadership score—by delivering real value to colleagues and customers. We need a system that forces titled leaders to justify their positional power by competing in an open market for leadership esteem. And finally, we need organizations that aren’t built around a single, dominant hierarchy, but are comprised of many soft hierarchies, each corresponding to a critical skill or issue.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A few years back, two of my colleagues at the London Business School posed a cheeky question in the title of their leadership book: “Why,” they wondered, “should anyone be led by you?” If you reflect on this question every morning, your leadership score is bound to go up. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, readers, here are some questions to ponder: How would you find the natural leaders in your company? And once found, how would you help them expand their influence? Can you imagine other alternatives to traditional power structures? If so, what might they be?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://blogs.wsj.com/management/2009/05/14/nine-ways-to-identify-natural-leaders/&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-8947722009878780713?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/8947722009878780713/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/nine-ways-to-identify-natural-leaders.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/8947722009878780713'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/8947722009878780713'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/nine-ways-to-identify-natural-leaders.html' title='Nine Ways to Identify Natural Leaders'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-8618652920390365614</id><published>2011-08-08T16:21:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-08T16:27:06.360-07:00</updated><title type='text'>FIVE CHARACTERISTICS OF WEAK LEADERS</title><content type='html'>&lt;br /&gt;FIVE CHARACTERISTICS OF WEAK LEADERS&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes you learn from positive role models. Often you learn from negative ones. This is one of the reasons I love to read history—you inevitably get both.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For the last week or so, I have been reading Team of Rivals by Doris Kearns Goodwin. It is a page-turning account of Abraham Lincoln’s presidency and his political genius.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the beginning of Lincoln’s first term, he appointed each of his former Republican rivals—those who had run against him for his party’s nomination—to cabinet posts. The narrative demonstrates his amazing ability to tap into a broad array of perspectives and create alignment among those who often disagreed violently with one another.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately, Lincoln’s leadership was not perfect. He occasionally selected men for public service who were unworthy of his trust. One such individual was General George B. McClellan, commander of the “Army of the Potomac” and, eventually, first general-in-chief of the Union Army.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;General McClellan had significant character flaws that I believe serve as warning signs to anyone in leadership. Ultimately, these cost him dearly: He lost Lincoln’s confidence, his job, and a run for the White House (against Lincoln). Worse, they prolonged the Civil War and cost the lives of tens of thousands of soldiers on both sides of the conflict.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are the five flaws I jotted down as I read the book:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hesitating to take definitive action. McClellan was constantly preparing. According to him, the Army was never quite ready. The troops just needed a little more training. In his procrastination, he refused to engage the enemy, even when he clearly had the advantage. He could just not bring himself to launch an attack. When Lincoln finally relieved him of his duties, he famously said, “If General McClellan does not want to use the army, I would like to borrow it for a time.”&lt;br /&gt;Complaining about a lack of resources. He constantly complained about the lack of available resources. He didn’t have enough men. His men weren’t paid enough. They didn’t have enough heavy artillery. And on and on he went. The truth is that, as a leader, you never have enough resources. You could always use more of one thing or another. But the successful leaders figure out how to get the job done with the resources they have.&lt;br /&gt;Refusing to take responsibility. McClellan was constantly blaming everyone else for his mistakes and for his refusal to act. He even blamed the President. Every time he suffered a defeat or a setback, someone or something was to blame. He was a master finger-pointer. Great leaders don’t do this. They are accountable for the results and accept full responsibility for the outcomes.&lt;br /&gt;Abusing the privileges of leadership. While his troops were struggling in almost unbearable conditions, McClellan lived in near-royal splendor. He spent almost every evening entertaining guests with elaborate dinners and parties. He insisted on the best clothes and accommodations. His lifestyle stood in distinct contrast to General Ulysses S. Grant, his eventual successor, who often traveled with only a toothbrush.&lt;br /&gt;Engaging in acts of insubordination. McClellan openly and continually criticized the President, his boss. He was passive-aggressive. Even when Lincoln gave him a direct order, he found a way to avoid obeying it. In his arrogance, he always knew better than the President and had a ready excuse to rationalize his lack of follow-through.&lt;br /&gt;President Lincoln had the patience of Job. He gave General McClellan numerous opportunities to correct his behavior and redeem himself. But in the end, McClellan either could not or would not do so. He left the President no choice but to relieve him of his duties.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These same character flaws afflict many leaders today. The best safeguard is self-awareness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Question: Do you see any of these flaws in your own leadership? What can you do to correct them now—while you still have time?&lt;br /&gt;Disclosure of Material Connection: Some of the links in the post above are “affiliate links.” This means if you click on the link and purchase the item, I will receive an affiliate commission. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will add value to my readers. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”&lt;br /&gt;Disclosure of Material Connection: Some of the links in the post above are “affiliate links.” This means if you click on the link and purchase the item, I will receive an affiliate commission. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will add value to my readers. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;YOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Book Notes: Derailed by Tim Irwin&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What Keeps You Going When You Want to Quit?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;POSTED ON OCTOBER 28, 2009&lt;br /&gt; In: Leadership&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://michaelhyatt.com/five-characteristics-of-weak-leaders.html&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-8618652920390365614?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/8618652920390365614/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/five-characteristics-of-weak-leaders.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/8618652920390365614'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/8618652920390365614'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/five-characteristics-of-weak-leaders.html' title='FIVE CHARACTERISTICS OF WEAK LEADERS'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-4068944488512221897</id><published>2011-08-08T08:37:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-08T08:38:54.148-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The CEO of The 21st Century   Author: Mark Goulston</title><content type='html'>The CEO of The 21st Century&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Author: Mark Goulston&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mark Goulston is Senior Vice President of Emotional Intelligence at Sherwood Partners, a Palo Alto, California-based turnaround and growth consulting firm.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Author of 'Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior', Goulston is also a professor at UCLA. In his work, he helps leaders and teams quickly recognize, accept, correct, and learn from mistakes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mark can be contacted through his website www.shrwood.com, or by email at mgoulston@shrwood.com&lt;br /&gt;What are the qualities and characteristics that help create successful leaders ? Consider this four-point plan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With business leaders' public - and private - behavior coming under increasing scrutiny, it's becoming nearly impossible to avoid getting caught in a lie. Few things detract more from your credibility and the respect of your colleagues and peers than being called on the carpet to deflect accusations and defend an untruth. Can leaders who lapse learn how to be truthful in words and honorable in deeds ? Of course they can.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you're fortunate, you'll meet people over the course of your career who exceed your expectations in every way. When you work or spend time with them, you find yourself wanting to be a better person. You put a lid on your neuroses ( which might cause you to coax others to go easy on you because you are wracked with worry ) and on your sense of entitlement ( which can drive you to manipulate others into doing what you want through intimidation ). And you work well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why do we try to be the best that we can be with such people ? Given the choice between instant gratification and the lasting satisfaction of earning the esteem of someone you respect and admire, all but the most myopic of us would choose the latter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What would happen to your leadership effectiveness if you became more like the people from whom others actively seek acceptance and support ? How productive would your teammates and peers become if they all felt that having you as a leader represented the rare opportunity to work with someone that people inside and outside the company admire ? How much harder would people work if they were inspired and motivated by the privilege of your adamant faith in their skills ?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you answered anything less than an enthusiastically positive response to those questions, imagine the effect on people if you acted in a manner that was the polar opposite of this. How motivated would your colleagues be if you attacked, blamed, demeaned, and embarrassed them and yourself ? Perhaps they'd work hard in the short run because of fear or even resentment. Your organization might squeeze a winning quarter out of intimidation, but without inspiration you will never build a winning company.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What are the qualities that leaders should aspire to in order to earn, deserve, and command respect ? Look no further than a mentor whose belief in you made you want to give your best shot in your professional and personal life. Chances are they possessed the following four attributes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The judgment to know the right thing to do&lt;br /&gt;The integrity to do it&lt;br /&gt;The character to stand up to those who don't&lt;br /&gt;The courage to stop those who won't&lt;br /&gt;If you consistently practice and develop these qualities in your professional and personal life, you will accrue an additional benefit beyond getting the best out of your peers and colleagues, as well as your family. You will develop wisdom. With that you will be able to distinguish what's important in life, what's worth fighting for -- even dying for -- and what makes up a life that's worth living.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Usable Insight - Command respect, and people will beat a path to your door. Demand obedience, and sooner or later they'll head for the exits.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This article formed the first part of a five part series by Mark Goulston, originally published in Fast Company earlier in 2004.  The other four articles are available to read within the Value Systems section of the LeaderValues website.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;© Copyright Mark Goulston 2004&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.leader-values.com/Content/detail.asp?ContentDetailID=268&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-4068944488512221897?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/4068944488512221897/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/ceo-of-21st-century-authormark-goulston.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/4068944488512221897'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/4068944488512221897'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/ceo-of-21st-century-authormark-goulston.html' title='The CEO of The 21st Century   Author: Mark Goulston'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-7020016885288165194</id><published>2011-08-08T08:32:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-08T08:34:04.837-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Global Leader of the Future : New Competencies for a New Era   Author: Marshall Goldsmith</title><content type='html'>The Global Leader of the Future : New Competencies for a New Era&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Author: Marshall Goldsmith&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Marshall Goldsmith is one of the world’s foremost authorities in helping leaders achieve positive, measurable change in behavior: for themselves, their people and their teams. He is Founder of Marshall Goldsmith Partners www.marshallgoldsmith.com&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Marshall is a founding director of A4SL - The Alliance for Strategic Leadership, a consulting alliance that includes over 200 top professionals in the field of leadership development at www.A4SL.com. He is also the co-founder of the Financial Times Knowledge Dialogue, a videoconference network that connects executives with the world’s greatest thinkers. He has a Ph.D. from UCLA. He is on the faculty of the global executive education program for Dartmouth, Michigan and Oxford ( UK ) Universities. Marshall has partnerships with Hewitt Associates and Russell Reynolds to provide coaching for leaders around the globe. He has served on the Board of the Peter Drucker Foundation for ten years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Marshall’s fourteen books include: The Leader of the Future ( a Business Week “Top 15” best-seller ), Learning Journeys and Coaching for Leadership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;( Adapted from: Global Leadership: The Next Generation, FT Prentice Hall, Marshall Goldsmith, Cathy Greenberg, Alastair Robertson and Maya Hu-Chan )&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Accenture Consulting ( with Marshall Goldsmith ) was recently engaged in a multi-country research project aimed at helping global organizations understand the most important characteristics of the leader of the future. As part of our research we asked leading companies to identify future leaders who have the potential to be the CEO of a global organization. Rather than the usual process of asking today's leaders ( who will not be there ) to describe the future of leadership, we decided to ask tomorrow's leaders. We received input from these future leaders through focus groups, interviews and surveys. In total, we received input from over 200 future leaders who were nominated from over 120 major companies around the world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In comparing the desired characteristics of the leader of the future with the desired characteristics of the leader of the past we found both similarities and differences. Many qualities of effective leadership were seen as being important for yesterday, today and tomorrow. Characteristics like vision, integrity, focus on results and ensuring customer satisfaction were seen as factors that were critical in the past and will be so in the future. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Five key factors emerged that were seen as being clearly more important in the future than in the past include :-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;thinking globally&lt;br /&gt;appreciating cultural diversity&lt;br /&gt;demonstrating technological savvy&lt;br /&gt;building partnerships&lt;br /&gt;sharing leadership&lt;br /&gt;In this article, we will not address each of these factors in detail, but we will describe some of the key learnings from our research for each factor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thinking Globally&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Globalization is a trend that will have a major impact on the leaders of the future. In the past, even major companies could focus on their own country or, at most, their own region. Those days are soon going to be over. In the new world, a financial crisis that may begin in Thailand and spread to Southeast Asia will dramatically influence the rest of the world. The trend toward globally connected markets is likely to become even stronger in the future. The participants in our interviews mentioned that not only would leaders need to understand the economic implications of globalization; they will also have to understand the legal and political implications.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Two factors that are seen as making global thinking a key variable for the future are the dramatic projected increases in global trade and integrated global technology. Robert Reich, former Secretary of Labor in the USA, joked that he had difficulty trying to buy an "American" car because it was almost impossible to determine what percent of the car was actually made in America. In our research, participants from around the world saw the value of global trade. Several suggested that future leaders might need to spend time in multiple countries to better understand how multi-country trade could help their organizations achieve a competitive advantage. In an environment where competitive pressures are rapidly increasing, producers will have to learn how to manage global production, marketing and sales teams.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;New technology is another factor that is going to make global thinking a requirement for future leaders. With the use of new technology it will be feasible to export even office and "white collar" work around the world. Computer programmers in India can communicate with designers in Italy to help develop products that are manufactured in Indonesia and sold in Brazil. Technology can help break down barriers to global business that seemed insurmountable in the past. Leaders who are stuck in local thinking will be hard-pressed to compete in a global marketplace. Leaders who can make globalization work in their organization's favor will have a huge competitive advantage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Appreciating Cultural Diversity&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As the importance of globalization increases, future leaders will also need to appreciate cultural diversity. They will have to understand not only the economic and legal differences, but also the social and behavioral differences that are part of working around the world. Our research is consistent with research from the Center for Creative Leadership, which showed that "respect for differences in people" is one of the most important qualities of a successful global leader. The high-potential leaders we interviewed believed that developing an understanding of other cultures was not just an obligation, it was an opportunity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The appreciation of cultural diversity will need to include both the "big things" and "small things" that make up a unique culture. For example, few Europeans or Americans who work in the Middle East have taken the time to read ( much less understand ) the Koran. It is clear that religion is one of the most important variables that impact behavior in the region. Smaller issues, such as the meaning of gifts or the importance of timeliness will also need to be understood.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Participants noted that the ability to motivate people in different cultures would become increasingly important. Motivational strategies that are effective in one culture may actually be offensive in another culture. The same public recognition that could be a source of pride to a salesperson in the USA could be a source of embarrassment to a scientist in the UK. Leaders who can effectively understand, appreciate and motivate colleagues in multiple cultures will become an increasingly valued resource in the future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Demonstrating Technological Savvy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;High-potential leaders from around the world were consistent in expressing the view that technological savvy will be a key competency for the global leader of the future. One trend on this issue was clear - the younger the participant, the greater their emphasis in the importance of technological savvy. Many young future leaders have been brought up with technology and view it as a part of their life. Many present leaders still view technological savvy as something that is important for staff people, but not for the line officers that run the "real" business.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What does "technological savvy" mean ? It does not mean that every future leader will be a gifted technician or a computer programmer. It does mean that leaders will need to;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;understand how the intelligent use of new technology can help their organizations;&lt;br /&gt;recruit, develop and maintain a network of technically competent people;&lt;br /&gt;know how to make and manage investments in new technology and&lt;br /&gt;be positive role models in leading the use of new technology.&lt;br /&gt;Most young participants believed that new technology would become a critical variable that will directly impact their organization's core business. They expressed little sympathy for executives who thought they were either "too busy" or "too important" to learn the power of new tools. The clear consensus was that organizations that had technologically savvy leaders would have a competitive advantage over organizations that did not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Building Partnerships&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Building partnerships and alliances of all kinds was viewed as far more important for the future than the past. Many organizations that seldom formed alliances in the past ( such as IBM ) are regularly forming alliances today. This trend will be even more important in the future. Reengineering, restructuring and downsizing are leading to a world where outsourcing of all but core activities may become the norm. The ability to negotiate complex alliances and manage complex networks of relationships is viewed as becoming increasingly important.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The changing role of customers, suppliers and partners has deep implications for leaders. In the past it was clear who your "friends" were and who your "enemies" were. In the future these roles are becoming more blurred. In fields as diverse as energy, telecommunications and pharmaceuticals the same organization may be a customer, supplier, partner or competitor. In this "New World" building positive, long-term, "win-win" relationships with many organizations becomes critical. Defeating an "enemy" who may turn out to be a potential customer can prove to be a short-term victory.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sharing Leadership&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a world where leading across a fluid network may become more important than leading from above a fixed hierarchy, being able to effectively share leadership is not an option. In an alliance structure telling partners what to do may quickly lead to having no partners. All parties will have to be able to work together to achieve the common good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not only did our participants believe that the leader of the future would be different than the leader of the past, they also believed that the employee of the future would be different. Many of the future leaders saw that the management of knowledge workers was going to be a key factor in their success. Peter Drucker has noted that knowledge workers are people who know more about what they are doing that their managers do. In dealing with knowledge workers old models of leadership will not work. Telling people what to do and how to do it becomes ridiculous. The leader will be more in a mode of asking for input and sharing information. Knowledge workers of the future may well be difficult to keep. They will probably have little organizational loyalty and view themselves as professional "free agents" who will work for the leader who provides the most challenge and opportunity. Skills in hiring and retaining key talent will be a valuable commodity for the leader of the future. Sharing leadership may be one way to help demonstrate this skill.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Implications for the organizations of the future&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The high-potential future leaders that we interviewed believe that new times will require new skills. Unfortunately, many of today's leaders have not been trained in these skills or even been encouraged to believe that these skills are important. Thinking globally, appreciating cultural diversity, demonstrating technological savvy, building partnerships and sharing leadership are competencies that many present leaders do not have. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To successfully prepare for the next millennium, tomorrow's organizations will have to either change the mind-set of many leaders or change their employment status. For leaders who are near retirement, this may not be an issue. For middle-aged leaders who lack the needed new skills this may be a challenge. Leaders will have to learn why the new skills are important. They will have to understand what they need to learn and be shown how they can best learn it. The organization's reward and reinforcement system will need to be changed to reflect the new competencies. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The "bad news" is that many existing leaders do not see the value of these new competencies. The "good news" is that almost all of the top high-potential future leaders do see the value of these new competencies. Historically, present leaders have been expected to help mentor and develop future leaders. While this will still be true in the future, there may be a major addition to the process - future leaders may be recruited to help mentor and develop present leaders. If future leaders have the wisdom to learn from the experience of present leaders and present leaders have the wisdom to learn new competencies from future leaders, both parties can share leadership in a way that can benefit their organization.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;© Copyright Marshall Goldsmith, 2005&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.leader-values.com/Content/detail.asp?ContentDetailID=937&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-7020016885288165194?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/7020016885288165194/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/global-leader-of-future-new.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/7020016885288165194'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/7020016885288165194'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/global-leader-of-future-new.html' title='The Global Leader of the Future : New Competencies for a New Era   Author: Marshall Goldsmith'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-3244397638823871617</id><published>2011-08-03T09:33:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-03T09:40:16.179-07:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>http://www.leadershipimpact.com/home.html&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ensuring alignment -- or FIT -- among talent, strategy, structure and systems is a key success factor for leaders and a core benefit of Leadership Impact's services. When leaders can bring talent, strategy, structure and systems together in harmony, organizational effectiveness soars. They create a positive cycle of energy and accomplishment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When people, strategies, structures, or systems get out of sync, organizations falter.&lt;br /&gt;Individual performance problems surface.&lt;br /&gt;Silos develop and functional teams work at cross purposes.&lt;br /&gt;Communications and decision-making bog down.&lt;br /&gt;Staff and management lose focus.&lt;br /&gt;Organizational results are not commensurate with the investment of time, effort, or financial resources.&lt;br /&gt;We help leaders build strong teams and create positive environments by &lt;br /&gt;improving management selection and development, &lt;br /&gt;facilitating strategic planning and implementation, &lt;br /&gt;and assisting in the assessment and redesign of organizational systems and structures.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-3244397638823871617?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/3244397638823871617/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/httpwww.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/3244397638823871617'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/3244397638823871617'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/httpwww.html' title=''/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-2698544916229777950</id><published>2011-08-03T09:29:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-03T09:31:15.093-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Seven Ways to Beat Procrastionation</title><content type='html'>Seven Ways to Beat Procrastionation&lt;br /&gt;Seven Ways to Beat Procrastination&lt;br /&gt;By Jim Estill&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am a student of Time Management and a big part of time management is beating procrastination. We all do, even those of us who pride ourselves in having good time management skills.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From my studies, I have come up with seven proven ways to beat procrastination.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Do the worst task first: I have used this technique for years and I have even created more than one first thing. There is first thing in the morning, there is first thing in the after lunch, and there is first thing in the evening. I take a look at the items on my To Do List and figure out which one I am dreading the most and spend a limited time on it at least moving it forward. This is known as swallowing the frog first thing and the rest of the day looks good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Break it down: Often the reason that we procrastinate is because the task ahead of us is too big. Often there are small parts of the task that can be done. How do you climb a mountain? One step at a time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Use a friend: I wasn’t actually referring to delegation (but of course I don’t mind that either), I was referring to tell a friend what you want to do and get them to help you start the task. Often it is the act of starting a task that is enough to get the task done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Do the pleasant part of the task: Often many distasteful and large jobs have some parts to it that are not particular distasteful. Do them so at least you are moving forward on your most important items.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Fifteen (15) minutes: Just spend 15 minutes on a task. I have the attitude that I can spend 15 minutes doing virtually anything and I can certainly survive spending 15 minutes on something. Often by spending the 15 minutes on a task, I either complete it or I will get it moved forward enough that it has momentum to finish.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Track it: The simple act of tracking process on a goal is often enough to keep the goal moving forward. It seems odd but simply knowing that you are going to write down whether or not you have done something is often enough to make you move forward.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Reward or punish: The reason we do something is because it is more painful than not doing something, so if we can make a task more rewarding or more painful, then we tend to move forward on things so tying successful completion of a task to a reward is often a successful technique.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Remember that even successful people occasionally procrastinate. It is not a permanent condition.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For more strategies – buy my book – Time Leadership – Use the Secrets of Leadership for Time Management.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Seven Ways to Beat Procrastionation&lt;br /&gt;Seven Ways to Beat Procrastination&lt;br /&gt;By Jim Estill&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am a student of Time Management and a big part of time management is beating procrastination. We all do, even those of us who pride ourselves in having good time management skills.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From my studies, I have come up with seven proven ways to beat procrastination.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Do the worst task first: I have used this technique for years and I have even created more than one first thing. There is first thing in the morning, there is first thing in the after lunch, and there is first thing in the evening. I take a look at the items on my To Do List and figure out which one I am dreading the most and spend a limited time on it at least moving it forward. This is known as swallowing the frog first thing and the rest of the day looks good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Break it down: Often the reason that we procrastinate is because the task ahead of us is too big. Often there are small parts of the task that can be done. How do you climb a mountain? One step at a time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Use a friend: I wasn’t actually referring to delegation (but of course I don’t mind that either), I was referring to tell a friend what you want to do and get them to help you start the task. Often it is the act of starting a task that is enough to get the task done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Do the pleasant part of the task: Often many distasteful and large jobs have some parts to it that are not particular distasteful. Do them so at least you are moving forward on your most important items.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Fifteen (15) minutes: Just spend 15 minutes on a task. I have the attitude that I can spend 15 minutes doing virtually anything and I can certainly survive spending 15 minutes on something. Often by spending the 15 minutes on a task, I either complete it or I will get it moved forward enough that it has momentum to finish.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Track it: The simple act of tracking process on a goal is often enough to keep the goal moving forward. It seems odd but simply knowing that you are going to write down whether or not you have done something is often enough to make you move forward.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Reward or punish: The reason we do something is because it is more painful than not doing something, so if we can make a task more rewarding or more painful, then we tend to move forward on things so tying successful completion of a task to a reward is often a successful technique.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Remember that even successful people occasionally procrastinate. It is not a permanent condition.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For more strategies – buy my book – Time Leadership – Use the Secrets of Leadership for Time Management.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-2698544916229777950?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/2698544916229777950/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/seven-ways-to-beat-procrastionation.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/2698544916229777950'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/2698544916229777950'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/seven-ways-to-beat-procrastionation.html' title='Seven Ways to Beat Procrastionation'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-1778674777609038667</id><published>2011-08-03T09:25:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-03T09:28:07.563-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Creating Effective Goals</title><content type='html'>Creating Effective Goals&lt;br /&gt;Creating Effective Goals&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By Jim Estill&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you have effective and clear goals?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In what direction do you want to go?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s time to replace your clock with a compass so you can head out in the right direction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why is it important to set goals?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Goals are important because you will get what you strive for. By actively thinking about what you intend to accomplish, you will work on achieving those accomplishments. Any area of your life which you focus on will improve, simply because you take the time to assess your habits.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Setting Effective Goals&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Goals are Dreams…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;…With Actions!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you set goals, you need to take many questions into account: what, when, why, and how. What are you going to accomplish? Be sure to be concrete about your answer. When are you going to complete the task, or achieve your goal? Why is this important to you? How are you going to realize your goal; what is your strategy?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is an easy acronym to help you create effective goals:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;S - Specific&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;M – Measurable&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A - Appropriate&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;R - Realistic&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;T - Timed&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You need to create specific goals. The goal “I want to become a better swimmer” is almost impossible to judge because it is not specific enough. A better goal would be “I want to earn my bronze medallion by next June” or “I want to swim 10 laps of the pool twice a week.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“I want to earn my bronze medallion by next June” is a more effective goal because it is measurable. There is a clear marker of achievement that you can earn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Goals need to be appropriate. It is not only unproductive to say “I want to lose 40 pounds by next week,” it is also counter-productive. Unattainable goals are counter-productive because when you make a goal that you do not achieve, you experience an emotional let-down. It is not wise or healthy to get your heart set on something that is out of reach. However, keep in mind that goals should also be a stretch.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is not to say that your goals cannot be large: they can! But your goals also need to be realistic. If you set a goal that is unrealistic and attempt to work towards it, you will exhaust yourself and your resources. Rather than setting one large goal in a short time-frame, create smaller goals that will lead you to accomplishing your long-term goal. Breaking your goals into smaller chunks helps you create goals that are more specific, often more measurable, more appropriate, more realistic, while creating a time-line for your larger goal. Having mini-goals is one of the keys of successful goal setting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The idea of creating smaller goals leads us to the idea that goals need to be timed. Putting a timeframe on your goal ensures that it will not drop down to the bottom of your priority list. It also makes measuring your goal easier. Saying “I will sell $500 before 5 o’clock this afternoon” means that at 5:00 you will stop to check your progress.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you create smaller goals in order to achieve your larger goals, be sure that they are on a timeline as well. If your large goal is to find a better job at Company X by next Christmas, your smaller goals could be on a weekly basis. For your first week, you would create a contact at Company X and attempt to establish if there are any openings. Week two, you could update your resume and cover-letter. Week three, you would make a follow-up phone call. Your smaller goals would function as milestones that are appropriate and realistic, while still being specific, measurable, and timed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of my favourite quotes is “We tend to overestimate what we can do in a day and underestimate what we can do in a year.” I see this time and time again. Great things can be accomplished over long periods if we keep heading in the right direction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My book includes the most effective exercise I have ever seen for setting goals.  Buy it here.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://resources.jimestill.com/2008/09/creating-effective-goals/&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-1778674777609038667?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/1778674777609038667/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/creating-effective-goals.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/1778674777609038667'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/1778674777609038667'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/creating-effective-goals.html' title='Creating Effective Goals'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-7498430622303830793</id><published>2011-08-03T09:08:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-03T09:09:29.279-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Why Time Leadership?</title><content type='html'>Use The Secrets of Leadership for Time Management.&lt;br /&gt;Why Time Leadership?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Time is the scarcest resource and unless it is managed nothing else can be managed.”         &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-Peter F. Drucker&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;            Time management is not enough. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Leadership is doing the right thing; management is doing things right.”    Leadership is more important than management.  Leadership focuses on effectiveness; management focuses on efficiency.  This e-book will give you the necessary tools and shares the secrets to master not only efficiency skills, but also effectiveness skills.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;          One of the reasons that time management is not enough is because time is not about quantity.  If time were measured solely by quantity, it would be scarce: there would never be enough time to accomplish tasks, regardless of how efficiently you schedule.  Time is about quality. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;          Take a moment to think about your highly productive hours or days over the last year.  You probably accomplished more in those short periods of time than over weeks or even months of less productive work.   This book teaches you secrets on how to have more of these treasured highly productive hours.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The key to time leadership is to maximize your number of quality hours.  Leadership allows you to establish your priorities.  Once you know your priorities, always work on the top priority.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;           SET CLEAR GOALS&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;         &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This book includes the best way to set goals exercise that only takes an hour.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Furthermore, I will share with you my complete organizational system, made up of many aspects that you can choose to adopt and adapt as you see fit. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I will share the One To Do list trick that will save you an hour per week minimum.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;OVERCOME PROCRASTINATION&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This e-book offers secrets suggestions on how to avoid procrastination.  It explains how to effectively delegate.  It will help familiarize you with how to effectively use your time to reach your goals.  From the basic building blocks of time management to the advanced concepts involved with Time Leadership, this e-book will put you on the path to success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;INCREASE YOUR ENERGY&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Things which matter the most in life should not be at the mercy of things which matter the least.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;          -Goethe&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once you have created an effective organizational system (and while you are in the process of fine-tuning your organization) you will be ready to begin implementing some of The Powers.  These Powers can be used to increase your energy and productivity, which will in turn lead to positive results in your time use.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Above and beyond The Powers, the organizational system, the goal-setting, and the workbook, this e-book offers you some hints and tips on the small things that make Time Leadership possible.  They will help you optimize your performance, improve your organization, and save you time. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Altogether, the lessons gleaned from this e-book are invaluable.  Since time is money, this book will help you save and earn more time and money.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Start saving time today by clicking here.  Or if you are one of those who procrastinates, click here.  And if you still want to put it off, you really just need this book.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;MONEY BACK GUARANTEE&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I believe so much in this product, I offer a no risk guarantee.  If you are not completely satisfied with your purchase, ask for your full refund.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br 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href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/why-time-leadership.html' title='Why Time Leadership?'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-9028135887608960365</id><published>2011-08-03T09:05:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-03T09:06:46.860-07:00</updated><title type='text'>A guest post by Art Gould  Recipes for Success: 5 Different Leadership Styles That All Work!</title><content type='html'>5 Leadership Styles that Work&lt;br /&gt;A guest post by Art Gould&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Recipes for Success: 5 Different Leadership Styles That All Work!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There's more than one way to skin a cat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nowhere is this saying more true than in today's corporate world. The best way to find out what makes a company successful is to look at the top. And when you do, what you quickly see is that today's top executives are much more than bean counters. They are the founders and daily drivers of their company's corporate cultures. Of particular interest are those who have achieveda measure of prominence due to their accomplishments. The singular characteristic that they all share is their company's success. But when you look more closely and study their leadership styles, you tend to notice more differences than similarities. Here are examples of five different leadership styles that have all proven successful in various ways:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Transformational&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This type of leader is one who is able to continually inspire his or her teams and influence&lt;br /&gt;subordinates to improve and/or change. Leaders like this are usually visionaries with boundless enthusiasm. Legendary corporate icons such as Lee Iaccoca and Jack Welsh would clearly fall into this category. A good present-day example of this type of leadership can be found in Virgin Group Ltd, a very successful corporation renowned for its presence in a wide variety of global markets. Many business analysts attribute a great deal of Virgin's success to the innovative leadership style of its chairman, Sir Richard Branson, who has demonstrated a marked ability to inspire his people to innovate and grow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the most striking all-time success stories associated with this leadership style is Wal-Mart founder Sam Walton, the architect of what has evolved into the largest private employer in the U.S. Walton's characteristic leadership style included regular visits to Wal-Mart stores across the country, where he would meet with associates to show his appreciation for their contributions to the company.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Service-Oriented&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This style is characterized by leaders who put the needs of their subordinates ahead of their own. They tend to rely strongly on their values and ideals, and they involve their teams heavily in decision making. Probably the best modern-day example of how this style can be successful is (once again) Wal-Mart, whose current chairman, S. Robson Walton, took over his father Sam's empire in 1992 and since that time expanded its annual revenue by almost 800 percent! The secret to Rob Walton's success is that he does not pretend to be his father and has indeed adopted a different style of leadership. Walton has implanted within his teams the overriding philosophy to always listen to the customer and put the customer's needs above all else. He has imbued the entire corporation with a service culture that is reaping record-shattering rewards in terms of corporate success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Participative&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Similar to the service leadership style in that team members are involved in decision making, this style is characterized by a leadership that makes decisions in joint fashion. Google, one of the world's fastest-growing and most successful organizations, is a vivid example of how effective this style can be. For several years spanning a period of extraordinary growth, the company operated under an executive management group comprised of three individuals who shared responsibility. The success of this business model spawned many imitators who have since adopted this style within their corporations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Charismatic&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A charismatic leader relies on personal charm to lead and inspire. This type of leadership usually creates a feeling within the organization that there is a direct connection between corporate success and the presence of the charismatic leader. As such, it can be a double-edged sword, highly dependent on the leader sticking around. But it can also lead to great success. A good example is Thomas Watson, Sr., who oversaw IBM's monumental growth into a dominant international force during the early part of the 20th Century.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Watson infused his charisma within the organization by instituting policies and rituals tied to his personal beliefs. For example, he instituted a corporate dress code of dark suits and white shirts so that his salespeople would feel like executives. This worked very well for many years, as it built a sense of pride that became a corporate calling card. Unfortunately, this same policy became emblematic of the company's rigidity and conformity, demonstrating one of the drawbacks of the charismatic style.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Situational&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is perhaps the most generally successful leadership style because it requires the leader to be adaptable to the situation, the abilities of the teams, and the capability of the leader himself. This style requires the leader to continually adjust to emergent constraints and limitations imposed on him. History is replete with examples of successful leaders of this type, not only in the corporate world but in all facets of life. Most of the top military leaders in history can lay claim to having used this style of leadership to great and lasting effect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Art Gould is a division manager with Self Storage Company, which operates a group of websites, including a Nashville self-storage locator. Though busy, Art enjoys meeting new people and clients when traveling to sites throughout Tennessee like the Memphis self storage center.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;posted by Jim Estill @ 9:27 AM&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.jimestill.com/2011/01/5-leadership-styles-that-work.html&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-9028135887608960365?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/9028135887608960365/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/guest-post-by-art-gould-recipes-for.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/9028135887608960365'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/9028135887608960365'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/guest-post-by-art-gould-recipes-for.html' title='A guest post by Art Gould  Recipes for Success: 5 Different Leadership Styles That All Work!'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-575088989270206499</id><published>2011-08-03T08:57:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-03T08:59:11.715-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Execution Businesses</title><content type='html'>Execution Businesses&lt;br /&gt;Some businesses have such barriers to entry and such competitive advantage that they can still thrive even with poor execution. Companies that have patents, government regulation, rocket science(very tough intellectual property to copy) , massive development costs to get into the business, high capital cost, high market share etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;EMJ was an execution business. It was simply not that hard for anyone to get a product line to distribute. Over time we were able to grow to create barriers to entry with things like size, having the "good" lines, and having market share within a niche but in the end, it was always still an execution business.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It can be fatal for an entrepreneur not to realize that their business is an execution business. Ask - is it really that tough for someone to copy what we do? If the answer is no then follow these steps for success:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9 Ways to Thrive in an Execution Business&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 - Be frugal. Frugal does not mean cheap, it means getting appropriate value for money spent. Spend on function, not on show. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 - Focus on process. The key is to create replicable steps that can be repeated time after time. As an early entrepreneur, often this means trying it yourself. Time how long it takes to make 10 calls. Track which message gets the most meetings. Refine and learn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 - Test everything. Fail Often, Fail Fast, Fail Cheap. This is a continuation of Focus on Process. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4 - Look for areas of minor competitive advantage. Really that is what execution businesses are all about. Although they may lack the monopoly or defacto monopoly characteristics of other businesses, they can have minor advantages in many different small areas. If I look at why EMJ was a success, it was not one thing, it was a number of tiny things.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5 - Know your numbers. By nature, execution businesses have small margins for error. Competition ensures that there are few "high profit" opportunities. So knowing what areas make and lose money and knowing true costs is essential. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 - Look for niches. Often execution businesses can develop competencies within a specific expertise. Within a niche, it is easier to be the expert - less to study, less people with your focus. It is also easier to figure out ways to thrive and customize your company to address only those specific things the niche needs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7 - Work hard. We worked long and hard year after year. My work ethic was a competitive advantage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8 - Take full responsibility. It does not matter if the economy is good or bad, if China is selling for X, if the US$ is trading at Y, or "the VP sales cannot sell well enough" or any other "condition". Those are just conditions. We live with them and figure out how to be profitable. There are no excuses - if we fail, we are the ones that did not execute well so we need to change our product, our approach, our tactics and anything else. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9 - Study and practice time management. I think that is why I ended up writing a book on time management. This is really an extension of Be Frugal. Time is the biggest cost so get the best value from it possible.&lt;br /&gt;posted by Jim Estill @ 10:49 AM  0 commentslinks to this post  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.jimestill.com/&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-575088989270206499?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/575088989270206499/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/execution-businesses.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/575088989270206499'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/575088989270206499'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/08/execution-businesses.html' title='Execution Businesses'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-6760295722608286225</id><published>2011-07-29T15:55:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-07-29T15:58:49.798-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Developing an Autotelic Personality, or, How to Enjoy Everything</title><content type='html'>Imagine deriving the utmost enjoyment and pleasure out of nearly every aspect of your life.  Listening to music, doing dishes, talking to a friend, cooking a meal, or doing errands– what if you looked forward to all of these activities equally? In Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi’s book, Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience, he describes a type of person with an “autotelic” personality.  According to Csikszentmihalyi, “The term “autotelic” derives from two Greek words, auto, meaning self, and telos meaning goal.  It refers to a self-contained activity, one that is done not with the expectation of some future benefit, but simply because the doing itself is the reward.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Engaging in autotelic activities is what many people describe as “flow.”  Think back to a time you were doing something you loved and really got wrapped up in the project.  You probably lost sense of time and you felt challenged, yet capable, of handling whatever you faced.  This is the making of an autotelic experience and the more of these occurrences we can have, the greater enjoyment we can get out of life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finding the flow state&lt;br /&gt;Some activities are conducive to entering this flow state.  For example, athletes and surgeons both report high levels of autotelic experiences while they partake in their professions.  The true test of an autotelic personality, however, is being able to enter that state of flow even while doing things that many people may consider boring.  A person with an autotelic personality can take something as mundane as mowing the lawn and turn it into an opportunity for growth.  Therefore, the argument that developing an autotelic personality will directly impact your quality of life is quite easy to make.  Deriving true enjoyment out of every aspect of is the key to separating the quality of our lives from external (and therefore uncontrollable) forces.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Becoming somebody with an autotelic personality is not something that can be done overnight.  It must be actively practiced until it becomes part of your personality.  The rules are very simple and can be broken down as follows:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Setting goals: To experience flow you have to have clear goals to strive for.  This includes massive lifelong goals to something as small as figuring out what to do this afternoon.  An autotelic personality can make these decisions with a minimum of extra effort which allows her to focus her energy on attaining that goal.&lt;br /&gt;Becoming immersed in the activity: An autotelic personality will give all of his or her attention directly to the task at hand.  Being in control of your own attention is one of the most powerful skills a person can develop.  A wandering or constantly distracted mind is a the mercy of every passing stimulus and therefore attention is spread and diluted.&lt;br /&gt;Learning to enjoy immediate experience: Our bodies and minds have incredible capabilities of enjoyment.  Gaining control of your mind opens an individual to experience almost anything and derive joy.  Every taste, smell, sound, thought, and observation can be the anchor of immediate enjoyment if we take the time, focus, and effort to experience it.&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately, I am not writing this article from the position of an expert in autotelic experiences.  I am a complete novice when it comes to learning how to experience the enjoyment in everyday events and seemingly trivial occurrences.  However, I do see the benefit in training myself to become more autotelic.  The better I get at this, the less I require outside forces to create the enjoyment in my life.  If I can derive enjoyment from the simplest of activities, why do I need to spend money on video games?  Why would I have to buy expensive consumer goods?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We all have amazing capabilities to control our level of enjoyment in everything we do.  Practicing the steps to developing an autotelic personality is a very concrete way to improve the quality of your own life. As Csikszentmihalyi writes, “Only direct control of experience, the ability to derive moment-by-moment enjoyment from everything we do, can overcome the obstacles to fulfillment.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What can you do today to derive enjoyment in your life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;———————————————————-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you enjoyed this post, please consider sharing it with your friends by clicking the Retweet or Facebook “Like” buttons below. If you want to make sure you never miss a new post, you can sign up for free updates via RSS or email.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Photo by delphwynd&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You might also like:&lt;br /&gt;“flow: the psychology of optimal experience” review&lt;br /&gt;Old-Fashioned Augmented Humanity&lt;br /&gt;What The Future Holds&lt;br /&gt;LinkWithin&lt;br /&gt;(Visited 2,137 times, 6 visits today)&lt;br /&gt;  Digg   Stumble Upon   Del.icio.us   Buzz&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-6760295722608286225?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/6760295722608286225/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/07/imagine-deriving-utmost-enjoyment-and.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/6760295722608286225'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/6760295722608286225'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/07/imagine-deriving-utmost-enjoyment-and.html' title='Developing an Autotelic Personality, or, How to Enjoy Everything'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-2404104632009634727</id><published>2011-06-26T16:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-06-26T16:36:35.385-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Six Best Practices of Leadership Development Initiatives by GEORGE AMBLER on SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 17, 2008</title><content type='html'>Six Best Practices of Leadership Development Initiatives&lt;br /&gt;by GEORGE AMBLER on SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 17, 2008&lt;br /&gt;Chief Learning Officer magazine has an article "Leadership Development in 2008" that discussing research which found the following six best practices common to highly successful leadership development initiatives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Strong executive engagement: The most important practice of all is to obtain the engagement of top leaders and managers. Their commitment means that the program will be highly regarded, aligned with corporate strategy and focused on the right business issues.&lt;br /&gt;Tailored leadership competencies: Successful leadership development programs are based on identified leadership competencies. By isolating and agreeing upon leadership competencies most important to your business, you will have the foundation for leadership development, as well as succession planning, career development and other talent-related processes.&lt;br /&gt;Alignment with business strategy: Leadership development is far more than management training. As leaders move up in the organization, their skills must shift from people and project management to strategic business and operations management. Organizations such as Agilent, Aetna and Cisco focus heavily on company-specific business strategies in their leadership programs.&lt;br /&gt;Target all levels of leadership: While the term “leadership” may not seem to apply to first-line managers, we find that high-impact programs have elements that apply to every level of management.&lt;br /&gt;Apply a comprehensive and ongoing approach: No sound leadership development program consists solely of an instructor-led training event. Programs must include developmental assignments, 360-degree assessments, meetings with global counterparts, case studies, external education and a wide variety of e-learning and other media to give leaders a complete experience. People learn to lead by doing, so the best leadership development programs focus heavily on experiential learning.&lt;br /&gt;Integrate with talent management: To build a sustainable leadership pipeline, organizations must implement programs to assess leadership potential (part of the performance management process), identify successors to existing leaders and place these individuals into the right development programs as part of the company’s regular business practices. In fact, one of the biggest indicators of a first-class leadership development program is a set of established practices and a corporate culture that encourages development throughout the enterprise.&lt;br /&gt;These are a great set of leadership development practices to use in your leadership development programmes. As leadership talent becomes more scarce, developing people from within become more and more important. What are you doing to develop the leaders of tomorrow for your team and organisation?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-2404104632009634727?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/2404104632009634727/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/06/six-best-practices-of-leadership.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/2404104632009634727'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/2404104632009634727'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/06/six-best-practices-of-leadership.html' title='Six Best Practices of Leadership Development Initiatives by GEORGE AMBLER on SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 17, 2008'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-3518860311191334802</id><published>2011-06-26T16:28:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-06-26T16:30:33.318-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Practice of Leadership</title><content type='html'>What is The Practice of Leadership?&lt;br /&gt;by GEORGE AMBLER on WEDNESDAY, JUNE 15, 2011&lt;br /&gt;The exploration of the practice of leadership is a broad topic that is further complicated by the vast number of views and opinions expressed on the nature successful leaders and leadership. The goal of this post is to provide an overarching framework that will be used to guide our conversations on the ever evolving practice of leadership. In our conversation on the topic of leadership, we have chosen to place our emphasis on leadership practices, as it’s only when we take action that we are able to influence our world. As Mahatma Gandhi observed, ‘we must be the change we wish to see in the world’. Given this leadership focus, it’s necessary to be clear as to what are the outcomes of effective leadership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Three Leadership Outcomes&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An approach to the development of an integrated practice of leadership is described by Drath, et el. (2008) in their article, “Direction, alignment, commitment: Toward a more integrative ontology of leadership” published in The Leadership Quarterly[1]. In the article the authors propose an integrative leadership framework comprising of the following three key leadership outcomes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Direction. This outcome is the facilitation of shared direction and collective agreement on the vision, mission, goals and aims. Direction implies change, a change from the current reality towards some future state.&lt;br /&gt;Alignment. This outcomes concerns producing the right configuration of organisational structures, skills, processes, performance management systems, governance and technology required to allow the organisation to move towards their desired future direction.&lt;br /&gt;Commitment. This is outcome is concerned with bringing people to the place where they willingly devote their time and energy in support of the shared direction.&lt;br /&gt;When we approach the topic of leadership in terms of these three outcomes, it changes the leadership conversation. It changes the conversation from one that has historically been focused on leaders, followers and goals, to a conversation focused on the production of direction, alignment and commitment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Three Leadership Disciplines&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Building upon the leadership framework described above and exploring leadership from a business perspective provides the necessary foundation to develop a business leadership framework. In considering this, we have identified three key organisational disciplines, that when taken together, help to produce the leadership outcomes of direction, alignment and commitment. Historically, each of these disciplines has been researched and described in isolation. However, it’s only when each of these disciplines are integrated in a manner that produces direction, alignment and commitment that leadership occurs. Thus, an integrated approach as illustrated in the diagram below provides a great framework to begin a new leadership conversation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Adopting an integrative approach, as illustrated above, across the three business disciplines of strategy, execution and culture, provides a framework from which we can start a new conversation about the leadership practices, necessary to produce the outcomes of direction, alignment and commitment. A brief overview of each of the three key disciplines are as follows:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Strategy. The discipline of strategy is about setting direction. Strategy addresses where we are and where we are going, providing the purpose, vision, mission and goals of the organisation. Strategy is important as is sets the direction, which in turn guides our choices concerning the allocation of scare resources, such as time, attention and assets. Strategy sets the context in which execution, resulting in alignment is generated.&lt;br /&gt;Execution. The discipline of execution is about aligning the organisations people, processes, information, governance, structures, technology and measurement in support of the strategy. It ensures that our resources are applied effectively and efficiently in support of the strategy. Execution helps to clarify accountability for the achievement of business outcomes and bring about the necessary alignment required to implement the strategy.&lt;br /&gt;Culture. The culture of an organisation deals with ‘the way we do things around here’. The organisation culture consists of the unseen beliefs, values and assumptions that support the way people work and the practices we adopt to support how work gets done. Culture results in either the commitment of people towards the strategy and vision or alternatively a lack of commitment leading to compliance and mediocrity.&lt;br /&gt;Integrating these three disciplines in a way that produces the outcomes of direction, alignment and commitment produces leadership. Each of the disciplines described above are supported by a set of leadership practices, that in turn supports the production of direction, alignment and commitment. Exploring these leadership practices is the purpose and goal of this new and emerging leadership conversation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[1] Wilfred H. Drath, Cynthia D. McCauley, Charles J. Palus, Ellen Van Velsor, Patricia M.G. O’Connor, John B. McGuire, (2008) “Direction, alignment, commitment: Toward a more integrative ontology of leadership”, The Leadership Quarterly&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;777777777&lt;br /&gt;Related posts:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shaping conversation as a leadership practice&lt;br /&gt;A 2007 Review of The Practice of Leadership&lt;br /&gt;The Practice of Facilitative Leadership&lt;br /&gt;Understanding Leadership Context&lt;br /&gt;Six Best Practices of Leadership Development Initiatives&lt;br /&gt;Tagged as: Framework, Leadership Practices&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-3518860311191334802?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/3518860311191334802/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/06/practice-of-leadership.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/3518860311191334802'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/3518860311191334802'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/06/practice-of-leadership.html' title='The Practice of Leadership'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-5932733073560524027</id><published>2011-06-11T08:25:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-06-11T08:26:33.389-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Time Management</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Time Management&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By Fred Childs &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today I yield the floor to one of my mentors. Dr. Fred Childs is a leading church consultant, organizational development expert, and leadership authority. He and Monica reside in Pearland, Texas. Dr. Childs ministry of leadership development within the church has transformed my ministry through the years. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;His books and training material have revolutionized hundreds of churches and ministries. His personal testimony is one of many miracles with a very powerful pulpit ministry. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the last decade, Microsoft introduced its Windows 95 operating system. As one of the many who utilized this software, I would routinely sit and wait the few minutes for my computer to boot up. I never pondered the immense importance of these wasted daily minutes until I participated in a corporate time management seminar in 1996. I was shocked to discover that the cumulative total of the time wasted as individuals waited the few minutes for Windows 95 to boot up exceeded ten thousand man years per day! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Time is valuable. In training and facilitating several thousand professional and corporate teams, I have documented millions of dollars in bottom-line savings and multiplied productivity simply by eliminating the wasted time from the operating processes used to manufacture goods and produce services. The root cause of the rise or fall of many organizations is their ability to manage time efficiently and effectively. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Time is life, and it is perhaps our most precious resource. It can be a tremendous friend or foe, and it is ours to do with as we please. Every moment should be cherished, for it is a commodity that can never be replenished. It is used once and then it is gone forever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the greatest keys to effective leadership is the proper utilization of time resources. There is no greater example of time mastery than the life and ministry of Jesus Christ. Scriptural study cannot reveal a single wasted minute in the life, ministry and actions of Jesus! A tremendous example of His personal mastery over time and priorities was in the account of Lazarus. John 11:6 says, “When he had heard therefore that he was sick, he abode two days still in the same place where he was.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The scriptures reveal that Jesus loved Lazarus, and also his sisters Martha and Mary. He was sympathetic to their need but He did not allow even the circumstances of His close friends to dictate His agenda. He alone was responsible for setting His own priorities and effectively utilizing His own time. He did not drop everything He was doing just to do what others expected Him to do. Even though they misunderstood His motives, Jesus showed up at the right time and Lazarus was raised from the dead. The final result was that God was glorified through the actions of Jesus. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jesus, as the master teacher, was manifesting an example for us to follow. In only 3½ years, He accomplished every detail that was essential for Him to complete His earthly mission. At the time of His death at age thirty-three, He left nothing undone. This could never have been accomplished had He allowed others to control His time and direct His focus away from the essential. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We too must be responsible for our time and agenda. Those who allow their agenda to be restructured by every phone call or request will be ineffective at best. If you are you breathless from running and your treadmill is stuck in high speed, it has to be your decision to get off of the treadmill. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Time presents a common challenge to everyone, and you need not feel alone in your struggle against it. The 21st Century is an era that is proving to offer an increasing abundance of absorbing demands and challenges to our time and resources. Simultaneously, it also offers the greatest opportunities ever presented in the history of the Church.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The potential for a last-day harvest is manifested through an amazing parable in the Bible. The parable applies to the value of time management. It is found in Matthew 20:1-16:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"For the kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out early in the morning to hire laborers&lt;br /&gt;for his vineyard. Now when he had agreed with the laborers for a denarius a day, he sent them into&lt;br /&gt;his vineyard. And he went out about the third hour and saw others standing idle in the marketplace, &lt;br /&gt;and said to them, 'You also go into the vineyard, and whatever is right I will give you.' &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So they went. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Again he went out about the sixth and the ninth hour, and did likewise. And about the eleventh hour he went out and found others standing idle, and said to them, 'Why have you been standing here idle all day?' They said to him, 'Because no one hired us.' He said to them, 'You also go into the vineyard, and whatever is right you will receive.' So when evening had come, the owner of the vineyard said to his steward, 'Call the laborers and give them their wages, beginning with the last to the first.' And when those came who were hired about the eleventh hour, they each received a denarius.But when the first came, they supposed that they would receive more; and they likewise received each a denarius. And when they had received it, they complained against the landowner, saying, 'These last men have worked only one hour, and you made them equal to us who have borne the burden and the heat of the day.' &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But he answered one of them and said, 'Friend, I am doing you no wrong. Did you not agree with me for a denarius? Take what is yours and go your way. I wish to give to this last man the same as to you. Is it not lawful for me to do what I wish with my own things? Or is your eye evil because I am good?' So the last will be first, and the first last. For many are called, but few chosen." (NKJV) &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are numerous revelations contained within this parable. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• The vineyard belonged to the landowner. The landowner is a metaphor for Jesus. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• The laborers had a choice whether or not to become employed by the landowner. Their time belonged to them and not to the landowner. In order for the landowner to have any claim to their time they had to work out an agreement. The landowner would pay the individual for a portion of his time. In exchange, the laborer would work in the landowner’s vineyard. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• In the agricultural system of Israel, each laborer was given a sack to gather the produce into. When the sack was full he would exchange it for a new sack. At the end of the day, he would be paid according to the number of sacks he had gathered. This pay-for-production system is still in effect in parts of Israel and the world today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• The laborer who was hired at the eleventh hour was paid the same as the laborer who was hired in the morning. This meant he had gathered in one hour as much as the other laborers had gathered all day! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• This is a prophecy that the tools and capabilities of the last hour laborer will allow them to reap in a short time an equivalent harvest to the early laborer who worked a long time to reap a harvest. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Several underlying truths can also be derived from this parable:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• The landowner obviously practiced a system of organizational continuous improvement. At every shift, he was able to gather more in less time. His methods were more proficient in the latter part of the day than in the morning. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• The landowner was a wise steward. He was not foolish when offering the same salary to the eleventh hour laborer that he had offered to the early morning laborer. He was aware of his organizational and personal capabilities. He knew he was getting a fair return for a fair wage. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Time will have a greater impact on your lifetime achievements than perhaps anything else. The irony lies in the fact that every human being is dealt an equivalent measure of exactly twenty-four hours of time for every day of life. Those who acquire a discipline for time management will reap its innumerable benefits and be productive. The highest levels of effectiveness can only be attained once individuals and organizations develop the habits and disciplines required for time management. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jesus was a wise time manager. Careful scrutiny of the scriptures reveals that He was very proficient at maximizing the value of the time spent on any endeavor. He was constantly bringing one meeting to a close in order to head to the next item on His agenda. He kept the disciples focused on tasks and assignments. He was a man of few words, getting straight to the point saved Him significant chunks of time. He consistently had others intercept his interruptions for Him, and He would see certain people only after He had returned a disciple with a message to bring the visitor into His presence. His list of accomplishments is incredible, and much credit goes to His remarkable ability to maximize time to His strategic advantage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As stewards, we must become astute time managers. We should continuously improve the systems and methods that effect the gathering of a harvest. It is our individual choice as to whether we desire to pick the harvest by hand or reap it with a combine.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If the time wasted daily while people wait for their computers to boot up is equivalent to thousands of human lifetimes, how much productivity is being wasted in the Kingdom of God by the daily misuse of our God-given time? Only eternity will reveal the answer to that question, and by then, time will be no more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.preachit.org/newsletter.cfm?record=163&amp;mode=200&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-5932733073560524027?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/5932733073560524027/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/06/time-management.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/5932733073560524027'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/5932733073560524027'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/06/time-management.html' title='Time Management'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-5865468987364764507</id><published>2011-05-30T15:52:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-05-30T15:54:34.067-07:00</updated><title type='text'>'Warrior Spirit with a Servant's Heart': SWA's Thriving Culture of Service</title><content type='html'>'Warrior Spirit with a Servant's Heart': SWA's Thriving Culture of Service&lt;br /&gt;Published: May 24, 2006 in Knowledge@W.P. Carey &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Southwest Airlines is not the same airline that David Ridley, recently retired as vice president of marketing and sales, joined in 1988. For one, it's bigger. An upstart operation with 198 employees and three planes when it took flight in 1971, Southwest today employs 32,000, with 3,000 flights a day to 62 cities.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And the difference is not just size. Fun-loving Southwest is also a fierce competitor, ready to change even longstanding practices to keep its lead. For example, at its annual shareholders' meeting earlier this month, chief executive Gary Kelly announced that a $5 million technology upgrade to its reservation system will allow Southwest to begin seat assignment -- when and if it's ready. The airline's "open seating" approach to boarding has been as much a hallmark of the Southwest experience as its joke-cracking flight attendants.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What has not changed is what the airline calls the Southwest way -- the key, Ridley argues, to the carrier's success. "This is an industry that has managed to lose $40 billion in the past four years. Since its inception in the early '30s, the industry has been in the red," he said during a speech recently at the W. P. Carey School of Business. Yet Southwest flies above the industry's dismal history. Ridley pointed out that Southwest has achieved consistent profitability -- the company will pay its 119th consecutive quarterly dividend next month -- without a single "involuntary furlough." At the same time it has created a work atmosphere that has landed the company year after year in the top five of Fortune magazine's best places to work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Southwest recipe for customer service&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Southwest way, Ridley explained, grows out of the airline's founding principle: "We are a customer service business that just happens to fly airplanes."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Southwest's product, Ridley explained, is the service: taking a customer from point A to point B, with his or her bags, on time. However there's an intangible element -- an experiential piece -- that is critical to success, and Southwest tends that part with great care.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ridley explained that the product itself can be perfect -- providing the right flights to the right places, delivering baggage intact and nailing on-time landings. But, "if in the middle of the service delivery the human spirit has come into play in a negative way -- someone's thrown the bag of peanuts at you, someone was rude when you asked a question at the airport -- then when you walk off that plane you say to yourself, 'I'll never do business with those people again.'"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Conversely, "sometimes it's a rough landing, but in the process, if someone touches you -- looks in your eyes with a smile and asks 'How can I help you?' -- you walk off the plane and say, 'I'll be back again.'"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ridley said that when he arrived at Southwest, pundits warned that the company's profitable customer-centric culture would be difficult if not impossible to maintain when its payroll passed 10,000. But instead of allowing that to happen, company president Colleen Barrett created a culture committee whose mission was to keep the Southwest way alive throughout growth. Regardless of what that committee actually accomplished, the very fact that it was formed makes one of Ridley's important points: to succeed in the Southwest customer service style, companies have to be deliberate about culture, starting with people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"We tell our leaders that of all the decisions they will make, the most important ones will be hiring decisions," Ridley said. "We tell them to make it tough to become part of the team," because the traits Southwest looks for are inherent in personalities and cannot be achieved through training.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ridley said Southwest has a name for the quality they are seeking: a warrior spirit. That means people who "understand hard work and sweat on the brow," he said. These folks are looking for a job, not a "position," he said; they are looking for work, not a "role."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Passion, service and spirit of fun&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Warrior spirits have passion -- they care, they have emotions," Ridley said. "Some organizations and companies are clinics, and that's fine -- the Southwest way is not for everyone," Ridley said. "But I'd rather work in an organization where people show their emotions -- express themselves."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As well, a warrior spirit has a "servant's heart," he said. "You want people to serve others," he said, "but are you calling it out in your job descriptions? Are you telling people that's what you want? People who are other-oriented, not self-important, who put others first -- these are the people who will deliver service like Southwest Airlines." Last, they have a fun-loving attitude. "We take our customers and our competition seriously -- not ourselves," Ridley said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But a company cannot expect employees to commit at this level unless the company itself reciprocates. Ridley said that the Southwest philosophy "puts our employees in front of the customers."  He followed with a story about a gate agent who had dealt with an impatient passenger during a weather delay. Later the passenger wrote a letter to the airline complaining that the Southwest employee had been rude and unhelpful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"A lot of companies would automatically assume guilt and automatically fire off two free tickets to the customer," Ridley said. Southwest, however, investigates. This time it turned out that the gate agent was an exemplary employee with a pile of commendations in her file. It was the customer who had been rude.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Result? The customer received a letter inviting him to fly another airline, and the gate agent received a copy. At that moment, Ridley said, the gate agent understood that the company would stand behind her.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Great customer service is driven by people who want to give great service," Ridley said, "not by rules, regulations and training. That gate agent gave her heart to Southwest."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The same approach can uncover problems, too. "We check out every single letter written to us by employees," Ridley said. "We ask the local managers and it takes time, but it's people stuff, and it's important. Nineteen out of 20 times it turns out that the employee is whining and we tell them to get back to work, but every once in a while we find out something's fishy in Seattle …"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No BS leaders  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Leaders, Ridley concluded, can make the customer service formula work -- or completely subvert it. By leaders he meant anyone in the organization who has influence on anyone else, not just the managers with the titles.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Our leaders have a genuine love for people," he said. "We don't want you in leadership if you don't. If it's all about you we don't want you -- there are no BS [Big Shot] leaders at Southwest."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The role model, Ridley said, is founder Herb Kelleher -- who works out of a modest office without a window, who devotes his attention to the person he is speaking to, whether it's a maintenance worker or a vice president. "That's caring for people," Ridley said. "It isn't about the people at the top … and if you don't understand that, you're not a leader at Southwest."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In closing, Ridley sketched an imaginary chart showing two kinds of companies: the smart ones and the healthy ones. Over here are the smart ones, he said. They focus on "accounting, financials, operations … they're going to do it right, metric-ize everything. All praise to Jack Welch and Six Sigma!" Southwest is good at a lot of this, Ridley said, but "there are a lot of bankrupt companies on this side of the chart."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the other side of the chart are the healthy companies, he said. They focus on "culture and leadership and passion and service." Southwest's rapid return to service following the 9/11 attacks was a testament to the healthy approach.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Exceed expectations," he said. "That's the key."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Southwest Way:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our product is service.&lt;br /&gt;To succeed, companies have to be deliberate about culture, starting with people. Hiring decisions are key components to the company's success.&lt;br /&gt;Great customer service is driven by people who want to give great service -- not by rules, regulations and training.&lt;br /&gt;Exceed expectations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here's what you think...&lt;br /&gt;Total Comments: 1&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;#1    healthy companies&lt;br /&gt;Healthy companies take their culture seriously. They intentionally cast a shadow for their culture as discussed in the book Delivering Happiness. &lt;br /&gt;There is a new survey that says as high as 70% of employees plan to leave their current jobs when the economy improves...talk about a future disruption. &lt;br /&gt;If you struggle with how to start...start with the golden rule as I discuss in my blog http://nosmokeandmirrors.wordpress.com/2010/07/09/delivering-happiness-proof-%e2%80%a6the-%e2%80%9cgolden-rule%e2%80%9d-is-profitable/ &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mark Allen Roberts &lt;br /&gt;By: Mark Roberts, otb solutions/CEO &lt;br /&gt;Sent: 06:11 PM Sun Oct.17.2010 - US&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Sign In to Join the Discussion&lt;br /&gt;Email Address:    &lt;br /&gt;Password:  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not a member?&lt;br /&gt;Sign Up for&lt;br /&gt;Knowledge@W.P. 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To succeed we need good search strategy with good consultancy team . Our Team is consist of 4 units Business Development Unit, Researcher Unit &amp; War of Strategies Unit and Business Ethics Unit. Each Team are formulated with the 5 forces in War of Strategies having East meets West. RS Slogan Good ethics are good business in the long run . Prof. Larry Zicklin, Baruch College, The City University of New York &lt;br /&gt;Recruit Strategy uses the ancient formula the Sun Tzu Art of War Strategy in our search with a touch of East Meet West. 兵 法 : 国 之 大 事 : 死 生 之 地 : 存 亡 之 道 Important Note : During wartime, it is so crucial that every second counts. It can be extinct or survival. Thus all people must be united and learn how the law works in order to stay alive, or rather not only afloat but does it better! Understanding how to recruit good. &lt;br /&gt;We understand the great responsibilities in every recruitment. Good Leaders build Good Company. Bad Leaders destroy them. Therefore, we must be prepared to win the battle 100%, RS will take all risk calculations, measures, hard work, due diligence, competitive, business intelligence to find the BEST Talent. 天 , 道 , 地 , 将 , 法 What matter most is our Customer. &lt;br /&gt;Two significant T alent &lt;br /&gt;S trategies :- &lt;br /&gt;Acquisition Strategy &lt;br /&gt;Retention Strategy &lt;br /&gt;法 methodology &lt;br /&gt;Recruit Strategy War of Strategies Talent Acquisition Strategy Identify, Attract &amp; Hire &lt;br /&gt;The Nature DNA of Leadership 智 信 仁 勇 严 It takes 5 forces to create good people. Everyone is unique and special to their own strengths. 知己知彼 100% win 知己不知彼 50% win Intelligence Integrity Benevolence Courage Discipline Good Leader &lt;br /&gt;We are not Great. We are Genuine. Our recruitment strategies are developed with a keen eye for the Art of War strategies with nearly two decades of professional headhunting experience.   We are the rare people who can explain complex things very simply to maximize success for our customers   They have to be Realistic thus adapting to different recruitments. Thus all the 5 Qualities must be analyzed carefully before making a decision to launch the Search Attack deep knowledge of the 9 grounds 9 situations . R ecruit S trategy = R ealistic S trategies War of Search Strategies &lt;br /&gt;In each DNA derives out various complex components that makes a good leader. Strike a balance between the Needs Vs the Wants. It is never easy. For example, China took 150 years to recover from the loss from the opium war. Only in 2008, Beijing Olympic regain back their trust and name. As a recruiter we know the importance of attracting talents with these attributes. Otherwise it will pose danger to our client business. 将 道 : 智 信 仁 勇 严 法 道 : 例 曲 官 道 Strong Leader origins from inside &lt;br /&gt;Sharing some of the giest in Search &lt;br /&gt;Morale : Personality &lt;br /&gt;Climate : Capability 行 军 法 : 天 地 熟 得 法 &lt;br /&gt;Terrain : Experience 强军法 : 练 , 赏 , 罚 &lt;br /&gt;4. Discipline : Practice &lt;br /&gt;A Good Talent Possess :- &lt;br /&gt;Different kind of leaders are discovered by understanding the different climate of the organization thus creating esprit de corps within By understanding the DNA of our client business prepared us for the best winning battle. The importance of a good leader must always have the 5 qualities in which consistent practice personal development, teambuilding, kaizen strategy, TQM, ABC are set to make remarkable success for an organization.. Identify the Right Leader for Right Climate &lt;br /&gt;Search Analytics War of Strategies Preparation Know thyself. Know your opponent: Victory Know yourself, know not opponent : Half Victory Know not yourself, know not opponent : No Victory &lt;br /&gt;The Formidable Art of War Strategy 智 Simple Way to Explore Talents from complexity in each DNA Talent Analysis. It takes months to prepare the right balance thus finding the Right Talent into the each career expectations, job nature etc. Data : CI, BI Morale Climate Terrain Generalship Discipline Intelligence Data : EQ, IQ, USP Data : EI,SI,II Data GI1,GI2 Data DI, P1, &lt;br /&gt;Recruit Strategy War of Strategies Talent Retention Strategy Build, Coach &amp; Guide &lt;br /&gt;We go the extra mile in Recruit Strategy &lt;br /&gt;More detailed search are analyzed through our 8 steps Executive Search Services. &lt;br /&gt;Detailed Plan are devised once a job has been exclusive agreed and signed &lt;br /&gt;Professional and personalized search are carried out in good faith. &lt;br /&gt;Follow up Valued Added Services…. &lt;br /&gt;Recruit Strategy provides full spectrum of Executive &lt;br /&gt;Search Placement consists of services such as :- &lt;br /&gt;Resource Solutions &lt;br /&gt;Work in partnership with organization to develop and deploy resources strategies that optimize the use of all recruitment channels &lt;br /&gt;Value Added Solutions &lt;br /&gt;Help Companies maximize brand by implementing best ethic and professional responsibilities thus avoid unnecessary costs. &lt;br /&gt;Compliance &amp; HR Policies &lt;br /&gt;Strategic Business Thinking &lt;br /&gt;War of Strategies in People Management, Leadership Development, Generating Sales Roles Development &lt;br /&gt;A Complete Series of Search &lt;br /&gt;Leadership Identify and hire top levels leaders in the banking sectors. Recruit a 40 bank sales team generating 2.4 m sales within 6 months. Guide Sales Ethics and Professional Responsibilities Awards The Asian Bankers Awards Excellence in Retail Financial Services 2002 Benchmark by aAdvantage Consulting 100% voted proud to work for Recruit Strategy. 83% voted they received motivations and challenges at work. RS Track Records &lt;br /&gt;Employer’s Pledge Recruit Strategy has a shared vision for Singapore to be one of the best places in the world to work, every worker is given an equal opportunity for employment. Rewarded according to his or her merit, treated fairly and with respect, given the opportunity to optimize his or her unique talents. To make Singapore a place where businesses are able to attract, develop and retained valued employees. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have you pledge yours? Visit www. fairemployment.sg RS Track Records &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dr. Foo Check Teck Adjunct Associate Professor, School of Business, UniSIM Associate Professor, School of Mechanical and Production Engineering, NTU Baruch College The City University of New York Education Qualifications PhD (Strategy), University of St. Andrews, Scotland, 1990 MBA (Finance), City of London, 1981 LLB (Hons), University of London, 1979 Barrister-at-Law, Lincoln’s Inn, England and Wales Advocate and Solicitor of the Supreme Court of Singapore S.C.M.A. (UK), F.C.I.M. (UK), A.C.I.S. (UK), C.P.A. (Singapore) Academic and Professional Experience Dr. Foo has contributed extensively to journals like Journal of High Technology Management and Research, Juridical Review, International Journal of Human Resource Management, Cyber Psychology, Singapore Law Reports, Law Gazette, Singapore Management Review, Economic Bulletin and Asian Banker Journal. He is the author of Reminiscences of an Ancient Strategist: Mind of Sun Tzu (1997) and the co-author of Thinking Around Strategems and Organizing Strategy: Sun Tzu Business Warcraft . Recruit Strategy CEO Search &lt;br /&gt;Recruit Strategy Contact Card &lt;br /&gt;Ms Christie Khoo &lt;br /&gt;+65 9828 1033 &lt;br /&gt;[email_address] &lt;br /&gt;www.recruitstrategy.com &lt;br /&gt;CEO Executive Search &lt;br /&gt;Recruit Strategy Pte Ltd &lt;br /&gt;No. 8 Eu Tong Sen Street #23-85 &lt;br /&gt;The Central Office 2 &lt;br /&gt;Singapore 05981 &lt;br /&gt;Tel : 6 883 1033 &lt;br /&gt;Fax : 6 336 0889&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.slideshare.net/RecruitStrategy/the-dna-of-a-good-leader&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-4312449071067100665?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/4312449071067100665/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/05/dna-of-good-leader.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/4312449071067100665'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/4312449071067100665'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/05/dna-of-good-leader.html' title='The Dna Of A Good Leader'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-7659465126703783142</id><published>2011-04-26T10:37:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-04-26T10:38:23.435-07:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>  &lt;br /&gt;Self Improvement Articles&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5 Simple Steps to Setting and Reaching Your Goals&lt;br /&gt;by Success Expert Sharmen Lane&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You are probably thinking “Yeah, yeah, I’ve heard about the importance of setting goals before”… Well many of us have heard about it and few of us do it. Those who do set goals generally do it once a year, on New Years Day. And that’s not enough!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Setting your goals is one thing, reaching them is entirely another. That is precisely why most people don’t reach their goals. There is a lot more to goals than simply setting them once. Just like going to the gym, you don’t work out one time, get the body you want and then say “Yippee, glad that’s over, never have to do that again”. This, like many things, is a process. This process is what I call Goal Setting Made Simple.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First step is to look out on the horizon and determine what the final outcome is. What is the end result that you are looking for? Whatever it is, write it down and be very clear.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Second thing to do is write down all the logistics. Brainstorm by thinking about and then writing down what needs to be done in order to reach that goal. Usually there is more than one thing for you to take action on. Therefore, you need to break down the end goal into a lot of little ones. I call this dicing. Chopping up a big goal, into a bunch of weekly or daily ones.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Third step, after you have determined all that needs to be done to reach your goal, prioritize them. Keep in simple by just numbering the steps from 1 to whatever. This doesn’t mean the order wont change, but at least you will have a starting point and you will have some directions to follow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Step Four. Now you know what needs to be done and what it’s going to take to get you there. Now write it in your calendar. Depending on how many steps it will take and how passionate you are about reaching your goal, will determine how often you need to take action. You may need to write down and do the smaller tasks once a month. If there are a lot of steps you need to take you may need to write down and take action every week, day or perhaps every hour.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That leads us to step number five and that step is take action. I believe you need to take action every single day. That way you will always be making progress and you won’t lose momentum. Each day you will be one step closer to getting what you want. So step five is, do something, take action every single day towards reaching your goal. Before you know it you will be, do or have it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For more information visit www.sharspeaks.com.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;About the Author:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sharmen Lane is an Author, professional speaker, radio host, and self improvement expert. She has trained, managed, and coached thousands of individuals on what it takes to get what they want. Sharmen offers you step-by-step solutions to everyday problems that complicate our lives. Sharmen wrote the book titled “The 7 Secrets to Create Your Fate”, which is a personal growth, self development book written to give everyone who reads it the motivation, inspiration and determination to go after what they want with passion. For more self help resources and seminar speaker topics, visit www.sharspeaks.com.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Professional motivational speaker Sharmen Lane specializes in&lt;br /&gt;Corporate Leadership, Sales and Self-Improvement.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-7659465126703783142?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/7659465126703783142/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/04/self-improvement-articles-5-simple.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/7659465126703783142'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/7659465126703783142'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/04/self-improvement-articles-5-simple.html' title=''/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-5331713528874452824</id><published>2011-04-26T10:25:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-04-26T10:28:54.397-07:00</updated><title type='text'>7 Secrets to Success</title><content type='html'>Keynote Seminar Topic:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7 Secrets to Success&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Success means something different to everyone. However, whatever your definition of success is, there are 7 things you can do to help you achieve it.&lt;br /&gt;S- Set Your goals&lt;br /&gt;Each element of success has a process. There is a strategic way to set your goals to increase your odds of achieving then.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;U- Uncover your passion&lt;br /&gt;Many people in the world today are living passion-less lives. This program shows you how to find your passion and incorporate it into your everyday lives and even make money at it if you choose to.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;C- Create a Plan&lt;br /&gt;When you create a plan you significantly increase your odds to making your goals happen. Here we discuss how to create a step-by-step plan so that you have little simple steps to take to make what you want happen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;C- Choices and Consequences&lt;br /&gt;Every Choice has a consequence, however we often do first and think later. In this section you are given powerful ideas and tools on how to make better choices that will change your life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;E- Eliminate Stress&lt;br /&gt;Stress, we all have it to one degree or another. You can reduce your stress or eliminate it completely by following this simple plan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;S- Strive to do your best&lt;br /&gt;Being your best is much different that being “the” best. When you strive to do your best every moment of every day you will achieve leaps and bounds above what you currently are. It starts with changing your perception and here you will be giving tips and tricks on how to be your best at every moment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;S- Surmount Fear &lt;br /&gt;Fear is one of the biggest success busters of all time. It prevents us from taking acting to achieving our greatness. Learn what fear really is and what you can do to stop it in its tracks. &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.sharspeaks.com/topic-7-secrets-to-success.shtm&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-5331713528874452824?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/5331713528874452824/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/04/7-secrets-to-success.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/5331713528874452824'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/5331713528874452824'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/04/7-secrets-to-success.html' title='7 Secrets to Success'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-2486439807058514176</id><published>2011-03-17T18:10:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-03-17T18:18:42.570-07:00</updated><title type='text'>10 Steps to World Class</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#663366;"&gt;10 Steps to World Class&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What are the characteristics of a high-performing organization? What do they do or how do they act to distinguish themselves? What can your organization do to join their ranks?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Baldrige model has identified the beliefs and behaviors of high-performing organizations. These 11 core values and concepts, embedded in the Baldrige Criteria and in Baldrige Award recipients, are essential to achieving performance excellence. You can find the complete list here and an explanation of each in the Criteria booklets here.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So how do you get your organization from where it is today to world-class status? Twenty years of Baldrige reveal the steps you can take to create a high-performing organization:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Lead the transformation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. It won’t happen without leaders committed to excellence, and it won’t happen without recognizing that the steps you take will transform your organization. Plan the journey, communicate the plan, measure progress, and facilitate change.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;♦To learn more, read &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Is Baldrige Right for Your Organization, 10 Critical Questions: Senior Leadership, and An Achievable Mission and Vision;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Develop management system experts&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. You will need these experts to help focus resources and attention on what must happen along your journey. Take a few existing or rising stars and ask them to be Baldrige or state award examiners for at least three years. The training and experience they get will give you the internal expertise you need.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;♦To learn more, read How to Become a Baldrige Expert, Make Yourself More Valuable, and The Value of Baldrige Expertise.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Promote curiosity. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;No organization can change if it is content with the way things are. Learning organizations challenge the status quo. They seek a better way. And they recognize and reward people at all levels of the organization who take responsibility for improving performance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;♦To learn more, read Climbing the Corporate Lattice and Employee Development and 10,000 Hours of Practice.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Demand process thinking. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;All work is process. You cannot prolong your journey to world-class by constantly putting out fires or blaming employees for systemic problems. Ask how you do what you do, identify the steps, and manage and improve the process.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;♦To learn more, read 10 Critical Questions: Process Management, Identifying Key Work Processes, 5 Powerful Process Questions, and Process Management: Work System Design.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Compare with the best.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; You need context to know if what you are doing is the best course and what you are achieving is truly world-class. Benchmark key processes and key results with those of high-performing organizations. Hold your organization to the highest standards and implement plans that will help you join them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;♦To learn more, read Outside-the-Box Benchmarking, Health System Benchmarks, and Comparative Data for Manufacturers,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Assess and apply.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; The only way to keep attention focused on improving your management system is to assess and improve it using the Baldrige Criteria. Many Baldrige Award recipients submitted applications for state awards and/or the Baldrige Award annually for several years before winning the Award—and many continue to do assessments after they won. Start with a self-assessment or by applying for a state award. Use the feedback to prioritize and address your biggest gaps. Repeat the process annually and you will improve.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;♦To learn more, read Is Baldrige Right for Your Organization?, 10 Steps to an Effective Baldrige Assessment, and New to Baldrige?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Drive continuous improvement.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Use data and information to identify opportunities for improvement and have action planning and problem solving processes in place to address them. Build refinement steps into every process to make sure the process is systematically improved.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;♦To learn more, read Blessed with OFIs and 10 Critical Questions: Process Management.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Align and integrate. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;Use your strategic planning and performance measurement systems to align what you do with what you want to achieve. Harmonize plans, processes, information, resource decisions, actions, results, and analyses to support your organization’s goals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;♦To learn more, read Alignment and Integration and Know Thyself—and Act Accordingly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Innovate.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; High-performing organizations are good at everything and great at a few things. To be good at everything you need a culture of innovation that touches all processes. To be great at a few things, you need formal approaches to developing breakthrough approaches in those areas critical to your success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;♦To learn more, read 3 Systematic Innovation Processes and Making Innovation Part of Your Culture.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Sustain the gains. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;The first nine steps are a lot of work if you’re going to slack off as soon as you get to the top. To sustain the journey, identify the factors that must be in place and managed to remain world-class and then develop and implement processes to address them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;♦To learn more, read 4 Parts of True Sustainability, Identifying Capabilities Your Organization Needs, and Planning for the Longer-Term.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;High-performing organizations have integrated Baldrige by integrating these ten steps into the way they operate. Their success is available to any organization committed to being the best.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;http://www.baldrige.com/10-steps-to-world-class/&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-2486439807058514176?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/2486439807058514176/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/03/10-steps-to-world-class.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/2486439807058514176'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/2486439807058514176'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/03/10-steps-to-world-class.html' title='10 Steps to World Class'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-272516939400811123</id><published>2011-03-10T10:14:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-03-10T10:15:43.349-08:00</updated><title type='text'>The Secret: What Great Leaders Know—And Do</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;The Secret: What Great Leaders Know—And Do  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;2nd Edition&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ken Blanchard and Mark Miller&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Description and Reviews&lt;br /&gt;From The Publisher:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At one time or another, everyone in a position of authority-whether in a multi-national corporation or a local volunteer group-wonders what the key to great leadership is. And who better to answer that question than the team of Ken Blanchard, whose books on leadership have sold over 20 million copies, and Mark Miller, who worked his way up from line worker to vice president of one of the largest fast-food chains in the country. In The Secret, Blanchard and Miller use the uniquely accessible "business fable" format that Blanchard pioneered to get at the heart of what makes a leader truly able to inspire and motivate people. Debbie Brewster, recently promoted and struggling, finds herself about to lose her job due to poor performance. In an attempt to save her career, she enrolls in a new mentoring program offered by her company. Much to her surprise, Debbie finds her mentor is none other than Jeff Brown, the president of the company. Debbie decides that she is going to ask her new mentor the one question she feels she desperately needs answered: "What is the secret of great leaders?" Jeff's immediate answer-that great leaders serve their followers-completely flummoxes Debbie. Over the next 18 months, Jeff helps Debbie discover and explore five fundamental ways that leaders lead through service.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Secret puts what Blanchard and Miller have learned about leadership in a form that anyone can easily understand, embrace, and pursue. It is a book that will benefit not only those who read it, but also the organizations they work in and the people who look to them for guidance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The second edition includes revised and updated content including:&lt;br /&gt;A new foreword by John Maxwell&lt;br /&gt;A new resource section in the back matter summarizing key learning points&lt;br /&gt;A greater focus on the book's primary focus: servant leadership&lt;br /&gt;A more humanized protagonist&lt;br /&gt;Numerous other minor renovations throughout&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;About the Authors&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ken Blanchard is a prominent author, speaker, and business consultant. His phenomenal bestselling book, The One Minute Manager has sold more than ten million copies worldwide, is still on bestseller lists, has been translated into more than 25 languages and is regarded as one of the most successful business books of all time. Mark Miller began his Chick-fil-A career working as an hourly team member at the company's Southlake Mall location in 1977. Today, he is the Vice President, Training &amp;amp; Development. He is also a member of the Operations Council, and the Strategic Planning Team for Chick-fil-A, Inc. When not working to sell more chicken, Mark teaches on a wide array of topics including: Leadership, Creativity, Team Building, and Evangelism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Table of Contents&lt;br /&gt;   &lt;br /&gt; Foreword by John Maxwell &lt;br /&gt;   &lt;br /&gt;1 The Opportunity &lt;br /&gt;2 The Meeting &lt;br /&gt;3 The Secret &lt;br /&gt;4 Where Are You Going? &lt;br /&gt;5 What's Most Important? &lt;br /&gt;6 An Insight With Impact &lt;br /&gt;7 How Can It Be Better? &lt;br /&gt;8 What Is Success? &lt;br /&gt;9 How's Your Credibility? &lt;br /&gt;10 Serving Leaders &lt;br /&gt;11 Let's Review &lt;br /&gt;12 Passing the Baton &lt;br /&gt;   &lt;br /&gt; Acknowledgments &lt;br /&gt; About the Authors &lt;br /&gt; Services Available&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;http://www.leadershipnow.com/leadershop/9781605092683.html&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-272516939400811123?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/272516939400811123/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/03/secret-what-great-leaders-knowand-do.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/272516939400811123'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/272516939400811123'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/03/secret-what-great-leaders-knowand-do.html' title='The Secret: What Great Leaders Know—And Do'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-4157170401902065517</id><published>2011-03-10T07:39:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-03-10T07:40:50.807-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Making Vision Stick  - Andy Stanley</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#6600cc;"&gt;Making Vision Stick  - Andy Stanley&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Product Description&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You as a leader might have it, but has your organization caught it? Are you giving your vision the constant care and attention it needs to make it stick?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most leaders have mental pictures of what could be and should be for their organizations, but not every leader is willing to pay the price to turn those ideas into reality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Seeing a vision become a reality requires more than a single burst of energy or creativity; it requires daily attention and daily commitment. Making vision stick is your responsibility as the leader.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Andy Stanley has become renowned for his abiility to cast compelling visions... and then make them stick. Over the past 15 years, many organizations have gleaned wisdom from Andy and North Point Ministries on their extraordinary ability to make their vision stick.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In this DVD series, Andy first shows you why vision doesn't stick. Then, sharing vivid firsthand examples, he walks you through five simple but powerful ways to make your vision infiltrate the hearts and minds of those you lead. In addition, the series features behind-the-scenes interviews with two key leaders at North Point -- Jeff Henderson and Bill Willits -- giving viewers practical examples on just how to do this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Making Vision Stick provides the keys you need to propel your organization forward.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. INTRODUCTION&lt;br /&gt;2. STATE IT SIMPLY&lt;br /&gt;3. CAST IT CONVINCINGLY&lt;br /&gt;4. REPEAT IT REGULARLY&lt;br /&gt;5. CELEBRATE IT SYSTEMATICALLY&lt;br /&gt;6. EMBRACE IT PERSONALLY&lt;br /&gt;7. LAUNCHING NEW INITIATIVES&lt;br /&gt;8. WRAP-UP&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;----------&lt;br /&gt;Includes&lt;br /&gt;----------&lt;br /&gt;1 DVD with 8 sessions from Andy Stanley &amp;amp; practical interviews with Jeff Henderson and Bill Willits&lt;br /&gt;1 PDF Facilitator's Guide for Lunch &amp;amp; Learn and leadership team environments&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-4157170401902065517?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/4157170401902065517/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/03/making-vision-stick-andy-stanley.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/4157170401902065517'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/4157170401902065517'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/03/making-vision-stick-andy-stanley.html' title='Making Vision Stick  - Andy Stanley'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-3768208379476278618</id><published>2011-03-09T09:59:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-03-09T10:01:07.890-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Put Your Dream to the Test Kit by John Maxwell</title><content type='html'>Dr. Maxwell draws on his forty years of mentoring experience to expertly guide you through the ten questions required of every successful dreamer:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;- &lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;he Ownership Question: Is my dream really my dream?&lt;br /&gt;- The Clarity Question: Do I clearly see my dream?&lt;br /&gt;- The Reality Question: Am I depending on factors within my control to achieve my dream?&lt;br /&gt;- The Passion Question: Does my dream compel me to follow it?&lt;br /&gt;- The Pathway Question: Do I have a strategy to reach my dream?&lt;br /&gt;- The People Question: Have I included the people I need to realize my dream?&lt;br /&gt;- The Cost Question: Am I willing to pay the price for my dream?&lt;br /&gt;- The Tenacity Question: Am I moving closer to my dream?&lt;br /&gt;- The Fulfillment Question: Does working toward my dream bring satisfaction?&lt;br /&gt;- The Significance Question: Does my dream benefit others? &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;More importantly, Dr. Maxwell helps you to create the right answers, giving you principles and tips so you can make good decisions and maximize every moment to achieve your dream.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-3768208379476278618?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/3768208379476278618/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/03/put-your-dream-to-test-kit-by-john.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/3768208379476278618'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/3768208379476278618'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/03/put-your-dream-to-test-kit-by-john.html' title='Put Your Dream to the Test Kit by John Maxwell'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-9194861529261217122</id><published>2011-03-07T04:52:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-03-07T04:55:28.700-08:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#6600cc;"&gt;Be a life-giver… not a life-sucker&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;By Colleen Francis&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When dealing with problems or adversity, salespeople generally fall into one of two categories—they're either 'life suckers' or 'life givers'. Life suckers blame others for their actions and results, whereas life givers take responsibility and ownership for their actions and get results.  The top sales people are life givers. Those who are always looking for solutions to challenges are salespeople with a life giving attitude. They embrace the fact that their jobs—our jobs!—require that they act responsibility. Rather than wasting time tracing blame, they move forward by creating solutions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As responsible adults, nobody makes us think or do anything. We are responsible for our actions as well as our thoughts, opinions, assumptions and conclusions. They belong to us. We choose to think or act a certain way. Taking responsibility is a matter of choice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When someone says: the customer stressed me out; the prospect pressured me; or my manager made me do this, what they are really saying is that others control them. It's as if they expect us to believe that some kind of "others" phantom crept into their body, taking control of what they think and do. Life does not imitate a Hollywood horror film. It's up to each of us to choose how we feel and act.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a side note - as a consultant I regularly am asked to evaluate talent on a sales team. There are tell tale signs of failure to me. One critical sign is the answer to this question:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tell me about your last loss. What happened? A sales rep that makes excuses - "its shipping's fault we lost the deal" is doomed to fail. A sales rep that takes ownership - "I should have qualified the lead better" is destined for greatness. My accuracy at determining success or failure of a rep is 95% with this one question.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sure, bad things can happen—and they happen even to the best salespeople. None of us can choose or control every event that occurs in our lives—especially the ones that affect our business. Have you ever lost a sale to a prospect that was acquired before you had the contract signed? Have you ever had a sale to a government department wind up in limbo because of an unexpected spending freeze imposed while you were in final negotiations? These are examples of situations that as salespeople we can't control—but we can always choose our response to how to deal with them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Consider the conduct expected of first-year cadets at military colleges across North America. They are only allowed to respond to their instructors in one of three ways: "Yes Sir," "No Sir," and "No excuses, Sir!" If a cadet fails to complete an assignment (and the circumstances are deemed irrelevant), the cadet must assume responsibility by stating "No excuses, Sir!" The purpose here is to create an ownership (life giving) attitude. It's that kind of self-discipline and ownership that will serve you well in your career.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How often have you neglected to follow-through on a commitment you made to yourself: making a specific number of cold calls in a day; completing a tough assignment; hitting your targets; or closing a sale with a specific customer? Does your personal life often reflect this habit? For instance, do you ever start a diet, an exercise program or a hobby and never carry it through? Has it ever reached the point that when you decide on a goal, your inner voice says: "Who are you kidding? You'll never follow through!" Those kinds of lies undermine your confidence to address issues and to effect change. That's why it's important for you to train and condition to believe yourself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are four exercises you can try every day to make sure your attitude is an ownership attitude:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1.   Associate only with life-givers&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You have complete control over who you spend your time with, so choose wisely. Being around positive people will improve your outlook and your attitude. This is not easy and it does require cutting off access to people you know are life suckers. Short term pain for long term gain - and profits!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2.   Look good to feel good!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The following exercise is something learned from Anthony Robbins, a master of human performance. Take note of your physiology when you're feeling your best—when everything is going your way and you're in a terrific mood. How do you walk? How loud is your voice? Do you gesture? Are you sitting or standing? Do you talk quickly or slowly? Do you stand tall or slouch?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once you've made your list, carry it with you. Memorize it. The next time you're in a slump and want to change your attitude, pull out your list and begin consciously acting the way you do when you're feeling great. It may feel unnatural at first, but soon you'll find yourself in a better mood. Remember, it's easier to act your way into a new sense of feeling, than it is to feel your way into new sense of acting!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stop showing up to work looking your ½ best. Press your pants, put on a clean ironed shirt and dress like you want to strut! Seems trivial I know but its true. The way you look on the outside will reflect the way you feel on the inside. My mother-in-law likes to remind me that there is no such thing as an ugly person, just a lazy one! Ouch… I think about that too often when I am caught grocery shopping in a ball cap and sweats. (As they say, the truth will set you free… but first it will really piss you off!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3.   Laugh, learn and take responsibility&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When something bad happens, look for the good in it and take full responsibility for the bad. Among salespeople, those who aren't afraid to admit when they're wrong are the same who comprise the ranks of the top performers. Customers don't have time for mistakes and blame. Being honest or "coming clean" makes you more trustworthy and earns you something that's truly invaluable—a reputation for integrity. So the next time you make a mistake, ask yourself what you can learn from it. Then take that lesson and use it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4.   Train your mind for success by achieving a realizable goal every day&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In life, people often get into a negative rut because they feel they aren't making progress. If that sounds familiar, then try setting a small but achievable goal for yourself every day. Make a list. Write down each goal, and when you've achieved each one, cross it off. Before too long you'll have a pattern of successful achievement that will help you develop a pattern of positive thinking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5.   Keep a success journal&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Make note of your success and visit them regularly. It's important to remember how far you have come and celebrate those successes. Each time you achieve a goal, recognize that accomplishment before you go on. Reward yourself. When you are facing a tough time, pull out your success journal and get excited about all the wins you have had. Remind yourself, if you were successful yesterday, you can be successful tomorrow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take ownership of your behavior and assumptions. Remember, no one made you come up with your thoughts, opinions, assumptions and conclusions. And only you can steer things right.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Colleen Francis, Sales Expert, is Founder and President of Engage Selling Solutions (www.EngageSelling.com). Armed with skills developed from years of experience, Colleen helps clients realize immediate results, achieve lasting success and permanently raise their bottom line.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Start improving your results today with Engage's online Newsletter Sales Flash and a FREE 7 day intensive sales eCourse: www.EngagingIdeasOnline.com.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You have permission to use the above article in your newsletter, publication or email system as long as you do not edit the content and you leave the links and resource box intact.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;©2011 Engage Selling Solutions. All rights reserved: All trademarks used or referred to on this site are the property of their respective owners. No materials on this site may be reproduced, altered, or further distributed without Engage's prior written permission.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;============================================================&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Rave Reviews for Colleen&lt;br /&gt;What ought to pass for common sense is, in fact, not practiced often enough by salespeople and other professionals. Colleen helped us avoid making those mistakes. We enjoyed the last year working with Colleen. She is ever the consummate professional with great insight into selling over the phone.&lt;br /&gt;Mark Volk, Director, Business Services &amp;amp; Supprt, Platform&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you for yesterday's (my first) Town Hall meeting. You gave me 2 tips that are already increasing my success rate. 1. The 'pause': it does work. I stopped talking with a prospect after 30 seconds of introduction and waited. Tons of information came forth! 2. Using an EXACT time in a voicemail that I would call back resulted in 100% attendance this morning on my follow-up calls: people were at their desk waiting for my call, and impressed when I did call. Incredible. I am thrilled by your brilliance! Thanks.&lt;br /&gt;Jennifer Krueger, Regional Manager, Global Corporate Challenge&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Literally, 30 minutes after my first teleconference with Colleen I was on the phone applying concepts and strategies I learned that enabled me to effectively move forward a deal accounting for 57% of my quota for the entire sales quarter!&lt;br /&gt;Raj Shahani, Yahoo!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Colleen takes the time to understand your requirements and tailor her sales training solutions to your specific needs, even taking into account individuals within the team. Her training has resulted in many "aha!" moments for my sales team, and our steadily increasing sales show the training is having an effect. Highly personable, trustworthy and consistent, you would be hard pressed to hire better than Colleen.&lt;br /&gt;Tim Welch, Regional Sales Director, Grand &amp;amp; Toy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was my distinct pleasure to attend with Ron and Lynn from my team. It has focused me and given me the chance to step back for a moment, take stock of what is really important, rally my thoughts, strategies and tactics, and get back to more productive work. I will be making changes this week (already implemented one last week) that will change the way my sales team functions!&lt;br /&gt;Tim Welch, TalkSwitch&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I feel like I am brimming over with action items and am already starting to implement some of the things I learned. I cannot wait to be able to report on the success of some of the new techniques my sales team and I will be implementing!&lt;br /&gt;Autumn Shirley, CEO, FundRaiser Software&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Engage Selling Solutions is the number-one secret weapon I use in my business to sell more... a lot... in less time!&lt;br /&gt;Patrick Gant, thinkit creative&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I just wanted to tell you about my success yesterday using your voice mail technique. I was getting frustrated trying to reach this potential client, and David reminded me to keep trying, and I left a message yesterday morning advising her I would call her back at 3pm, and sure enough she answered the phone (finally) and I got the search from her.&lt;br /&gt;Helen Lightfoot, Regional Sales Director, HelmsBriscoe&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am looking forward to our sales team working with Colleen on an on-going basis because I feel that it's important to reinforce what we learned in her seminar. Consistency is the key. Sales skills need to be practiced constantly, in order to become habit. Our targets are aggressive this year; Colleen gave us the tools to get there.&lt;br /&gt;Jim Cummings, President, Cummings Mitchell&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I just wanted to take a moment to thank-you for the very informative and refreshing sales strategies you presented. I gained some new knowledge, and was reminded of a few things I had forgotten over time. I think virtually any business could benefit from your common-sense approach to sales.&lt;br /&gt;Steve Milcik, Business Development, Orion Software&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you for a wonderful seminar and experience. It was one of the best and most useful seminars I have attended. I am reviewing the material and notes I took, and developing an action plan. I will be making a number of positive changes to my business thanks to your seminar.&lt;br /&gt;Keith Christopher, Principal, KC Surveys&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have worked with Colleen for almost 2 years and have applied a number of her sales strategies with great success. The first time I met Colleen she said something that has resonated with me ever since... it takes 9 to 11 call attempts to get a meeting and most sales professionals quit calling after 5 or 6. This simple hint from Colleen helps me set realistic expectations for myself, helps motivate me to keep calling and gives me confidence in knowing that if I persevere, the meetings will come.&lt;br /&gt;Judy Duncanson, Senior Account Manager, ProVision IT Resources&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Colleen Francis was great, very energetic and knowledgeable. She adjusted quickly and used specific industries, and encouraged audience participation.&lt;br /&gt;David Gajich, St. Marys Cement&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having worked with Colleen and Engage Selling, her style, approach and innovative way of presenting sales results has enhanced the selling skills of many of our sales associates. With over 1,000 associates worldwide, Colleen has had the opportunity of working with many of them over the past 4 years. On many occasions, she has produced great results and continues to mentor many of our associates. It is this relationship with Colleen that has dramatically helped our sales understanding and altered our approach. Engage Selling is an integral part of our ongoing sales training.&lt;br /&gt;Peter Shelly, Executive Vice President, HelmsBriscoe&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wanted to thank you for your advice. I closed my first sale this week and it was surprisingly easy! I used a lot of the techniques you suggested and I also knew from experience when it was closed and when to stop talking. Funny, I expected to negotiate on price but I didn't need to. I knew what my competitors were charging and that was enough for my prospect.&lt;br /&gt;Carol Laidlaw, Laidlaw Financial&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've been using the protocols Colleen teaches in recent weeks to modify my approach to client follow-up and proposal development. What a world of difference it has made is securing commitment from prospects for dates, potential budget, or project scope. I am now able to secure these critical sales details when I need it, up front &amp;amp; fast!&lt;br /&gt;Jen Hetzel Silbert, Partner, Innovation Partners&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You, Colleen and the Engage brand stand out head and shoulders from your competitors and from the general business community. Colleen's understanding and recognition of the fiscal struggles small companies face is heartening. I would recommend Colleen and Engage Selling to any business people hoping to increase their competitive advantage. Her sincerity and desire to help small businesses and sales people be the best they can be is clear and very welcome!&lt;br /&gt;Jan Vincent, JV Consulting&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Colleen's vibrant personality lights up a room. Having done her homework on our organization prior to meeting with the group, she was able to apply her principles to relevant sales scenario's we're facing. The entire sales group is better equipped with a handful of valuable learning's to apply to our account base. What's more, we all still continue to find ourselves rehashing and applying her insights... six months later!&lt;br /&gt;Daron Rosenbusch, Marketing Manager, SupremeX&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Colleen, Your ecourse was a great learning experience for me. I've applied your ideas and suggestions and it really works!!! Prospecting was my biggest nemesis... it isn't anymore. I get weekly appointments, followed by quotations and committed orders.&lt;br /&gt;Julie Zenga&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After almost 20 years in the staffing industry, cold calling USED TO BE one of my least favorite activities. Colleen's 3 step cold calling technique has worked wonders for me! I actually enjoy the process now and have had great success in getting my calls returned. Thanks Colleen!&lt;br /&gt;Judy Duncanson, Senior Account Manager, ProVision IT Resources&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Colleen's Negotiation Keynote offered new ideas and reasons why we should change some of our older sales tactics. We were able to learn from Colleen's real life sales experience as she shared with us many things that have and do work and many things that don't!&lt;br /&gt;Mike Cutrone, Etobicoke Ironworks&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was such fun having Colleen on site. We were able to accomplish lots of work in a short periods of time all the while enjoying her enthusiasm, boundless energy and creative ideas. She's the greatest; we give her our highest recommendations!&lt;br /&gt;Peggy Shepley, FundRaiser Software&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the day and half since our meeting in Chicago, I have seen a better response to the Voicemails I am leaving. First of all, each of the "I will call you tomorrow at ____ " have been waiting for my call at the time I called. So already this morning I have had 4 meaningful conversations, and found 2 leads that need proposals next week. I cannot tell you enough how pleased I am to have had you speak to us. Your training is fantastic&lt;br /&gt;Christian Torresluna, Commercial Account Officer, First American Equipment Finance&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I selected Colleen as I desired to get someone to "engage" the team to think about how they develop their business within the 122 markets globally. Her presentation kicked off the conference and kept 130+ sales &amp;amp; marketing professionals entertained and enlightened. Response has been positive as the team appreciated hearing Colleen's perspective. Thank you for contributing to a very successful conference!&lt;br /&gt;Kevin Kirby, Senior Director of Sales, Hard Rock International&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Colleen's energetic and invigorating style kept the audience entertained while imparting invaluable ideas and information. The attendance for her presentations was excellent. Here are just a few of the comments we received from the attendees, "Excellent presentation, easy to understand." "Practical ideas, great seminar - could easily be much longer." She is professional, upbeat and specific in her references to customers and their behaviour and she really understands the true-to -life challenges of the retail environment.&lt;br /&gt;Margo Warren, Special Events Manager, Canadian Gift and Tableware Association&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;http://www.engageselling.com/articles/070207article_engageschoice.html&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-9194861529261217122?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/9194861529261217122/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/03/be-life-giver-not-life-sucker-by.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/9194861529261217122'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/9194861529261217122'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/03/be-life-giver-not-life-sucker-by.html' title=''/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-1534382739641126631</id><published>2011-02-27T07:24:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-02-27T07:31:04.422-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How Will You Measure Your Life?</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;How Will You Measure Your Life?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;by Clayton M. Christensen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Editor’s Note: When the members of the class of 2010 entered business school, the economy was strong and their post-graduation ambitions could be limitless. Just a few weeks later, the economy went into a tailspin. They’ve spent the past two years recalibrating their worldview and their definition of success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The students seem highly aware of how the world has changed (as the sampling of views in this article shows). In the spring, Harvard Business School’s graduating class asked HBS professor Clay Christensen to address them—but not on how to apply his principles and thinking to their post-HBS careers. The students wanted to know how to apply them to their personal lives. He shared with them a set of guidelines that have helped him find meaning in his own life. Though Christensen’s thinking comes from his deep religious faith, we believe that these are strategies anyone can use. And so we asked him to share them with the readers of HBR. To learn more about Christensen’s work, visit his HBR Author Page.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before I published The Innovator’s Dilemma, I got a call from Andrew Grove, then the chairman of Intel. He had read one of my early papers about disruptive technology, and he asked if I could talk to his direct reports and explain my research and what it implied for Intel. Excited, I flew to Silicon Valley and showed up at the appointed time, only to have Grove say, “Look, stuff has happened. We have only 10 minutes for you. Tell us what your model of disruption means for Intel.” I said that I couldn’t—that I needed a full 30 minutes to explain the model, because only with it as context would any comments about Intel make sense. Ten minutes into my explanation, Grove interrupted: “Look, I’ve got your model. Just tell us what it means for Intel.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I insisted that I needed 10 more minutes to describe how the process of disruption had worked its way through a very different industry, steel, so that he and his team could understand how disruption worked. I told the story of how Nucor and other steel minimills had begun by attacking the lowest end of the market—steel reinforcing bars, or rebar—and later moved up toward the high end, undercutting the traditional steel mills.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I finished the minimill story, Grove said, “OK, I get it. What it means for Intel is...,” and then went on to articulate what would become the company’s strategy for going to the bottom of the market to launch the Celeron processor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’ve thought about that a million times since. If I had been suckered into telling Andy Grove what he should think about the microprocessor business, I’d have been killed. But instead of telling him what to think, I taught him how to think—and then he reached what I felt was the correct decision on his own.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That experience had a profound influence on me. When people ask what I think they should do, I rarely answer their question directly. Instead, I run the question aloud through one of my models. I’ll describe how the process in the model worked its way through an industry quite different from their own. And then, more often than not, they’ll say, “OK, I get it.” And they’ll answer their own question more insightfully than I could have.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My class at HBS is structured to help my students understand what good management theory is and how it is built. To that backbone I attach different models or theories that help students think about the various dimensions of a general manager’s job in stimulating innovation and growth. In each session we look at one company through the lenses of those theories—using them to explain how the company got into its situation and to examine what managerial actions will yield the needed results.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the last day of class, I ask my students to turn those theoretical lenses on themselves, to find cogent answers to three questions: First, how can I be sure that I’ll be happy in my career? Second, how can I be sure that my relationships with my spouse and my family become an enduring source of happiness? Third, how can I be sure I’ll stay out of jail? Though the last question sounds lighthearted, it’s not. Two of the 32 people in my Rhodes scholar class spent time in jail. Jeff Skilling of Enron fame was a classmate of mine at HBS. These were good guys—but something in their lives sent them off in the wrong direction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Class of 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As the students discuss the answers to these questions, I open my own life to them as a case study of sorts, to illustrate how they can use the theories from our course to guide their life decisions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;http://hbr.org/2010/07/how-will-you-measure-your-life/ar/1&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4284422861594508863-1534382739641126631?l=madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/feeds/1534382739641126631/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/02/how-will-you-measure-your-life.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/1534382739641126631'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4284422861594508863/posts/default/1534382739641126631'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://madsamuraileadership.blogspot.com/2011/02/how-will-you-measure-your-life.html' title='How Will You Measure Your Life?'/><author><name>AcrosticGuy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01695761723055569191</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/hello/157/9333/1024/IMG_6830.3.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4284422861594508863.post-7785361899816784235</id><published>2011-02-26T05:53:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-02-27T07:37:24.444-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How Will You Measure Your Life?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How Will You Measure Your Life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;by Clayton M. Christensen&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;Venkat Warren.M.D. 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Frederick Herzsberg is absolutely correct !! As a Cardiologist and the father of two children who went through Harvard College and Harvard Law School, my wife Viji and I have repeatedly impressed upon them that the primary purpose in Life is to learn , serve and enjoy since life is TOO short !! Money is only a SECONDARY,COLLATERAL benefit !! Chase knowledge and happiness and the money will chase you ! This very simple phoiosophy of living was imparted on me by my father while I was growing up in India; the Hindu Philosopher and deep thinker J.Krishnamoorthi sitting under the large banyan tree in the Hindu Theosophical Society in Adyar, Madras spoke of the primary purpose of life as service to humanity and the derived pleasure from that; I heard him say so when I was six years old !! The present day unhappiness and depression of the youngsters is the direct result of the unrellenting chase after the almighty dollar ! Happiness cannot be measured from the bank balance ; it is directly proportional to the intellectual balance ! Prof.Christensen, your article is great ! Thank you. Venkat Warren.M.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;BettyLaverne and 140 more liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Scott Bower 6 months ago in reply to Venkat Warren.M.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a Interaction Designer that has a personal mission to design solutions for medical doctors I applaud Dr. Warren's comments. I have seen so many doctors on the verge of suicide, the highest rate in any profession. Students go into the medical field as the best and brightest and a focus on recognized achievement and competitiveness at all costs. Once in the working world, they are often utterly isolated from colleagues, and, their families. When doing ethnographic research, they do their best to prove how could they are, to me, a researcher. Many are very proud of their loyal patients. But I have seen through those cracks... as a patient in a hospital after an emergency operation from a trip to India, I had a doctor in his early 50s essentially give me his suicide note, his life story, he has since gone through with it. He described to me how he had neglected his family, how he felt he wasn't allowed to emotionally interact with those closest to him, and the crushing, inhumane conditions of being a doctor in the modern world. His son was in jail and had a serious cocaine addiction, his wife had left him. He told me literally, he had wasted his life, he had "failed". I just wanted to comment because I think the bigger story is how western society values success, which can take many forms rather than money alone. I ascribe to Flow Theory, and as I approach the ripe young age of 40, I am on the path of rejecting post-Jungian morality. My grandmother inlaw was the happiest person I ever met, even at 98 years old, she had the personality of teenager. She was a god fearing church goer and had perfect health. I feel like there is so much her generation could have taught ours, that, the baby boomers utterly rejected.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;hannahnedrow and 41 more liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Dorismantooth 1 month ago in reply to Scott Bower&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Scott Bower's reply so accurately describes today's society and the common failure of values. I agree with his final comment, and want to add that you would have to actually know a 98 year old to fully appreciate the gift they offered ... not easily conveyed in words.&lt;br /&gt;Charlie Rose so beautifully captured Clayton Christensen's personality to prove that this generous author may well portray at least the essence of that generation. Thanks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Guest 6 months ago in reply to Venkat Warren.M.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I thank Dr. Warren for his post and largely concur with it. However, I have one, hopefully constructive, comment. While the quote recognizes "the primary purpose of life as service to humanity and the derived pleasure from that," Dr. Warren seems to emphasize his status as a Cardiologist and his children’s Harvard degrees. I, too, often focus on my successes (and those of my children) rather than really challenging myself to actually serve humanity. (By themselves, our status and degrees do nothing to serve humanity.) My hope is to do better in practicing the Hindu Philosopher's philosophy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;27 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Guest 6 months ago in reply to Guest&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"But once you’ve finished at Harvard Business School or any other top academic institution, the vast majority of people you’ll interact with on a day-to-day basis may not be smarter than you."&lt;br /&gt;(Read: now you can go on to being "oh, so superiah").&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As an alternative to this article, I advise: "get a life!". I think most people in the US, including students at HBS know what that means ;-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Guest 6 months ago in reply to Guest&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Prof. Chistensen's article is focused on success, with more than one dimentions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Thos003 6 months ago in reply to Venkat Warren.M.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are many that believe money is not the root of all evil... The quote from the source was "The LOVE of money is" Money can be sought after to help "service humanity" as long as you remain focused. Recognize a tool for what it is. But ultimately find those tools that will aid you in building your happiness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;23 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; guest 6 months ago in reply to Venkat Warren.M.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;this is a slight digression but really, venkat 'warren'?... I'm not certain if you quite understood what the philosopher under the banyan tree meant.. seems to me serving humanity hardly required you to move to the states.philanthropy is good.. but philanthropy at 5 percent is clearly better.. I know its hard but try recognising your hypocrisy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;11 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Kate Putnam 6 months ago in reply to guest&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Years ago, I met a man who did missionary work in Greenwich CT- the richest area in the world. His role it was to care for the education of boys whose fathers provided everything material and nothing spiritual. One can do good anywhere - it does not have to be in poverty. Need is everywhere.&lt;br /&gt;I can see that the ambitious students of HBS need this thought process more than most, os that they appreciate how fortunate they are and what opportunities they have to improve their own lives and through that improve others. This looks like a much better morals course than what I got in B-School. Fortunately I got this course from my mother.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; English 6 months ago in reply to guest&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Venkat 'warren' does not need hipocrisy in order to pursue happiness and move to the US where we have institutions and systems already in place to make life easier. Not to say that people in India are less happy, but just to say that the US has so many systems and structures already in place that makes living easier.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Guest 6 months ago in reply to English&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes. Serving humanity in the US, and the philosophy of the philosopher are not at odds. I however would say that "serving humanity" is too lofty. Still it is a good thing to tell students. Most of them will be providing some service to humanity, no matter what they do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Heman 1 month ago in reply to Guest&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The business grads, the future CEOs and what not, are supposed to think that "The customer is God". Aren't they? Customers are humanity. So they are serving humanity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Guest 3 weeks ago in reply to Heman&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Customers are humanity. So they are serving humanity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Except it was supposed to be done for service's sake, and to be able to sustain life. Definitely not in agreement with the 'profit maximisation' for self theory that most CEO's subscribe to.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A multi million dollar compensation for a CEO firing a few hundred people. Really ? Fire the CEO instead, The economy would improve as the company would still be able to retain the employees, and the VP's can still manage the business. I would say this is the real challenge.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Guest 6 months ago in reply to Venkat Warren.M.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is another Hindu philosophy that says focus on "Self" (in fact most of it before contact with western thought: including patanjali, rationalists, bhakti movement, etc.). I think that will surely lead to happiness. It seems, the examples he gives of people who were unhappy were those who did not follow this philosophy. Even in the flight announcements they remind: put your mask on first, pull sting to let the air flow, before attempting to help others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Daniel 6 months ago in reply to Guest&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's because if you don't have oxygen yourself, you will pass out and be unable to assist others. I'm not sure if there's a life lesson in that or not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Guest 6 months ago in reply to Daniel&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Daniel...HUGE message or lesson...take care of yourself so that (you are strong and therefore) you can take care of others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; APJRahman77 6 months ago in reply to Guest&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Right. "Greatest Protection is Self Protection" By Indra to Karna in dream&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Anurag 5 months ago in reply to Venkat Warren.M.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Venkat,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A wonderful philosophy of life. I do hope you based out in rural India, serving underprivileged heart patients? And, hopefully, so are your Harvard-educated children?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anurag&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Brightsunnymorning 5 months ago in reply to Venkat Warren.M.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The real cause of problem cannot be money(or the chase for money) but in my opinion it is the chase. Had there been no money then it would be something else..may be women,power...or may be "who does more service".&lt;br /&gt;With that said,i would disagree with Mr Warren,that it is directly proportional to the intellectual balance.(Intellectual Balance???? what is it ???) There have been several instance of scientist/eminent ppl sabotaging each other's work and remaining unhappy......&lt;br /&gt;That leads us to the question on what constitutes happiness ? Well, it differs from person to person and the aim of the person should be to be a good judge of your inner self and identify what makes him happy....and work towards it. One size fits all cant be true....&lt;br /&gt;tintin&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; M_A_Saleem 4 months ago in reply to Venkat Warren.M.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dr Venkat,&lt;br /&gt;As I too am from Chennai read your comment with interest. Purpose of life as service to humanity is ok but faith in God is more valuable. i request you peruse the following: "Shall we tell you of those who lose most in respect of their deeds? Those whose efforts have been wasted in this life, while they thought that they were acquiring good by their works?" They are those who deny the Signs of their Lord and the fact of their having to meet Him (in the Hereafter): vain will be their works, nor shall We, on the Day of Judgment, give them any weight. That is their reward, Hell, because they rejected Faith, and took My Signs and My Messengers by way of jest. As to those who believe and work righteous deeds, they have, for their entertainment, the Gardens of Paradise, Wherein they shall dwell (for aye): no change will they wish for from there. (Qur’an 18:103-108)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; JOE 6 months ago in reply to Venkat Warren.M.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;swedish&lt;br /&gt;No one could have everythings he says to be the absolute truth but at least the Prof has 85% of long life experience a worthwhile story to tell young ones.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Jroblesl 4 months ago in reply to Venkat Warren.M.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Excelent&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Harminder Singh 6 months ago in reply to Venkat Warren.M.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My perspective is that being human is not easy and the cerebral thinking we have makes us take irrational decisions in this unceratin world of complexities. The cognitive limitations and human greed is taking us places unimaginable. Contentment is an individual achievement and so are the ambitions. The "Era of Stupid" has begun blanketed by the so called intellectuals resulting in the doom of the world. The mind set be a good human and the goal to do something great and at th back of the mind, money is never enough is a common problem with the humans. If even 1% followed the route to service the humanity and achieve 50% I salute such people who are hard to find.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Karen Dillon 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We agree that the piece is superb food for thought--for new graduates and those who have been in their careers a bit longer, too. We had planned to make the article free in the month of August, but thanks to your interest, we’ve released it early. Spread the word!&lt;br /&gt;--Karen Dillon&lt;br /&gt;Editor, Harvard Business Review&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;hannahnedrow and 107 more liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Marianne 7 months ago in reply to Karen Dillon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am so glad you made this article available. I had searched Google for an answer to the question, 'how do you deal with being scapegoated'. I found my answer here - not in the way I expected, nor the place I expected! It seems to me, your postings contain truths with far wider application than business students alone. I thank you for this opportunity to develop the meaning in my own life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;17 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Shannon 6 months ago in reply to Marianne&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Marianne, I was reading the article with the same thought in mind, It has been 7 years and a tremendous amount of inner turmoil to understand not only why, but what is my purpose. Not an easy question to answer, but to make sense of this world essential.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best of luck to you in finding yours.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; English 6 months ago in reply to Shannon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The 3 big questions:&lt;br /&gt;Where did I come from?&lt;br /&gt;Why am I here? and&lt;br /&gt;Where am I going/what happens in the end?&lt;br /&gt;If we start with seeking Truth and living by it, we will find the answers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;24 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Govarolo 6 months ago in reply to English&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Everyone's mission should be to enlighten the world with the idea that "we are life". I believe this statement carries the seed of life. We were all formed from infinite intelligence and the physical world colliding with each other. From this we were born. This is our existence. Dreams and Ideas are our only link to where we came from. But I caution you not to confuse dreams &amp;amp; ideas with thought. Remember that thought is inspired by dreams &amp;amp; Ideas. The dreams we have are the only reference we have to what we were. We know this to be our past.&lt;br /&gt;The physical world is where most of us perceive to exist. This is only half true. It is our inspired thoughts that change the world that makes our presence known. This is a very crucial concept. If we examine the history of the world it has always been shaped by necessity. Nature has always been very efficient in providing what the world needs. But this all changes with our introduction into this physical existence. For the first time this world is being shaped by mere inspiration. Dreams and Ideas inspire thought and are constantly changing the world around us. Take a minute to contemplate how powerful thought is. Now ponder the notion that the thought that changed the world came from the intangible. Ask anyone if he or she has a soul and everyone will answer with a resounding "yes". Now ask a different question "what is your soul?" and most people will not even know where to begin to answer that question. The reason for this is we are all too caught up with the question of "why". If we try to answer that question we may never arrive at an answer as we cannot explain the intangible with the tangible. The question is not why. "Why" will always have us looking back to our past and never forward. If we stopped trying to explain or remember from where we came from, we could all focus on the future. It is in the statement "We are life" where we accept who we are and ask ourselves a better question "Now what?" By accepting that "we are life" we finally accept that we are the seed and we bring life. From the mere energy brought from the unseen we move and inspire life. In accepting "We are life" we are set free from our past and we allow ourselves to plant our seed in the soil of the universe. We give ourselves the freedom to walk into the future unencumbered by our past perceptions and move forward with the resilience of a new born child.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Balagururamanan 7 months ago in reply to Karen Dillon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This article paves the way for reality check for everyone at any point of time - nothing goes waste unless and until we retrospect our past actions and future in mind. Everything start with self, one big tree can give shades to many. With the busy, selfish and monotonous life style, we seldom realize what we have lost. striking the correct balance between purpose of one life and career, professional on one hand and helping others to attain realization and real success in life creates a chain reaction. The question is how many people and for how long they remain unperturbed in the fast track of life can be relate to the human spirit and inner strength one draws from the undaunted faith in god to bless enough wisdom. It is a new beginning that opens the door for many to attain self realization. Ramanan (ramanan@trinityinc.in - will create value for myself and many more who come in touch with me - Thanks a lot..... Harvard Business Review)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Hemant 7 months ago in reply to Karen Dillon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for the article. Yes, you will cease to learn new things, the day you don't have humility to respect other feelings and thoughts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Labeak 6 months ago in reply to Karen Dillon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for freeing this up for us. It is great stuff, and sorely needed. I've emailed it to both of my sons and to others in positions of leadership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Adamgui7 6 months ago in reply to Karen Dillon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'd like to make my whole staff read this article and talk about how it applies to work-life management in today's intense work environment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Guest 6 months ago in reply to Karen Dillon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The professor needs to attend intro to economics.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Guest 5 months ago in reply to Karen Dillon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Karen...where can we get this article free? I shared this article with my friends and colleagues and all of them liked it. Is it possible to get the link to the entire article.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Meghan Ennes, HBR.org  5 months ago in reply to Guest&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We appreciate your interest, but unfortunately this article was only free to read for most of July and all of August this year. We hope you got a chance to read it during that time -- and if you really liked it, the reprint is available to purchase here.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks again, and all the best,&lt;br /&gt;Meghan&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Mitch McCrimmon 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm sure that people who can find a purpose for their lives early in their careers might be happy but I'm not convinced that it is all that easy to do. It sounds like trying to decide whether you like a certain kind of food before you have tasted it. I think one's purpose is something that has to be discovered over time, through experience. I find that regular reflection over many years increases my self awareness and my sense of purpose but I don't believe it is something I could have decided in my university days. Also, I think it is possible for one's purpose to evolve and change over time. I think that the best we can do is to expose ourselves to multiple experiences and reflect regularly on what they mean for our purpose. It's like house hunting. You can set out a few criteria you want in a new house before you start looking but, as you look at houses, you see features you like that you hadn't thought of before so you go home and revise your criteria. Making such decisions is a process of discovery. I don't think that a process of regularly reviewing and revising your purpose is the same as merely drifting. But in an age of rapid change, I doubt if many people can fix on a single lifelong purpose very early in their lives. We have to discover our purpose en route - it is like what Henry Mintzberg calls emergent strategy. www.lead2xl.com&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;hannahnedrow and 48 more liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; SantoshD 7 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mitch, I'd like to respectfully disagree. I don't think our purpose ever changes; only our understanding of it. If we constantly change our purpose, it is too easy to be affected by things we can't control. That's the whole point of it being a "purpose;" it's something integral to who you are, that cannot and should not be affected by extraneous things. The trouble comes when we have incomplete understanding of our purpose, and/or we lose the humility referenced in the article, that we can continue to learn and grow closer to our purpose.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; clio44 6 months ago in reply to SantoshD&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I understand your point, however, you are implying I have a purpose integral to who I am -- but if I don't know it, how is it really integral to who I am?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Rob 6 months ago in reply to clio44&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You may not have discovered what your purpose is yet, but that does not imply that there isn't one integral to who you are - it just means that you haven't discovered it yet. Clayton Christensen had to dedicate an hour each day for a year towards finding his purpose in order to descover it. - and the answer he obtained fit him so well that he never deviated from it afterwards. I dare say that if you dedicate a similar amount of time and effort to that cause, you will similarly discover "what makes you really tick" inside, the purpose that, if you dedicate your life to following it, will lead you to your greatest happiness. I have put myself through a similar process and was able to make just such a discovery for myself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Laura Mrmak 5 months ago in reply to Rob&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;clio44 here:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But is time all that is necessary? If I sit in a corner for a year straight, will I come out enlightened? Or should I spend that time trying different things, seeing what means something to me?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Thos003 6 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"purpose in route" ... Nice quote. Not only is it about finding purpose in route, but money in route as well. I just had lunch with a guy that has become very successful with a stone cleaning business. Funny thing was that he started the company to fund another venture, that went south.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Course corrections are often made in life. Clearly defining who you are should be made early. Defining principles to live by, ethics, standards, the earlier you set this the better off you will be. And yet, allowing yourself to change in the future is still acceptable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; clio44 6 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm glad to read this. I'm 27 and often feel confused about what my purpose is. I grew up with everyone telling me I could do whatever I wanted when I grew up, but the downfall of that is that there are so many options, I didn't know where to focus.. and still don't. While I'm deciding to try one route, there are countless others who have wanted to follow that route all their lives, and it's difficult to feel like I am focused and intent on succeeding amid such passionate people when I have so many other passions in my life.&lt;br /&gt;Since I AM passionate, I'm positive I just need to find the right direction to find the (emotional) success I'm seeking, but I have to admit, there are few mentors for these situations and it's not an easy thing to discover on your own.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What advice would you have?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Mitch McCrimmon 6 months ago in reply to clio44&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are a few suggestions:&lt;br /&gt;1. First, stop worrying about not having a purpose.&lt;br /&gt;2. Being adaptable or entrepreneurial can be a strength.&lt;br /&gt;3. Do you really need a single focus rather than a serial career?&lt;br /&gt;4. You can't force discovery. It could simply emerge when you least expect it.&lt;br /&gt;5. What have you most liked about your jobs and what do you want to do more of?&lt;br /&gt;6. Talk to people doing other jobs and ask what they most like about theirs.&lt;br /&gt;7. Keep window shopping and exploring while enjoying the present.&lt;br /&gt;8. The most adaptable people later in life are those who have had the most varied careers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is a myth that a lot of people have a single, clear sense of purpose. Without one, however, you can still allocate your time effectively as this article advocates. You just need to think regularly, say once a month, about your priorities for now, the next month, the coming year. To achieve some balance, you might have priorities across a number of your values: career, leisure, learning, family, etc. It is easier to have clear values or principles than a life purpose.&lt;br /&gt;(Edited by author 6 months ago)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hannah Acuña Nedrow and 5 more liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Tosin 6 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I thought strategy requires that you first define who you are, then set a goal/vision an entity will like to achieve which will be guided principles and values that you set to ensure you remain who you say you are (what you stand for) and be able to achieve your goals accordingly. I do not suppose an organization will just pick up several businesses along the road, hoping that somehow, some day, the will stumble upon their reason for being...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While I appreciate that some people might be 'late in the game' in their approach to life and living it with purpose, it is advisable that those just beginning theirs - like the students - just strive to define their lives' purpose and be guided by it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How many very successful men (and I mean those who have changed our world and a huge way) just stumbled upon they do?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Mitch McCrimmon 6 months ago in reply to Tosin&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tosin,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't think you can compare a business strategy with your life's purpose. A business has a clear success criterion: making a profit. This makes it easier to define a strategy. But people don't come ready made with any success criteria. They have to discover those as they go especially young people who, if they have any purpose it is to discover who they are. There's nothing wrong with taking a lifetime to find that purpose.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also, there is a difference between what you call "stumbling" along and a proactive search for a purpose. Even businesses can succeed through entrepreneurial means. That doesn't mean that they are stumbling blindly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally, the fact that those who changed our world had a life-long purpose doesn't mean that it is equally easy for everyone. My point is that no one should feel bad if they don't have a clear purpose, even ever. It's a very one-sided view of life that you have to be single-mindedly achievement oriented. There are lots of ways to be happy without having an overriding or single purpose. One can have lots of interests and these can change over time. Some people like a single purpose, others like variety and change. You can't generalize for everyone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hannah Acuña Nedrow and 5 more liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Hannah Acuña Nedrow 6 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I strongly agree with you. When I was in seminary, well-meaning professors tried to push me to define my life's single purpose but no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't do it. I was just 21 years old then.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As time has passed, I have found more clues to discovering my purpose, so to speak, but more and more, I have come to believe that living each day as fully as possible is my main purpose. That may sound anti-climatic to people who want a grand and impressive purpose, but I believe that how we spend each moment is more important than having one single purpose.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've been reading a biography of Abraham Lincoln and I'd say he was one of those who stumbled on his purpose along the way. In contrast, his political rival and cabinet member Salmon Chase was singled-mindedly obsessed with a single political goal, yet he failed to achieve it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having said that, I did enjoy the article. For those people who have never thought about their life's purpose, the concept can be life-changing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mitch McCrimmon and 1 more liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Mitch McCrimmon 5 months ago in reply to Hannah Acuña Nedrow&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hannah, thanks for the comment. I like your statement: "...more and more, I have come to believe that living each day as fully as possible is my main purpose."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I agree with the value of what you call "living each day as fully as possible," but is that really a purpose or simply a key to happiness? This question is important because it makes me wonder why we need a purpose at all anyway. Perhaps the need for a purpose says something important about those who feel they need one, that maybe they measure themselves and base their happiness on some sort of goal achievement. I read an interesting book recently called "Waiting for Jack" in which the author argues that we waste too much of our lives waiting for something - that big job, break, move or whatever. I think there must be some connection, in the minds of most people, between purpose and happiness, but for me, happiness is an attitude. It's how we choose to view ourselves and our lives in the here and now regardless of any achievement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Laura Mrmak 5 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;clio44 here:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I just wanted to say thanks Mitch for the insightful response. I have linked to your comment (I hope you don't mind), so anyone with a similar question might be able to read it. I have been following the comments through my e-mail updates and so just now realized I hadn't actually been responding (just in my head!).&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, that's an interesting thought about wasting time waiting. I must say I feel in strong agreement with Hannah about her decision to live each day as fully as possible. I decided a long time ago that I hate the feeling of regret, so I try to live in a way that if something were to happen to me, the people I care about, or my circumstances, that I wouldn't wish that I'd spent more time with them, or shown them I care more often, or anything of the sort. Life is short, but might be shorten than we even think it will be, so I figure, why not be prepared? Why wait to get the big job, big break, if it means you will spend less time with the things that mean most to you (for me it's the people and nature)? Why even strive for that, if all it will provide is anxiety that if something were to happen to a loved one, you wouldn't be there, or you wouldn't have spent enough time with them? I know we can't all spend time with all our loved ones all the time, but there is a balance, and you hear so many people saying, "I should really visit my parents more often" or "I have a cottage and never get to use it" or "I work so much overtime, my spouse and I rarely get to spend an evening together". I don't want that life, that's all I know. All of those things are choices, you can't blame your work, because you chose your work. You are choosing to spend your time working, not with people you care about. You are putting loved ones aside. You are not planning to take the trip to the cottage and sticking to the plan. I have decided that for me, time is the greatest gift you can give someone. Nearly everything else will fade, but a memory, an impression, a loving comfort are priceless and irreplaceable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do I belong in the corporate world with such hippie-sounding notions in my head? Maybe not, but maybe it wouldn't be a bad thing to have someone fighting for everyone else's sake that they not have regrets either. Take that vacation. Don't take your work home tonight. Spend time with your family, relax, recharge. I don't want people burnt out because they work 12 hours a day or more when they are paid to work 8. I've heard other cultures take the recharging idea seriously, and mandate 6 weeks of vacation a year (Sweden, I believe), encouraging workers to take trips, spend that time with family. I really don't think this is indicative of a lazy culture, as many might. I think the expectation that we devote 8+ hours -- which doesn't include the hours devoted to getting ready and travelling to and from work -- of 5 out of 7 days of every week until we retire is indicative of a work-focused culture. I'm sorry, maybe again I seem like a hippie or lazy or something, but honestly, that is such a large portion of my limited time in life..... this is why it is so stressful for me to find a job that I can really care about, because I would feel like a complete hypocrite to follow the masses and just go for the job that pays the most, despite the boring and possibly irrelevant function it may entail.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In summary, I have no idea what I want to do. I want to help others; I want to have time to spend with loved ones; I want to enjoy my life. It's the only one I have!&lt;br /&gt;(Edited by author 5 months ago)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Mitch McCrimmon 5 months ago in reply to Laura Mrmak&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks Laura, I am pleased that you want to link to my comment. By all means of course!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In reply to your point about not knowing what you want to do, I think we can live in line with certain values or priorities as you seem to do without having a grand purpose. Some people like or need a lot of variety and change in their lives. They like doing new and different things, thus perhaps changing career direction regularly without any single purpose. Many are opportunistic and simply enjoy responding to new challenges as they arise. For some reason, however, many people are bothered by the thought that they don't know what they want to do with their lives. Living in the present is one solution, trying new things until you find what you want to do is another. Some can define their purpose out of thin air. My main point is that this is not so easy to do or common so there is no need to feel bad if you can't do it. Life is a bit like a banquet of unfamiliar food where we can't decide what we like until we taste it. We don't need to feel bad if we can't decide in advance which foods we like and don't like.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Laura Mrmak 5 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's what I am hoping. However, with books touting 10,000 hours to becoming specialized in something, makes you feel like if you're not dedicated to something yet, you're wasting time. You're right though -- I do prefer a buffet for the variety it offers, and if I dedicated my life to one single purpose, I might be prone to wondering if I'd missed out on something else. So maybe you're right in saying it's attitudinal to have one single purpose or not. Maybe some of us have 20 purposes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Actually, one of my favourite quotes about this topic comes from Forrest Gump, when he says, "I don't know if we each have a destiny, or if we're all just floating around accidental-like on a breeze, but I, I think maybe it's both. Maybe both is happening at the same time." It was a sweet but insightful way of thinking outside the box.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; aelizabetht 5 months ago in reply to Laura Mrmak&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Maybe people are confusing purpose with specialization. I think that humans are naturally drawn to a variety of tasks that fulfill a variety of needs we have. The first factories that were built had to "force" people to work there, because anyone who tried it hated the repetitiveness so much. They were used to working on family farms where each day there were a multitude of different tasks that required different skills, from digging dirt to repairing tools to managing time and predicting weather patterns. Intuitively, I feel we shouldn't feel bad about having so many interests!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Patrick Grasso 6 months ago in reply to clio44&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mitch should have added point # 9:&lt;br /&gt;You cannot do whatever you want nor become anything you want to be in life.&lt;br /&gt;It is a false expectation preached by educators that is built on the premise of entitlements.&lt;br /&gt;Number nine is a reality niether positive or negative. It also does not limit your passions. What is does allow, when you accept number nine, is the redefining of how you put that passion into a life. Not to make it too elementary but maybe I want to be a professional baseball player. The odds of me being fast enough or being able to hit the curve ball consistently is remote. However, I can channel that passion into areas of athletics, by professional choice, that will provide me with the passion and purpose. Applying the Stockdale Paradox is good advice; address the reality as it is, reflect and act.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; TRYING TO HELP 6 months ago in reply to clio44&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;clio44, try a Myers-Briggs assessment or read a book called Strengths Finder.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Laura Mrmak 5 months ago in reply to TRYING TO HELP&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;clio44 here:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for the suggestion, but I have tried those. My strengths span from creative to details-oriented to people-oriented to stubborn. Unfortunately, telling me my strengths doesn't help me find a job I care about. I might be willing to work hard at something if I really cared about it, after all. And then I'd be building my strengths!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Kush_sharma111 7 months ago in reply to Mitch McCrimmon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;i completely agree with you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Banks95 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All that Proferssor Christensen professes is absolutely true...... I have seen it in my life:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;About 23 years ago, I made a conscious decision to stop chasing money and, instead, invest as much of my life as possible in my family.......particularly my children. I have not made the money that I could have, but the character of my children is my return on my investment. Both were homeschooled, both went to top notch undergrad and grad schools......U.Penn, Harvard, U.Chicago, Georgetown and Cambridge.........BUT.....it is not the knowledge thay have obtained that is of greatest value to them........it is their character. They are a true blessing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;hannahnedrow and 27 more liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; aelizabetht 5 months ago in reply to Banks95&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've recently realized that a person's children is the first and best place to invest their time and resources. I have two children, and if I had more time/money/resources, they would be the first to have them. I can't believe how many people who are better off than I am(in this country, a lot of them) are so unneccesarily stingy with their kids, as if they fear giving too much would hurt them. As it is, even the small amount I can give my kids seems to pay off very well, as they are for the most part very patient and understanding people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Jeff Cohen 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I read this article in the HBR (paper) magazine and wanted to pass it on to friends, but they needed to pay $7 to read the entire article. I believe that this type of article should be free to everyone. A friend died very early in life because of the work habits alluded to by Christensen. My friend's life might have been extended if he read AND had adhered to the precepts in this article. These ideas need wider distribution and I think HBR would be doing a great service (plus great PR for the magazine) if it promoted the contents of the article.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;20 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Tim 7 months ago in reply to Jeff Cohen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I agree. Clayton even alludes to his recent battle with Cancer and a further realization that this kind of thought will likely have one end life significantly more fulfilled. Let's get it out to the world. Consider it Community Service and write it off HBR!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Raja 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I thought I'd never see the day that HBR would publish an article like this, and believe in its value to the point of making it free. Values and relationships are what ultimately matter, and if we do not pursue a legacy we would have gone into business and management in vain. Thank you Clayton!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;15 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Aymen 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes, It is easier to hold on to your principles a 100 percent of the time, but whether or not THAT is the right/better thing to do - must be subject to the scrutiny of your principle. After all, its our moral frigidity that creates conflict, prevents co-existence and tolerance and brews superiority and judgement&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;15 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; DisqusIMO 7 months ago in reply to Aymen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think Clayton would agree in the sense of the basketball example he gave. He discussed the conflict with his team and then took time to reflect on what decision he should make. Prayer was his method of scrutiny. He does follow the higher principle of helping someone in need on Sunday or dealing with an emergency (an ox in the mire in the Biblical sense). Also, the principle of humility to learn from others helps avoid frigidity as you make a situational judgment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; clio44 6 months ago in reply to DisqusIMO&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm curious if his basketball team lost. The reason I wonder this is because I wonder if that would create any sense of guilt for having potentially disappointed a whole team because of his moral stance. If so, would the guilt be justified?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(I am by no means disagreeing with his choice, I'm just purely curious.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; DisqusIMO 6 months ago in reply to clio44&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good question. I think there would be disappointment, but not guilt.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My joking answer would be that my father taught me it is not whether you win or lose, but how you bet against the spread.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The serious answer is that guilt would only be justified if you had originally committed to do something against your values and then backed out. But there the guilt is for not originally being true to your values, particularly if the team had no way of knowing your values.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Sarah Farnsworth 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What a thoughtful and insightful piece. Having gotten on the hamster wheel for awhile once in my life and having gotten off with great misgivings at the time, I have not wanted to get back on. I realized what I had missed, I thought being 'present' for the big events, showing up for the family get togethers or the college reunions or the school play was a sign of unselfishness and participation-- I was present and accounted for. But having taken time off, I took time to reflect, to experience the day to day with friends and families and realized when I move to the next world, it won't be the number of projects I won, or the brilliant memos I wrote that will matter. It will be whether I was a loving and supportive spouse, a present (both physically and mentally) and attentive parent and a reliable and caring friend. I thought my job defined me -- it is really my decision now whether or not it will.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;11 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; R T narendra 7 months ago in reply to Sarah Farnsworth&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How to measure your life is for everyone,not only MBA students. I connected with the article&lt;br /&gt;because as a HR professional I am touching lives. This is the metric,not dollars. In my HR class I have stressed the importance of purpose of life and meaning of life. I paid Rs 1200&lt;br /&gt;and bought HBR in Chennai only for this article. Thank you Professor! Regards, Narendra&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Emmanuel David 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An insightful piece of writing which has a soul and would live for many decades.&lt;br /&gt;The Purpose of Life is a discovery each one has to make for herself / himself.&lt;br /&gt;The real measure of success of such writings, is how much we are willing to take a real look at our selves honestly make that first step to Live our Lives Fully.&lt;br /&gt;A quote from John W Gardener on " Meaning" is very apt.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Meaning is not something you stumble across, like the answer to a riddle or the prize in a treasure hunt. Meaning is something you build into your life. You build it out of your own past, out of your affections and loyalties, out of the experience of humankind as it is passed on to you, out of your own talent and understanding, out of the things you believe in, out of the things and people you love, out of the values for which you are willing to sacrifice something. The ingredients are there. You are the only one who can put them together into that unique pattern that will be your life. Let it be a life that has dignity and meaning for you. If it does, then the particular balance of success or failure is of less account. John W. Gardner&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you Prof Christensen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Jim Volp 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks to my MBA studies I was able to read the whole article (through EBSCO). I really want to thank you as I think it's one of the most fundamental and contributing articles I've ever read as it helps to identify what is really most important in life. How strange it is that indeed the more ambitious people are, the more they tend to focus on what they later find to be the wrong thing... Fascinating! If there are more HBR articles like this... Is there any classification of relevant HBR (old) content that links with this article? Any crowdsourcing of personal favorites? Perhaps a suggestion? I think HBR could do a better job in more easily offering relevant (similar) articles (not too many clicks away!), don't you agree? All the best, Jim&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;11 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Kwesisena 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For me this a great article not only because of the truth it teaches, but also how it applied theory to our day to day life. All too often, we crave for higher education not because we want to become better people and help society, but in order to earn more money. I believe that true education is when what we learn in our great universities have direct impact on our own lives and the lives of others. Thank you Clayton.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But Clayton, tell me one thing, how does ones enviroment help shape these three important decisions you raised in this article? And how do we ensure that no matter the enviroment within which we find ourselves we will be able to make these choices?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Dragoslav 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;OK, this is my third and final attempt to post a comment even if my opinion is against the grain. This is kind of articles we've needed five years ago. It summarizes a lot of my thoughts about the general corporate culture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the other had i can't help noticing how such paradigm shifts occur AFTER an economic crisis. What i observe beyond this article is a tendency to educate people to focus on personal lives since growth and opportunities expected BEFORE the crisis will never materialize.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It reminds me of an anecdote where a journalist spoke in front of a crowd of Chinese students explaining the importance of ecology, recycling and being humble towards Mother Earth. And one of the students complained how that is being taught after the Western Civilization spent all the resources.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With a stretch i could say how banks and mismanagement caused the world economic crisis and we, the aspiring managers, should now explain to ourselves and our reports how to be humble and satisfied with what we've got.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for reading.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Ng Sok Eng 6 months ago in reply to Dragoslav&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I agree with your points. On further thoughts, I would say that this kind of wisdom has been there all along. We all know innately what should be the right way to live. Just that when the majority of the population choose to ignore it in their pursuit, the minority fell silent for the lack of an audience. Perhaps only when the time is right, when people may finally pause to listen and reflect, will we see such articles.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Clayton M. Christensen lived his whole life by his values. He didn't start 5 years ago.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;13 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Evie Taylor 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This carefully crafted outline of "How to Measure Success" transcends across culture and academic backgrounds. True wisdom from real experience. Thank you for sharing your enlightenment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Iz 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"But once you’ve finished at Harvard Business School or any other top academic institution, the vast majority of people you’ll interact with on a day-to-day basis may not be smarter than you."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Very humble indeed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; George Cloward 7 months ago in reply to Iz&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The article clearly advocated being open to leaning things from everyone. Interesting that this little snipe was the only comment he could share.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;afinanceguy and 8 more liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Chris 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Absolutely beautiful article by Clayton Christensen. Cuts through so much of the clutter and discusses issues of great importance to anyone seeking to integrate work with life--and maintain integrity relative to one's value system. That more of the academia would find ways to bridge some of the theory and practice that Clayton does with this insightful and thoughtful piece.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Ravindra Edirisooriya 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was a very interesting article! However, Professor Christensen has had a "captured" population of comments and some of them seem to agree either because they truly did not have a clue to begin with or they were politically or religiously motivated to say that it was great! What would be the response if we sent this article to the four corners of the world?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How Will You Measure Your Life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the distant past, I wonder if people thought of careers. Everybody did what they were good at (specialization of labor) and made a living out of the best skills they had. People improved their skills (materials and methods), invented new skills (Eureka moments!) and taught their skills (write a tablet!) to the next generation and hopefully it made them happy. Dose it not apply anymore?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the distant past, people were polygamous. They raised multiple families depending on how much they could provide for the offspring. Now people are locked into monogamous relationships by the society, perhaps a sign of a mature society. Now you hopefully love your spouse (after all the years of arguing or tolerance) and love your kids' upbringing and progress and love to see them become good citizens which should make you happy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is staying out of jail the only motivation to do no wrong? Being just within the law by the skin of your teeth could be as harmful to the society as you have broken the law (when you go to jail). I am pretty sure some of those financiers in Wall Street did it recently with grave consequences.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Greenlite 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the commentators, Pillai, really lambasts the author. I don't know much about the author but I do know that HBS (and corporate America) is all about money. But you don't expect them to blatantly say that, do you? Of course some good PR is in order - preach values, family, giving back, etc that most people already know about and practise in their lives. I also get what the guest said about the very first comment on this thread: "Dr. Warren seems to emphasize his status as a Cardiologist and his children’s Harvard degrees." It seems as if one has to highlight one's credentials as a "high achiever" to be part of the club and be taken seriously. Even the Hindu philosopher, Jiddu Krishnamurti, that Dr. Warren sanctifies (and justifiably so), lived and died in California. There are other Hindus (Deepak Chopra comes to mind) who preach the simple life but live in the oppulent West and reap all the material rewards. So, materialism isn't just a Western phenomenon. In fact, many Indians are more materialistic and status-conscious than their Western counterparts. All this preaching is meant for educated, affluent professionals. The millions of people trying to acquire a cell phone or TV or scooter in India and China will have no clue what this is all about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Clineco 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A man or woman is no more than what he or she is inside. Thank you for getting us to examine what is inside. You are asking us to set the thermostat of of our lives, not live by thermometers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am also glad that this article was written because it shows by all the comments that we are all yearning for something more than the name recognition, the big paycheck. And finally I am hoping that by all the comments the workplace can be transformed from the win at all cost mentality to a truly "spiritual" (not religious) space of collaboration and cooperation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Elizabeth Cline&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Atul Prabhakar 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;good article. Ironically, a man realizes the true meaning of his life only after the stark realization of its transcience. If more people follow the path of their heart rather than the crowd mentality of commercial success, the world would be different. Of course, they may have to tread a thorny path many a time without giving up on their goodness - that takes a lot&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Atul Prabhakar&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Ken 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A wonderful article and should made be free and be able to be read as many MBA students across the globe as possible. Its sad that most of us are good at setting strategies and tactics for organizations but yet often fail to do so in our very own lives. HBR please do make this article free, and perhaps future managers will stand better ethics and values&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Parthasarathy Madhu 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Prof Clayton,&lt;br /&gt;Very thoughtful one. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.&lt;br /&gt;I agree that 98% is lot tougher than 100% compliance and I can personally vouch for that.&lt;br /&gt;best regards,&lt;br /&gt;madhu&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;hannahnedrow and 4 more liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; sparkwisdom 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What a wonderful, peaceful, insightful article. To sum it all up, we should live our lives on purpose with purpose. Simply beautiful. Thank you HBR!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; MCKT 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great article. I value the knowledge I have gained through my MBA studies, but as someone once said, "What profits a man if he gains the whole world, but loses his soul?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;hannahnedrow and 4 more liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; FishieFishies 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you, Clayton Christensen, for reminding me once again why I will move heaven and earth to hear you speak anytime I have the opportunity. And thank you, HBR, for making the article free. Everyone: Retweet! Retweet!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Maxman 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One's Purpose In Life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;May I suggest that there are two Purposes in Life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1st - The Basic Purpose in Life that is common to us all, and established by a greater power than ourselves, which involves a search for eternal truth .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2nd - One's own Purpose in Life that is unique and common to one's talents, abilities, interests, priorities, beliefs and values; to be established by our our own introspection and agency.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know what the first truth is, for I have found it. It is profound, simple, grand, and glorious!&lt;br /&gt;However, rather than tell you what it is, I know that in order for you to find and recognize it, I must use the same teaching strategy Professor Christensen used in Silicon Valley, and let you find it for yourself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I will tell you, as the Professor did, how others found it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know of a group of military men who desired to know the truth. They prayed for guidance and enlightenment and went where they were led -- to various meetings, to books which they read, and they listed the things they felt would be required in finding the truth. They came up with a list of 17 items they all agreed would be necessary.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They separated after being discharged from the military, going their various ways and did not keep in touch, but each continued the search. They reunited years later, and to their surprise they had all found the same answer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My own case is much the same: prayer; searched where I was led to look; and acted upon the promptings I received -- I found the same Purpose in Life the veterans had found; however, I didn't learn of their search until after I had found the truth and entered into the same organization and circle of eternal love, friendship, and increase they now enjoy and celebrate!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So the answer is: Believe there is a higher power; prayerfully enlist that power to lead you in your search; TRUST the promptings that come to you, and follow them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Andy C. 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A worthwhile read, but even the wisest of counsel can be lost on fools.&lt;br /&gt;1. Living a life of integrity and staying out of jail are in no way equivalent. In fact, I wonder how many executives today tell themselves that because they are not doing anything illegal, they are living good lives. I think integrity comes from not hurting your fellow man/woman and not simply, not hurting them, but helping where you can. The way Prof CC formulates it here is akin to saying that the role of a doctor is to 'do no harm.' No, this is a guide, but it is not a doctor's purpose. Likewise, the purpose of an HBS grad -- whatever their vocation -- should not be to 'stay out of jail.' If it is, the bar is set disgracefully low.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. I like the point about being true to your beliefs in large matters and in small ones. When i went through orientation as a consulting analyst, I was shocked by the number of fellow consultants who cheated even when playing the a meaningless game (that was supposed to teach us basic concepts), even when the outcome of the game had no significance. If you're willing to cheat when the stakes are laughably low, how would I trust you not to cheat when they're is money, real money, on the line?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. I have to agree with Dragoslav about the modification in behavior after the economic crisis. I see the same thing in human beings. When their own life is hit with a major crisis (death, illness, divorce, job loss), they all of a sudden find religion and change their ways. I'm not saying Mr. Christensen has never thought this way, but the change in voice for many once-arrogant leaders is quite dramatic. That said, I'd rather it take a crisis to trigger a new behavior than to never have the new behavior at all. Human beings are fickle creatures.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Young 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Life is choice. The choice comes by you. We live just one time not two. Happiness is in you, but you know that happiness comes from outside of you because you never notice that you've born within happiness in this world. You can give your happiness for others who just forgot their happiness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Mohamed Saloudeen 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An excellent essay on values. But Prof. Clayton Christensen's view is uni-dimensional putting one-self (very American) at the center stage and where life's situations are either black or white or atleast the solutions are.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A very good counter-point to this view is presented by David Brooks in his Op-Ed in NY Times on August 2nd, 2010, where he posits the concept of Summoned Life against Prof. Christensen's concept of Well-planned life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mr. Brooks emphasises the context of life's situations and tries to find answers to questions like "what are these circumstances summoning me to do? what is needed in this place? what is the most useful social role before me?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For those who care to read the other point of view, you can follow the link given below:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.nytimes.com/2010/08...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;hannahnedrow and 3 more liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Tom Pilla 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I see little in the Christensen HBS article that any "commonsense bearing" person would&lt;br /&gt;not already know in overall content in the large sense.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rather, it struck me as "morally superficial."&lt;br /&gt;Despite the "topic," the style and content written contradicts what is actually being&lt;br /&gt;said. Kind of an "I know better than you" piece.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For example:&lt;br /&gt;The opening page about Andrew Grove, Chairman of Intel was&lt;br /&gt;1. Name dropping, and&lt;br /&gt;2. A poor example that was glib and difficult to understand.&lt;br /&gt;Here and throughout the article Christensen seems to be trying to use as many&lt;br /&gt;"Tech-speak" words in as possible, which really contradicts the “message.” In other words,&lt;br /&gt;if the thesis is that you are faulting the "business-only" mentality, don't undermine that approach with&lt;br /&gt;a lot of words dedicated to just that - "applied econometrics," "problems&lt;br /&gt;of autocorrolation in regression analysis," "marginal cost mistakes," etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some other thoughts:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Christensen inadvertently damns HBS and himself by mentioning that Jeffrey Skilling&lt;br /&gt;of Enron was a classmate of his - Skilling turning out to be one of the biggest swindlers&lt;br /&gt;of all time. Christensen says, "These were 'good guys'...but something sent them&lt;br /&gt;off in the wrong direction." ???? That is quite an understatement. And what institution&lt;br /&gt;taught them?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;More “insight” from Christensen:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Growing in responsibility increases self-esteem. Feeling underappreciated&lt;br /&gt;and demeaned lowers self esteem." In turn those feelings affect ability to&lt;br /&gt;parent. Really?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Management is the most noble of professions...because no other occupation&lt;br /&gt;offers as many ways to help others learn and grow...etc." Is he kidding,&lt;br /&gt;or does he have his head in a bowl?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"HBS draws 900 students a year from the world’s best." The world's best&lt;br /&gt;what? Not egalitarians, surely. No wonder he goes on to say that so many&lt;br /&gt;of them have a life "strategy" that consists almost exclusively of making&lt;br /&gt;money.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then we learn that this "self-actualized man" was a Rhodes Scholar in a&lt;br /&gt;very demanding program which meant cramming an extra year's work into his&lt;br /&gt;time at Oxford. That's all! Mr Humble.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He spent every night "reading, thinking and praying" about "why God put me&lt;br /&gt;on this earth." Did he figure out "the Meaning of Life" at the same time?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am all for God, but this guy uses religion exactly like the religious&lt;br /&gt;right does - to justify his own opinions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He advises, "Take the time to figure out life's purpose"??? Again, is he&lt;br /&gt;kidding?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And: "The problems of life are the same as the problems of a corporation."&lt;br /&gt;What a nice tidy package – correlates so easily.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I could go on and on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But that last example about not playing in his undefeated basketball team's&lt;br /&gt;championship game (he even tells us he was the center - the most important&lt;br /&gt;guy on the team) because he was deeply religious??? He screwed his&lt;br /&gt;teammates in the name of God? Don't join a team if you don't want to run&lt;br /&gt;the race to the finish. How can he possibly justify his actions.&lt;br /&gt;That's the example he gives for "holding to your principles."??? This guy&lt;br /&gt;fails Logic and Reason 101.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think Christ would have said, "Go play your ass off and do everything you&lt;br /&gt;can to help your teammates."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;His words on Humility lack sincerity -are banal at best – devoid of insight.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And "God judges our lives by metrics."?? Does this guy ever get off his&lt;br /&gt;Harvard Business School high horse?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(By the way, are you aware that HBS is the single most profitable piece of&lt;br /&gt;Harvard? It is the golden goose - whose end justifies the means. Harvard&lt;br /&gt;Business School generates about $60 Million dollars per year income to Harvard.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Christensen is incredibly self-righteous.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Webster: Convinced of one's own righteousness especially&lt;br /&gt;in contrast with the actions and beliefs of others: narrow-mindedly moralistic.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Christensen reads more like a demagogue than a humanist.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;EXACTLY what is the "raison d'etre" of Harvard Business School:&lt;br /&gt;Materialism conveniently wrapped in bogus idealism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a treatise on the pseudo justification of Christensen’s job. Nothing more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; George Sutton 3 months ago in reply to Tom Pilla&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But what about the author's ideas? How do your thoughts on the same subject relate? I especially appreciate Mr. Christensen's insights from his own personal life experiences. He dares to put his own life "on the line", opening up some very precious and personal experiences, putting them out there for us all to consider - or to criticize. For me, that's the mark of a very good and honest man.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Piiparin 5 months ago in reply to Tom Pilla&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You missed the boat, Mr. Pilla. Mr. Christensen is right on the mark.--Garry Piiparinen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Meghan Ennes, HBR.org  6 months ago in reply to Tom Pilla&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Mr. Pilla,&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for your comments -- it's always a treat to hear an alternate point of view. Although as comment moderator for this forum, I have to remind you to please limit your criticisms to the ideas expressed in the article, rather than the author himself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks, and keep reading,&lt;br /&gt;Meghan&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; adsrinivasan 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sir&lt;br /&gt;Excellent one indeed. Having been through one such tough incident in my life, I can say that ur article is very nice. I was like what every one wishes to be. I wanted sucess without humility. But one particular incident threw me out into deep waters. At that time i read Rickwarren's "Purposse driven life" which changed my focus. Now i am happy and very much peaceful, the peace which no million dollers can provide. The confidence that Jesus is there for me and no degree can give that confidence to face the problem&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;hannahnedrow and 2 more liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Pete Dennis 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Without doubt this article brought a renewed perspective to my professional and personal life. Everyday we all deal with individual problems and sometimes this transcends to helping others deal with theirs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My passion is seeing the job get done to the best standards possible and after reading then re-reading this article it fully dawned on me that what I thrive on most is seeing others succeed, ideas come together as a collective enterprise and seeing the pleasure of this radiate from my teams.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Without doubt I will be re-visiting this again and again, to remind me what I now know my own meaning of life is, my "4 F's" - my faith, my family, my fitness and having fun across everything I do&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; kunal 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Really thanks a million for this article again&lt;br /&gt;"Money is not everything' and this could be one example to enlighten human thinking&lt;br /&gt;the article is master piece as i liked the most was the 1 hour session for individual every day which everyone should practice once in the life time (give yourself time) and the another is "marginal benefit" this could be the main reason people are unable to quit smoking or drug all the bad habits each and every word can be put into practice for a better life as you can see most richest man are not the most happiest man in earth work for mankind work for your family&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Tom Pilla 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is little in Christensen’s HBS article that any thinking person&lt;br /&gt;Would not already know in overall content in the large sense.&lt;br /&gt;Rather, this piece reflects morally superficiality.&lt;br /&gt;The style of the piece contradicts what is actually being said.&lt;br /&gt;For example:&lt;br /&gt;The opening page about Andrew Grove, Chairman of Intel was&lt;br /&gt;1. Name dropping, and&lt;br /&gt;2. A poor example that was difficult to understand as relates to the rest.&lt;br /&gt;In that and throughout the article Christensen seemed to be trying to get in&lt;br /&gt;as many "Tech-speak" words as possible. If the thesis is that you are&lt;br /&gt;faulting the "business-only" mentality, don't undermine that approach with&lt;br /&gt;a lot of words dedicated to just that - "applied econometrics," "problems&lt;br /&gt;of autocorrolation in regression analysis," "marginal cost mistakes," etc.&lt;br /&gt;Some other thoughts:&lt;br /&gt;Christensen uses a poor choice by mentioning that Jeffrey Skilling of&lt;br /&gt;Enron was a classmate of his - Skilling being one of the most notorious swindlers&lt;br /&gt;of all time. Christensen says, "These were 'good guys'...but something sent them&lt;br /&gt;off in the wrong direction." That is quite an understatement. And an equivocation.&lt;br /&gt;Is this insight?:&lt;br /&gt;A. "Growing in responsibility increases self-esteem. Feeling underappreciated&lt;br /&gt;and demeaned lowers self esteem... in turn those feelings affect ability to&lt;br /&gt;parent.”&lt;br /&gt;B. "Management is the most noble of professions...because no other occupation&lt;br /&gt;offers as many ways to help others learn and grow...etc." Many would question that statement.&lt;br /&gt;C. "HBS draws 900 students a year from the worlds best." The world's best&lt;br /&gt;what exactly? Not egalitarians, surely. It is no wonder he goes on to say that so many&lt;br /&gt;of them have a life "strategy" that consists almost exclusively of making money.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Christensen was a Rhodes Scholar in a “very demanding program which meant cramming an extra year's work into his time at Oxford.” Humility?&lt;br /&gt;He spent every night "reading, thinking and praying" about "why God put me&lt;br /&gt;on this earth." If he can figure this question out, he is the first.&lt;br /&gt;Christensen uses religion to justify his statements.&lt;br /&gt;He advises, "Take the time to figure out life's purpose.” Is that possible?&lt;br /&gt;And: "The problems of life are the same as the problems of a corporation."&lt;br /&gt;In Christensen’s opinion alone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That last example about not playing in his undefeated basketball team's&lt;br /&gt;championship game (he even tells us he was the center - the most important&lt;br /&gt;position on the team) because he was deeply religious. He sacrificed all that his&lt;br /&gt;teammates worked for in the name of God? Ecclesiastes: “Run the Race to the Finish.&lt;br /&gt;That's the example Christensen gives for "holding to your principles." A failure of&lt;br /&gt;“Logic and Reason 101.”&lt;br /&gt;Christ would have said, "Go and do everything you&lt;br /&gt;can to help your teammates."&lt;br /&gt;Christensen’s words on Humility are banal and lacking any insight.&lt;br /&gt;"God judges our lives by metrics.” Doubtful.&lt;br /&gt;Christensen is narrow-mindedly moralistic.&lt;br /&gt;He reads more like a cultist than a humanist.&lt;br /&gt;Harvard Business School generates approximately $60 Million dollars per year in income.&lt;br /&gt;Therefore, exactly what IS the "raison d'etre" of Harvard Business School?&lt;br /&gt;Is Christensen trying to muddy the water?&lt;br /&gt;What insight does he offer that thinking people have not countenanced for years?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Harold 1 month ago in reply to Tom Pilla&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You let me know what your perspective on life is after you have a bout with cancer and wash it down with a stroke cocktail. If so many "thinking people" already know this is, why do so few actually practice it or should I say live it. Life is short, hug your kids, kiss your wife and stop over analyzing a commencement speech given to a group of college kids about to graduate from one of the most prestigious business schools in the world. You write your own speech when you figured out your purpose in life. Until then I will gladly read and enjoy Clay's.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Cliff 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are no "sure" answers in an imperfect world poulated by imperfect people, but faith, family, friends, education (including travel, reading, experience, etc.), challenging and meaningful work and serving others are among the most likely and meaningful methods to measure one's life. Balance sounds good doesn't it? But often it is focus which brings recognition. Some of us prefer to live a balanced life, others, one of focus. Would we have ever heard of Jimi Hendrix or Vince Lombardi had they not been so focused and led otherwise imbalanced lives? Would we, or they, have wanted it different? No sure answers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Maxim Basilad 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is such a beautidul article. A brave dissertation on what is truly the essence of life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Dragoslav 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The article is truly great and confirms what i've been reading in more "esoteric" works on corporate culture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the other hand and with all due respect, i can't help noticing how such paradigm shifts occur AFTER an economic crisis. What i observe beyond this article is a tendency to educate people to focus on personal lives since growth and opportunities expected BEFORE the crisis will never materialize.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It reminds me of an anecdote where a journalist spoke in front of a crowd of Chinese students explaining the importance of ecology, recycling and being humble towards Mother Earth. And one of the students complained how that is being taught after the Western Civilization spent all the resources.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With a stretch i could say how banks and mismanagement caused the world economic crisis and we, the aspiring managers, should now explain to ourselves and our reports how to be humble and satisfied with what we've got.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for reading.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Hiroo Teraichi 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is very important 'how can I be sure I’ll stay out of jail?'.&lt;br /&gt;In the case of Japan, many retired high-ranking bureaucrat make money off the crime 'Amakudari'. They move to private company, and they get the jobs (contracts) from the government office in where they used to work.&lt;br /&gt;The lessons 'how can I be sure I’ll stay out of jail?' must be mandatory in any schools.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Learn Accounting 7 months ago in reply to Hiroo Teraichi&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hiroo,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This happens in most countries. Not just Japan!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Milan Kc 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;wow ! everyone should read this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Susan_ott 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This article is a phemonemal insightful piece. It is so imperative to life today and how greatly this type of self-reflection is needed. The article has key points that are so connected to my life. Everyday I ask myself and have for the past year, what I can do today to be a successful partner in my relationship? Literally, everyday I think this. Having a strategy for these things means you are inputting effort and energy that will produce successful results and happiness. The article is just beautiful and thank you for writing this as to educate all on how to be a successful person that we can measure in more than earnings or net worth. bravo!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Prasad Kaipa 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you very much for sharing some of your authentic dilemmas and allowing readers to dig into their own authenticity as well. As I read your article, i remembered principles my spiritual teacher talks about -- Refection on what is meaningful as a source for guiding action, practicing what I am preaching so that I have authority and credibility to advice others (i am a teacher and coach myself), being part of a community that focuses on things that are meaningful over longer time -- in that respect more strategic than tangible and finally allowing myself to let go of the feeling that I am the one who made myself successful and give credit to others on my team (family, work team, community and spiritual guidance).&lt;br /&gt;thank for sharing yourself and my prayers are with your continued recovery&lt;br /&gt;Prasad Kaipa&lt;br /&gt;Kaipagroup.com&lt;br /&gt;Indian School of Business&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; DeepakAlse 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A Classic.. My comments are extensive and cant fit this box-http://exploreamaze.wordpr.../&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Narasimhan40 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dr P L Narasimhan&lt;br /&gt;Excellent and thought provoking.The need of the hour is the inbuilt mental strength for right purpose to lead a fullfilled life.The incident about "Break the rule just this one time" is touching.It require enormous mental strength to stand up to one' conviction.&lt;br /&gt;My appreaction to Dr Clayton M Christensen for sharing his thougts.&lt;br /&gt;narasimhan&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Ozlem Tekay 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you Clayton for reminding us in such a brilliant and clear way that life is multidimentional; and for bringing sense to it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Jason (HeeLye) Park 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you, Prof Christensen, for providing a dose of sense into my life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Madhukar Tanna 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Author has touched upon very fundamental issued involved in our day to day professional and personal lives. Barring his references about God and Faith...rest of the matter is very convincing and useful&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Jayaram Krishnan Parlikad 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dr. Christensen's article in HBR is refreshingly great. Congratulations to HBR thug giving importance for Human Values. End of Education is Character. (not knowledge storage!!).&lt;br /&gt;Politics without Principles&lt;br /&gt;Education without Character&lt;br /&gt;Science without Humaniy&lt;br /&gt;Business without Morality&lt;br /&gt;are NOT ONLY USELESS but ALSO dangerous!!!&lt;br /&gt;I wish true education in great institutions like HBS re-orient themselves soon.Dr. Christensen has through his article opened up a new path. I wish the new graduates from HBR soon be a better lot who will not chase money but will serve the humanity better! Parlikad K Jayaram&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Tom Pilla 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have never read more bull than on your site&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Emmanuel Matuco 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A very moving article Prof. Christensen. Respectfully allow me to express my gratitude by sharing a story also.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;About 800 years ago, in ancient Japan there lived a samurai who, by the medical standards of his time, is a skilled physician, and by his martial exploits, a master swordsman. Owner of the skills of life and death. However, it was not these attributes that made his life a “lighthouse” to me. It was the principles he struggled and fought for and how he served the mentors and loved ones he treasured. (Sincere apologies for the lengthy comment. It won't always be like this).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of these struggles began when his Lord, upon the machinations of their enemies, was influenced to force his retainer to choose between his fief or… his faith. Fatal. Without one’s faith, can one still live with honor and dignity? Without a fief, how would he feed his family? A life of begging awaits them. A crucible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Out of the night that covers me&lt;br /&gt;Black as the pit from pole to pole..”(1)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He chooses faith…., thus they went down that dark, dark blackness of hardship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“I thank whatever Gods maybe,&lt;br /&gt;For my unconquerable soul.”(1)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a family man myself, I can only imagine the depths of his lament…“What would happen to us now, …I have failed my wife and our beloved children.” Yet… he didn’t complain. Nor sought survival by being a ronin. Karma is karma.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“In the fell clutch of circumstance&lt;br /&gt;I have not winced nor cried aloud&lt;br /&gt;Under the bludgeonings of chance&lt;br /&gt;My head is bloody but unbowed.”(1)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Really what is true hell or heaven in this life?” Seeing him in what seems to be a pitiful state, his friends, and his religious mentor petitioned his Lord for forgiveness. “Who is nobler? The one who forgives; the one who suffers by upholding one’s principles; or those who suffer for others?”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Beyond this place of wrath and tears&lt;br /&gt;Looms but the horror of the shade..”(1)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One day his Lord became sick. Very sick. Death was inevitable perhaps. Summoned, reportedly he rushed to his mentor’s side. With a heart devoid of bitterness, he sincerely offered his services. Perhaps, despite the hardships they’ve embraced, he and his family choose to remember only all his master goodness. Duty. “Giri”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In today’s society, do let’s explore the moral meaning of rationality. “Isn’t this Lord, the root of all his suffering? Why not just let him die? Death comes to us all anyway. More than that, surely he must realize that should his Lord die under his care, his death may even be blamed on him!” “No!” He served his sick Lord perseveringly. Perhaps if he did fail, he too would have wanted to die by his lord’s side. Loyalty. Honor. Skills and the Arts. All these reach their heights when they serve eternal values.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“And yet the menace of the years,&lt;br /&gt;Finds, and shall find me unafraid.”(1)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“What constitutes a fulfilling life? What is true happiness? Is it found in some lofty realm of intellectual utopia; in the comfort of one’s fief; or victory in bloody combat?” In this samurai’s life, he found it by nourishing the bond between mentor and disciple; between comrades and family. He found it by repaying debts of gratitude.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happiness is a life condition, a choice, not a mere event between bouts of sorrows. After a prolonged struggle, his mentor recovered. They restored their bond and it endured forever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The choices he made; the suffering and lament; the renewal, all grand testaments to the nobility of the human spirit. He is Shijo Kingo.…. Shijo Nakatsukasa Saburo Saemon-no-jo Yoritomo. The swordsman and doctor who embraced his fate using compassion to defeat the hate; for above all, he is Nichiren Daishonin’s disciple.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“It matters not how strait the gate,&lt;br /&gt;How charged with punishments the scroll,&lt;br /&gt;I am the master of my fate:&lt;br /&gt;I am the captain of my soul.”(1)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(1)from the poem “Invictus” written by William Ernest Henley (1849-1903).Wikipedia.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Namita Tiwari 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wow. This is the most insightful writing on the way to real happiness in life... which is through contentment. We are content only when we are at peace... and we can be at peace only when we have clarity of purpose, direction and drive ourselves towards it... with faith in ourselves... and belief in our principles... with the knowledge that we will be successful... in adding meaning to life... our own and that of others.&lt;br /&gt;if we work with this clarity... life would be blissful.&lt;br /&gt;and we must always remember... that each time someone puts us down... we must see it as an acknowledgment of our superiority over them... as no one wastes time over anything insignificant. So... at such times... be humble... and smile graciously... after all... you are getting a compliment.&lt;br /&gt;Thank you for an affirmation of my thinking.&lt;br /&gt;I think this article would impact the lives of many... many more than you can imagine.&lt;br /&gt;Thank you for this article... a real eye opener.&lt;br /&gt;Happy Living.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; shuvo 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great article. thanks you sir!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Shashi Sigdel 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No wonder, it's a phenomenal article with a moving wisdom. I thank the professor for sharing his wisdom. I believe that life is far easier when viewed in retrospection, rather than in prospective approach. It's a wonder that the professor was convicted to moral standards early from the beginning and he was always on to it. The gist of this article is clear " people run too fast over the materialistic world to be happy until they realize that happiness is an an metaphysical component as well, that encompasses humility, love, virtue and endurance"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Daniel Theobald 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For those who enjoyed this article, you might also consider reading "Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl. Viktor was a concentration camp survivor and his experience led him to some useful insights on life and purpose.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Modern business seems to destroy lives and societies at an alarming rate. In many ways it is an invisible problem since the cumulative effect often isn't obvious until it is too late. Any economy based on greed as its driving principal is doomed to eventual collapse. If we don't build individuals and businesses that put the goal of creating a better society above individual greed, I fear for the future of our country and world. I applaud Clay and HBS for recognizing this and working to reverse the trend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Clay sits on the Board of Advisors at Vecna Technologies, and his insights have helped us to build a company based on real values that stand the test of time and help to make the world a better place for everyone. Thank you Clay for sharing your time, experiences and insights with the rest of us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; lightyears 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I will NOT measure my life by working for Corporate America. I am convinced the memes of Corporate America are by far the most dangerous memes in our society. They take you down. They crush your spirit. Its bad for your health to be a part of this. So glad I left...&lt;br /&gt;(Edited by a moderator)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Jim John 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I dont read much books nor good writer of my thoughts. But this time, I cant stop myself penning down few letters. When I read frontiers of management, Built to last, Business@Speed of thought etc, I thought I was growing my knowledge base some where. After reading this article, I felt, this is at a level beyond any frontiers, beyond any speed, and beyond any type of build. The greatness of humility woven with purpose of life sans the tangible assets, nothing can beat it. Prof Clayton you proved, quite a good majority of the silent readers, there exists greatest reward of all. If happiness in Family, kids and friends can be measured, you will be at the highest. You got lots of good friends. Count me in, though profile wise i might be lowest.&lt;br /&gt;Thanks Again for the great article&lt;br /&gt;Jim John&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Manuel Infante 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Excelente artículo!!... reflexiona sobre lo importante que, en la vida de las personas, es priorizar lo INTERIOR a lo EXTERIOR.&lt;br /&gt;Soy Coach Personal y Organizacional y trabajo en desarrollar talentos en las personas. Lo más apasionante es descubrir (y re-descubrir) que lo TRASCENDENTE está más allá de tener dinero suficiente para vivir 'bien'.&lt;br /&gt;El dinero ayuda; pero no es suficiente para ser felices.&lt;br /&gt;Que un profesor de Harvard haga estas reflexiones me hace pensar que la crisis dejó enseñanzas en muchas personas en USA.&lt;br /&gt;Felicitaciones al profesor Clayton!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Manuel Infante Arata&lt;br /&gt;Coach Personal y Organizacional&lt;br /&gt;minfante@transformaccion.com.pe&lt;br /&gt;www.transformaccion.com.pe&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Adityakawatra 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A good article that applies to any young person trying to build a professional and personal/familial foundation..a good manager is one who can successfully manage his own life to begin with. It is though very difficult to ensure that finally you can answer these three questions with conviction. For one, you could start out doing something that you think makes you happy, but you could be hit by external shocks, priority changes with age, loss of interest or zest with time etc. I suppose you need to re-evaluate yourself every year or so on the question of work bringing happiness..&lt;br /&gt;The second question is so much dependent on the spouse because, literally speaking, it takes two to tango in any relationship. You cannot guarantee that your spouse will work as hard you do towards building a positive and fruitful life together, even though you might think you are giving your best in the relationship and transforming it into an asset. How can you be sure of something that is outside your own control? Sometimes you cannot be in control of your own actions (in times of extreme stress or excitement for example), how can you be surer for someone else's?&lt;br /&gt;The third questions boil down to ethics..and I really don't think as many people have been punished with jail time as should be. Many CEOs and business leaders do still look at the easy (which is usually the wrong) way out in times of distress or even simply out of greed for personal wealth; in a few cases they are caught, in fewer they are convicted, many go scot-free. I am not making a case for the futility of business/professional ethics, I am just saying that our society is not able to make a good example of punishing those with malicious intentions..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; pfreet 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a brilliant and moving article. And it has really touched a nerve. I need to absolutely rethink how my day-to-day decisions affect my family. Thank you for this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I am troubled by one thing - the comparison between "breaking the law" and "playing basketball on Sunday". One is clearly an illegal, and harmful act. The other is playing a game and supporting the "best friends I’ve ever had in my life". I find it absurd to equate the two. You are either trivializing lawbreaking, or have a belief system that I simply cannot fathom. Please help me to understand how this is rational.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Aloysius Miller 6 months ago in reply to pfreet&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The comparison is very apt. Make personal decisions about your principles and have the integrity to be true to them. It could mean that you won't smoke cigarettes, (legal) drink alcohol (legal) or seduce teenagers (illegal). It is the best way to live a life: by your own God informed scorecard, not the scorecard of society.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Guest 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"I taught him how to think"?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Dr.Krishnaja A.P. 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I came across this article - thanks to Priya Vaidya. An insightful article, beautifully stated, a must read for all hard core professionals, young and old alike. I had always believed in the fact that relationships are the most important thing in life and the best gift one human being can give another is his / her time. Raising children into responsible sensitive individuls is at times more important than writing one more research paper, which may be of obituary value. Ultimately what matters is the lives you have touched. Humilty and great self esteem go together. Arrogant behaviour is truly a lack of self esteem. Thanks Dr. Christensen for such a thought provoking article.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Jim Volp 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TED has a few good talks on this very topic too:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rick Warren on a life of purpose:&lt;br /&gt;http://www.ted.com/talks/rick_...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jeff Bezos on What matters more than your talents:&lt;br /&gt;http://www.ted.com/talks/jeff_...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Enjoy!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;greetings from Azerbaijan,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jim Volp&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;afinanceguy liked this Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Jack 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a wonderful article, and there are very important (and often overlooked) principles regarding life philosophy and behavior. However, in the interest of critical discussion on this article (rather than unconditional, effusive praise), I have to ask how the professor reconciles his decision to sit out of the championship basketball game with his notion of valuing "his impacts on others' lives and his relationships." His motivation for sitting out of the game, while based on religious piety, is an inherently selfish decision. What about how his teammates felt about his decision? What about their sense of disappointment? I find it peculiar that there is no mention of the result of the game...I presume that Prof. Christensen was a leader on the team, the low-post presence, and that his decision, while grounded in his own personal values and morality, nevertheless is an act of a leader choosing not to lead in a critical moment where his leadership is most necessary. We cannot ignore the inherent paradox of Prof. Christensen's message that even nobility and principled, individual focus can be beneficial to the self while ultimately detrimental to the group.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; James 7 months ago in reply to Jack&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The team won without him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In his own words of self-effacing humor, "It showed I wasn't that important after all"---he says with a big grin when recounting this story to students.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Far from being an example of selfishness, this basketball story illustrates his point well. He argues we must stand our ground on moral principles or convictions in the face of social pressure or opportunities for personal gain. He had volunteered to play on the team---but no one had thought ahead to the championship game given the slim likelihood of the team qualifying. It's the same in life---we can't always foresee what choices we will have to make; but we can decide early on what principles we will stand on, and then have backbone enough to live them 100% of the time. Would that Jeff Skilling et al had such principles and backbone!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;15 people liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Den 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many a times in life, we do not learn until we reach our very last days, unfortunately. Brilliant words of wisdom!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Andydg5 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;amazing and a very insightful reading especially to young professionals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Ravi Mehta 7 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;excellent article and very apt in today's world where young professionals out of B Schools are only weary about the hefty pay packages. Really gives an insight to somebody if read and understood early in life and can make an impact.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 person liked this. Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Anzdlie 3 weeks ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I will measure my life by how many lives I am able to fit into it. Over the past four years, I've gone from being a consultant with an office overlooking the Eiffle Tower in Paris to bartending in Hollywood to being a Southern stay-at-home mom and spiritual teacher. Humility makes you a ninja. If you have no ego to bump up against, you are free to move about your world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; vina melody 1 month ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great article I read few months ago and popped out at the first day of this year. It's also inspiring since I'm just an ordinary new grad. God heals Prof. Clayton.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Mittal 2 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the last para, your "recommendation" undoes the gem of wisdom in the immediately preceding sentence!!&lt;br /&gt;[Don’t worry about the level of individual prominence you have achieved; worry about the individuals you have helped become better people. This is my final recommendation: Think about the metric by which your life will be judged, and make a resolution to live every day so that in the end, your life will be judged a success.]&lt;br /&gt;“JUDGING”??? Who is going to do the judging? Other people? World-at-large? The concept we call God? Other people and world at large, the majority of them, already have a wrong metric, precisely the one we are trying to discard. Moreover, are we to make our actions get driven by our constant concern with “judgments” by agents external to ourselves. And scoring well on that judgment—isn’t that precisely not an synonym for “prominence.” (The locus of prominence is judgment by others. )&lt;br /&gt;Shouldn't "how many lives we have improved" (hereafter HMLWHI) be in itself an intrinsic source of infinite joy and inner content, and using our own internal template (assuming it is an enlightened template, which it would be if we will have embraced the wisdom of HMLWHI), shouldn’t that internal template be the only measure of personal success.&lt;br /&gt;Respectfully yours,&lt;br /&gt;Banwari Mittal, Ph.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Ss 3 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Greed is Good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Palan 4 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I understand from HBR Chris's article is free to download until end of this month, how do I get to it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Lu 4 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I agreed wuth the point "Remember the Importance of Humility ", every time we should be ready to learn from other people who is smarter or not than us. In my country, there is a proverb "There must be my teacher among three people."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Navodita upadhyay 4 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am from Nepal studying MBA and being a student of MBA this article has definitely helped me. But I am surprise from Professor Christensen because he himself has opened his life as a book and explain his students about management theories. I am totally stunned because in my entire life I have never seen such dedicated professor who teaches about management but more than management he have taught how to live a perfect life.&lt;br /&gt;Navodita Upadhyay&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Gokulnaik 4 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nice article with a great purpose. Need wide publication and must read for gen X. who are more materialistic and mad with the race of money and fame.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Tom Haupt 4 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good article and insights. Never expected this context from the HBR. If more people earlier in life took time to to be reflective about the "why" of their life, we'd have less unhappy people.&lt;br /&gt;I am a facilitator of personal development seminars around the world and it's usually in my weekend seminars that people take a time out and give themselves permission to dream again and to understand their purpose in life. I've always thought 'all business development is personal' anyway.&lt;br /&gt;I believe through the thousands of people I've met, when one is whole, healthy and complete in body, mind and spirit, there is no ego. As such, they can go out into the business world and be better people, managers, executives and leaders.&lt;br /&gt;Continued success in your endeavors in life! Tom Haupt&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; B_informatics_vp 4 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is almost embarrassing and confirms my belief that HBR is moving in the direction of People Magazine..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First, Christensen recounts his role in with Celeron processor strategy. I don't believe this story could be true since Intel's strategy from the early 1980's has been to undercut the original RISC chips (e.g., MIPS) with the successfully more powerful 8086, 80286, 80386, 80486, Pentium. The Celeron processor strategy follows this general strategy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Second, Christensen recounts a story about his principles and playing basketball on Sunday. This is just Hank Greenberg not playing during the Detroit Tiger's pennant run and Sandy Koufax not pitching game 1 of the World Series because it fell on Yom Kippur.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I can summarize the entire article as the Golden Rule: Treat others as you would like to be treated.&lt;br /&gt;In the end, the&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Chicago Professional 4 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I enjoyed the article. I was hoping for more of a methodical way to measure life than the narrative path this article took. It rings the commonly heard "do what makes you happy" phrase along with being honest and money isn't the measure of happiness. This article more supported my values than challenging them and forcing me to refine my approach to life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is reassuring that I'm not missing a big piece in my pursuit of happiness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In regards to the final recommendation: "Think about the metric by which your life will be judged, and make a resolution to live every day so that in the end, your life will be judged a success." Mine is asking myself what I did to advance renewable energy from a regional alternative to a global standard.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Avthamburaj 5 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well written, sure to be appreciated by those in twilight years&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Josh Pctech Twin 5 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This was really long but worth every minute spent reading it&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Dan F 5 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Poignant article. Nice one Clay. As we're all invincible in our youth, the notion of a more meaningful purpose may not take the highest priority. Has anyone had success instilling the perspective that we get later (say late 30's, 40's or later) to those in the early stages of his/her career?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Laura Mrmak 5 months ago in reply to Dan F&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good question Dan, but keep in mind not all youth are lacking perspective for want of trying (depending on what you are meaning specifically by perspective). Even as a 27-year-old, I have always asked the big questions, but that doesn't necessarily mean I will ever be able to answer them all..... The thing is, I don't mind not having the answers. Once people come up with the 'answers', it seems they become closed-minded to other possibilities, and I'd rather not go that route! It seems to me if Einstein didn't have all the answers, I'll just enjoy the investigational journey. I like the saying, "A stupid person feels they know everything there is to know; a smart person feels they know nothing."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; P chandrasekhar 5 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;it is really inspiring. it is true that money is not everything in life. willingness to learn is very important. it has taught me great lesson in my life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;p chandrasekhar&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; ama agyemang-duah 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This has been very insightful. Most lessons in life can be related to a lot of principles and algorithms in academics. Sadly some of us tend to dissociate our professional lives from our personal friendships or marriages. Though its subjective, i think marginally if you tend to fail in your friendships/ marriages then you have to review your management notes again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Satishraju T 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Very Enlightening Lecture..A lot to learn for Especially B-School Grads,Whose Achievement is blindly calculated by their Starting Packages @Placements.Thank You Prof. Christensen for your Valuable insights.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Hetal 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is nice to have smart and capable friends. It is also important to be able to deal with people of all ages, religions and races, at least here in the US. Sometimes other people manage you, and sometimes you manage others. This applies to personal relationships too. It is good to have a list of personal goals. It is great if you have people who want to help you achieve your personal goals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Saira Samee 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great post.It is eventually the number and quality of lives one ends up upgrading in the positive way that would count for a truly fulfilled and successful life.However the journey must go through 4 integrated and dynamic bases of human existence:&lt;br /&gt;1.Developing an optimal mindset out of universal values 2.Taking consistent action that brings you to your wholeness 3.Communicating your message with authenticity 4.Persevering with Patience.This is a holistic model of self empowerment- WALASR takes mankind from success to significance swapping the minutes of our lives with true profit spending life otherwise results in loss and unfulfilment&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; JesseG 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Professor Christensen, thank you for a great and inspiring article. Given the amount of time many of us spend at work and focused on the work-related challenges in our immediate view, it's really easy to lose perspective.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The following line in your conclusion resonated most with me: "worry about the individuals you have helped become better people." Applied to the workplace, two themes from the article stand out: culture and recognition.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think that delivering on this promise means creating an open culture where people feel comfortable sharing ideas and feedback with each other - including across hierarchical boundaries. It also means creating an environment in which recognition is a priority - financial incentives play a role, but more important is helping one's colleagues achieve their goals and feel appreciated for so doing. In my opinion, that's one of the most noble and fulfilling aspects of management.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(Edited by a moderator)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Phetogo 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Very good article and coments,I just have been going through the same thing,where you have just grown up with nothing now you went to vasity and working now,but you still find that same feeling you had when you were at the townships with nothing,a feeling of there has to be more to life.In south africa there is a lot of perception about hapiness.some people think just going to church will make you happy,or going to school,getting married but they are not.There are a lot of things that can make people happy the problem is when we follow certain groups or people who think they know how to be happy,or follow trends.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On a daily basis now I do what I want to do,I am 24 years old,I go to galleries,I read a lot,I drink sometimes but people around me want me to do what they do,some question why I dont go to church and still happy while they do and they are not happy,All I know is I am happy because I do me ,people should be themselves,stop following,you sometimes follow someone who does not know where they are going&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Ben 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;May the joy of the Lord be your strength. Thank you for your thoughtful, even pastoral guidance. The wisdom of your years and spirit shines clearly with humility.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Guest 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First, Great article Mr. Clayton. It reminds me of a saying from one of my professors "Education Nourishes Culture". In my view everything is interlinked.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; cherie 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We can survive, be successful or be significant.....choose&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Lisa Breytspraak 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love this... and the David Brooks follow up. I love the questions Christensen poses but have to agree with Brooks that some of the answers can only come through more life experience than most MBA grads will have!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wrote a blog on this here ...&lt;br /&gt;http://www.lisabreytspraak.com...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Lena 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear professor, thank you for the great article.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Wes Balda 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This article was an arresting moment - so much so that I had to explore the implications: http://managing-turbulence.org.../&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This dialogue should continue...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Sharon Zeilstra 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Purpose is perhaps the single most critical thing to understand about yourself. Alas, it is often discerned very late in our journey. And every person has their own unique journey, which is cumulative. I firmly believe that some of us learn our Purpose later in life for a reason. And that our Purpose is innate, not determined by us but simply discovered by us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you HBR for making this available to non-subscribers. Thanks most of all to Professor Christensen for sharing his wisdom, insight and common sense! And good luck to all who have grown from reading this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Rohit Bhat 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for posting such a wonderful article&lt;br /&gt;Regards&lt;br /&gt;Rohit Bhat&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Derek Capo 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I really enjoyed this article. There is someone else out there talks about mental models and being able to train your brain to use them when situations come up and being able to adapt to certain situations so that you don't have to question something or ask for someone's advice. Read up on Charlie Munger, Vice Chairman of Berkshire Hathaway.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Derek Capo 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I really like this article but there is a guy who talked about mental models his name was Charlie Munger, I am sure this and Munger's are a compilation of many influences to get to their final idea. Nevertheless, the essay was awesome!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Derek Capo&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Derek Capo 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I really like this article but there is a guy who talked about mental models his name was Charlie Munger, I am sure this and Munger's are a compilation of many influences to get to their final idea. Nevertheless, the essay was awesome!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Derek Capo&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Ramesh Yeramsetti 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is a truly revealing article from HBR and comes at an appropriate time in the economic turmoil. The key thing to note is that everyone has that innate thirst in ourselves to realize who we are and what we want to achieve. However there is a bar for achievement that current society seems to expect and most people would go to any lengths to achieve it. Have we thought about the long term impacts of our actions - there are more social issues today than there were say 30 years ago. Ancient eastern philosophy from the Bhagavad Gita (http://vedabase.net) talks about the duty of one's life in Karma, Knowledge and devotion. There are several interesting things one can learn from such study - something universities can consider including in their curriculum.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Milind Dhobe 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Steve Jobs after successfully fighting the cancer said the same think as Clayton M. Christensen said in his last paragraph: "Death is very likely the single best invention in life. All external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death,leaving what is truly important".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Milind Dhobe 6 months ago in reply to Milind Dhobe&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Adding to it, I am really grateful to Mr. Christensen for sharing this life changing Wisdom.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Dragoslav 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The article is truly great and confirms what i've been reading in more "esoteric" works on corporate culture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the other hand and with all due respect, i can't help noticing how such paradigm shifts occur AFTER an economic crisis or a personal hardship such as author's. Publishing this five years ago would have probably been inappropriate if not impossible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What i observe beyond this article is a tendency to educate people to focus on personal lives since growth and opportunities expected BEFORE the crisis will never materilize. It reminds me of an anecdote where a journalist spoke in front of a crowd of Chinese students explaining the importance of ecology, recycling and being humble towards Mother Earth. And one of the students complained how that is being taught after the Western Civilization spent all the resources. With a stretch i could say how banks and mismanagement caused the world economic crisis and we, the aspiring managers, should now explain to ourselves and our reports how to be humble and satisfied with what we've got.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for reading.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Janatique2005 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Very fine and meaningful article.Thanks for Professor and Editor for posting this article,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Neha 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good read&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like &lt;br /&gt;Reply&lt;br /&gt; Amnawas 6 months ago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This a robust set of knowledge from Professor Christensen specially in this era.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I agree knowledge and humanity are top most important areas to be practiced more and more if anyone 
